So, I work to be a responsible adult, get my ish together and find a girl who I dig that also digs me. We say we want to take care of each other for the rest of our lives. Her father believe me just as I also believe the man. Now we tell the man we want to get married and they say they want bride price and other things. For what exactly? Why do I have to pay to carry the woman. She be ram? Fine girl, are you a ram?

Mind you I am a man in my 30s o. Be careful how you talk to me, ladies
You may just piss off a prospective suitor.

Get her pregnant and act like you don't care

Na her papa go beg you come carry her for 20k

Airforce1:
Get her pregnant and act like you don't care

Na her papa go beg you come carry her for 20k

Correct one, brother. I have always respected your opinions on this forum.

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MrOmosmiles:

Hope you would give him the same advice if the girl in question is your sister or relative?

I only gave a suggestion, please don't bring my sis into these

kukuma marry her free of charge nah
Dunno what's wrong with men nowadays

MhizzAJ:
kukuma marry her free of charge nah
Dunno what's wrong with men nowadays

Of course, that is what I want to do. I want to carry her away for free. It happens a lot outside this country. Why not here?

WORLDPEACE:
So, I work to be a responsible adult, get my ish together and find a girl who I dig that also digs me. We say we want to take care of each other for the rest of our lives. Her father believe me just as I also believe the man. Now we tell the man we want to get married and they say they want bride price and other things. For what exactly? Why do I have to pay to carry the woman. She be ram? Fine girl, are you a ram?

Mind you I am a man in my 30s o. Be careful how you talk to me, ladies
You may just piss of a prospective suitor.

I agree this brideprice thing should be optional and not by force.There is nothing anybody can tell me to make me support brideprice,to me you are buying the lady and no amount of money can truly buy a human being.And some families no longer accept brideprice because they know culture evolves and it is not static.Truth be told this issue of brideprice is not applicable to the 21st century,the time when it was paid was when women were seen as second class citizens and also as properties.

WORLDPEACE:

Of course, that is what I want to do. I want to carry her away for free. It happens a lot outside this country. Why not here?

It's a very important part of the marriage ceremony
It's just a way of thanking the brides family for taking care of her....i think it's also a form of commitment

Ladyhippolyta88:
I agree this brideprice thing should be optional and not by force.There is nothing anybody can tell me to make me support brideprice,to me you are buying the lady and no amount of money can truly buy a human being.And some families no longer accept brideprice because they know culture evolves and it is not static.Truth be told this issue of brideprice is not applicable to the 21st century,the time when it was paid was when women were seen as second class citizens and also as properties.

Exactly that my Barr

This is a strong reason men should come over to you then I observe them well well for u

Martin0:



Exactly that my Barr

This is a strong reason men should come over to you then I observe them well well for u

Abeg nor make me laugh.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Abeg nor make me laugh.

Hian na wa for u ooo,can't I observe them well In peace again

Airforce1:
Get her pregnant and act like you don't care

Na her papa go beg you come carry her for 20k

Badguy 4gt it afta u gv her belle 1naira no go drop dem go say ma u carry waka provided u fit feed her

Martin0:


Hian na wa for u ooo,can't I observe them well In peace again

No No No.

Ladyhippolyta88:
No No No.

Why?
Atleast u be my friend na,make I still dey observe as part of my care to whoever are friends to me..

Ladyhippolyta88:
I agree this brideprice thing should be optional and not by force.There is nothing anybody can tell me to make me support brideprice,to me you are buying the lady and no amount of money can truly buy a human being.And some families no longer accept brideprice because they know culture evolves and it is not static.Truth be told this issue of brideprice is not applicable to the 21st century,the time when it was paid was when women were seen as second class citizens and also as properties.

Exactly, that's the point. When a practice has become a problem, it should be abolished. Our women are not properties for sale.

Martin0:


Why?
Atleast u be my friend na,make I still dey observe as part of my care to whoever are friends to me..

okay fine,anything you like ooooooooooooooooooooooo.

WORLDPEACE:

Exactly, that's the point. When a practice has become a problem, it should be abolished. Our women are not properties for sale.

God bless you and may God give you the woman you deserve.

Ladyhippolyta88:
okay fine,anything you like ooooooooooooooooooooooo.

Eh eh na now u come,atleast make dem still pass some process from my side before the get to the promise land

Ladyhippolyta88:
okay fine,anything you like ooooooooooooooooooooooo.

Come oo sha na after festive u dey return back to school?
I dey wonder if na inside school u reside or off-camp?

MhizzAJ:

It's a very important part of the marriage ceremony
It's just a way of thanking the brides family for taking care of her....i think it's also a form of commitment

There is no commitment that is bigger than the legally binding contract that me and her are going to sign. All those other things are just obstacles to the wonderful life we want to share.

Martin0:


Eh eh na now u come,atleast make dem still pass some process from my side before the get to the promise land

Okay sir,I would just be referring them to you for proper screening.

Martin0:


Come oo sha na after festive u dey return back to school?
I dey wonder if na inside school u reside or off-camp?

Tell uniben to screen us first and reduce our school fees we nor understand uniben for now.After all these then i can give you a perfect answer.I would let you know as of now i know nothing.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Okay sir,I would just be referring them to you for proper screening.

Confirm babe na u be

Come oo better stop calling me all this sir and oga ooo or I may start calling. you madam ooo,can't u be romantic for once sef abi na most say we go first go into something before u go dey call me sweet sweet names

Ladyhippolyta88:
Tell uniben to screen us first and reduce our school fees we nor understand uniben for now.After all these then i can give you a perfect answer.I would let you know as of now i know nothing.

This is serious!
No wahala I go deliver the message wey u send me
Afterall na u type am not me,so it a message

Ok oo but wait oo,I be think say u don start to dey go school b4 oo,na make me ask if na inside school u dey stay or offcamp

Martin0:


Confirm babe na u be

Come oo better stop calling me all this sir and oga ooo or I may start calling. you madam ooo,can't u be romantic for once sef abi na most say we go first go into something before u go dey call me sweet sweet names

Yes we must go into something first.About "oga" and "sir"I am really used to those words I will have a hard time before I can disassociate from it.

Martin0:



This is serious!
No wahala I go deliver the message wey u send me
Afterall na u type am not me,so it a message

Ok oo but wait oo,I be think say u don start to dey go school b4 oo,na make me ask if na inside school u dey stay or offcamp

No.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Yes we must go into something first.About "oga" and "sir"I am really used to those words I will have a hard time before I can disassociate from it.

Kikikikikikik see sence,so u dey sence the Em Em abi

Come oo u go need to stop am with constant action
We u cry one or twice u will stope it,u know say na iron hand dey fit una na

Ladyhippolyta88:
No.

Ok oo

Ladyhippolyta88:
No.

Ok oo