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For Men: Lead A Honest Life And Stop Prioritizing Women And Sex by usermane(m): 3:29pm On Dec 10, 2017
It appears that every blessed day on this section is met by new posts teaching young men how to win over women and get laid more. Often time, these posts enjoin men to douchebaggery at the expense of integrity and rationality.

These posts imply that sex and women are of desperate importance to men and the worth of a man man is a measure of how many women he's dated and slept with.

There seem to be this idealization of bad boy stereotype which is not healthy at all. I wont deny the allure of the bad boy to most women but we need to be reminded that the bad boy is severely flawed as the nice guy that is often bashed relentlessly. The bad boy need validation from the women, he constantly dwell in paranoia, his overt devil may care attitude towards women is typical preemptive strike against women he severely distrust.

The bad boy sees the number of dates and sexual sessions with women to be a measure of his value and although he constantly demean and objectify women, his mind is preoccupied with them, searching for another woman, scheming and plotting his next move to land her in bed. Because on his own the bad boy is never contented, he need women for sex to constantly please and validate himself.

This is the bad boy that women love, and the model that men tired of dating failure seek to emulate.

Men wake up, how often do we find women posting on how to attract men or get men to sleep with them? We are not slaves to lust or affection of women. No man need women or sex to be contented in his life, there are lots of men in willful abstinence.

Don't join the bad boy crowd that encourage dishonesty, self-centeredness, arrogance and cockiness. Don't let your craving for women define you.

Develop your body, your career, lead an honest, exemplary life. Act and decide on basis of justice and truth, not sentiments or emotion. I do not champion celibacy, but don't prioritize women, leave that to the bad boys or perhaps the nice guys.
Re: For Men: Lead A Honest Life And Stop Prioritizing Women And Sex by TIDDOLL(m): 3:43pm On Dec 10, 2017
Nice write up really!!

You know what doh, The world is black and white!!

It can never be all white, neither can it be all black...
Different stroke for different folks....

So..... This right here..... Are just your thoughts...
......not applied to all folks!!
Re: For Men: Lead A Honest Life And Stop Prioritizing Women And Sex by Paulosky1900: 3:52pm On Dec 10, 2017
grin ;Dyou are now giving vaseline crew a go ahead order
Re: For Men: Lead A Honest Life And Stop Prioritizing Women And Sex by MatricNumber(m): 3:54pm On Dec 10, 2017
As in the population of asskissers on this forums is something else.
Re: For Men: Lead A Honest Life And Stop Prioritizing Women And Sex by usermane(m): 1:24am On Dec 11, 2017
Paulosky1900:
grin ;Dyou are now giving vaseline crew a go ahead order

You mean?
Re: For Men: Lead A Honest Life And Stop Prioritizing Women And Sex by djsalvation122(m): 2:30am On Dec 11, 2017
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