Dear Jzhane,

I am a forty two year old man and I have a little problem I need advice on. Recently,I have been having some serious final problems. Where I work,salaries have not been coming in as early as before. As such,things have not been the same. I have a lot of financial difficulties. One of such financial commitment is that my rent has been due for over six months. My landlord has just given us quit notice to leave by the end of the month. My wife and I have been asking for a loan from people we know but non of them have come through to us.

I reached out to a former boss in a previous company. Mrs X and I were close when I was working for that company. I was not married then. We used to be quite close at the time. When I spoke to Mrs X,she asked me to see her in a hotel where she was having a business meeting. When I got to the hotel,I was asked to wait for her in her room as the meeting was still ongoing. I waited until she came back from her meeting around 8.30pm. She wrote a cheque of N1.5M…which is N500k more than my actual rent. I thanked her but she didnt give me the cheque. She asked me to do her a favour. I asked what it was,she said I needed to make her feel like a woman. Mrs X is married but it is like she her husband is a busy business man who travels alot.


At that point,I wanted to walk away. But she said If I slept with her just once,she would dash me the money,it wouldnt be a loan anymore. For a minute,I thought about it. I needed the money and she said this once. Even though I knew I was hurting my wife,I did sleep with Mrs X.

That happened two weeks ago. I have paid my rent . I made up some story as to how I got the money. My wife does not know but I am filled with guilt. Should I tell her? I know she would be very disappointed in me but I reckon she might understand why I had to. I dont want secrets between me and my wife.

Whats your advice.



Tony,

Port Harcourt


Source:http://livelystones.com.ng/2766-2/

Hmmmmmm.

It depends on how mature she is to handle the news.

She may never trust you again or she may want to do hers too to bring in money coz the rent will expire someday and you will be looking for another rent.

Well, prepare your mind for the consequences that may erupt and tell her.

you can start with, iv sinned against heaven and earth. you are no longer worthy to be called her husband. looool.

ORAGBON:


Dear Jzhane,

I am a forty two year old man and I have a little problem I need advice on. Recently,I have been having some serious final problems. Where I work,salaries have not been coming in as early as before. As such,things have not been the same. I have a lot of financial difficulties. One of such financial commitment is that my rent has been due for over six months. My landlord has just given us quit notice to leave by the end of the month. My wife and I have been asking for a loan from people we know but non of them have come through to us.

I reached out to a former boss in a previous company. Mrs X and I were close when I was working for that company. I was not married then. We used to be quite close at the time. When I spoke to Mrs X,she asked me to see her in a hotel where she was having a business meeting. When I got to the hotel,I was asked to wait for her in her room as the meeting was still ongoing. I waited until she came back from her meeting around 8.30pm. She wrote a cheque of N1.5M…which is N500k more than my actual rent. I thanked her but she didnt give me the cheque. She asked me to do her a favour. I asked what it was,she said I needed to make her feel like a woman. Mrs X is married but it is like she her husband is a busy business man who travels alot.


At that point,I wanted to walk away. But she said If I slept with her just once,she would dash me the money,it wouldnt be a loan anymore. For a minute,I thought about it. I needed the money and she said this once. Even though I knew I was hurting my wife,I did sleep with Mrs X.

That happened two weeks ago. I have paid my rent . I made up some story as to how I got the money. My wife does not know but I am filled with guilt. Should I tell her? I know she would be very disappointed in me but I reckon she might understand why I had to. I dont want secrets between me and my wife.

Whats your advice.



Tony,

Port Harcourt


Source:livelystones.com.ng

Don't tell her,she can't handle it now.

Fake story... grow up man. Dont kiss and tell bloody fool. Do you know how many men is banging your wife.

U mean u pay 1m for house rent?

Don't tell her !!!!!

I repeat DONT tell her !!!!!

Imagine !

Atleast , they ought to have moved to a cheaper house.

Definitely , the rent will soon expire.

wtfcoded:
U mean u pay 1m for house rent?

But , if he can handle the consequences , then he should tell her.

Heshei:
Don't tell her !!!!!

I repeat DONT tell her !!!!!