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Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by lereinter(m): 10:55pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Nutase: na woman get this kind sense 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by baddooski: 11:00pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
ladyF:Madam i thank God for your life o; doing something meaningful..I still remembered vividly that you are always the first to comment on any topic that hit front page back then. |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
I wish I could, my old man makes close to 14 times what I make monthly on the average. I can only buy him some little items to make him happy 1 Like |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by lordonwils(m): 11:29pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
[quote author=emeijeh post=63607249]It doesn't have to be a monthly thing..... But remember them often. At the end, you will be greatly shamed if you have no savings to boast of. So, remember your own savings bank account when salary drops [/quote you are indeed wise |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by emeijeh(m): 11:30pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
ChiefPiiko: Badoo... We didn't finish our discussion the other time. How have you been? Compliments bro |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by emeijeh(m): 11:31pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
[quote author=lordonwils post=63609317][/quote] Thanks man. I am humbled |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Nothing. Not because I am selfish but he doesn't need it. I only buy gifts and lunch once in a while. When I visit home, I do the lawn or spring clean the family house.......no stipend for papa. |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by uprightman(m): 11:39pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
NoLotty7:This your post is for poor parents. There's parents that have investment that gives them more than the amount you mentioned above. But for poor parents you have to call and discuss regularly with them to know their pressing needs.Some parents only need your regular call to show your concern. Even some parents only need seeing you often. Only seeing you makes them happy. I remember when I was in the village ,my uncle Will send beverages like TEA and milk and money. When my uncle visit he will discover that my grandmother will not eat those things. As for the money she will use it to buy expensive ingredients to entertain my uncle in next visit. The point I am trying to make is that you have to look closer to know what they really need. Money may not be every parent need. Individuals differs. 5 Likes |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Chron1cle(m): 11:52pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Nutase:Is that so Tell me more We're discussing parents, but you somehow found a way to enmesh wife into this matter. Hope you know the world does not revolve around girlfriend/wife, thus we must not always see things from wife and girlfriend perspective. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Nobody: 12:08am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Emzyme:This is strong. |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by ladyF(f): 12:20am On Dec 26, 2017 |
baddooski: Hmmm... the competition for FTC is more stiff now o, you can't compare it to back in the days when I was getting it back to back. I've only gotten 1 FTC after close to a week of trying. But I still make FP sha, at al, at all, na him bad pass 1 Like |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Nobody: 12:25am On Dec 26, 2017 |
I am doing good boss, compliments of the season emeijeh: |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Nobody: 12:29am On Dec 26, 2017 |
intruder15:you have correct sense and reasoning! 1 Like |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Nobody: 12:38am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Can i make you MINE, no pun intended? Nutase: |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Nobody: 12:43am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Lilmisshy: You religious lot are funny. Cos there is no social security in Nigeria, a Man has to fend for his parents - in addition to his wife and children, and you are so concerned about churches that can afford to build towns, universities, and private jets? Anyone who doesn't take good care of his wife, children and parents, but religiously pays tithes would find even Jesus heavily disappointed in him/her on judgement day. Organized religion is a leading cause of generational poverty in this country. After paying tax in excess of 20%, paying for your own security, water, electricity e.t.c, paying for your the upkeep of your parents, siblings, wife and children, someone would still be poking their filthy fingers in your face telling you of how you are owing your pastor money. When would you gather enough money to start building your own future - business, house, retirement savings e.t.c Oh, and guess what, if you give in to every charlatan, you would find that you are also going to be in the same position as your parents decades from now - relying on your children to survive. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Mypeople2(m): 12:50am On Dec 26, 2017 |
dieBYfire:Bros that is not the answer to the question .Let me remind you of the question,"How much is your parents receiving from you ?Well, I give them less than |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Lexusgs430: 12:56am On Dec 26, 2017 |
NoLotty7: You have to look at this holistically..... For how long can you keep up the 50K stipends? You are still single, once you get married, what's the affordability rationale going to be? You would also have 2 new adopted parents inlaw. Your wife too, might want to give 50k monthly stipends. Would both of you afford 100K monthly, considering your overall expenses? 4 Likes |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Diso60090(m): 1:44am On Dec 26, 2017 |
purem: 1 Like |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by HydrogenLogo(m): 2:02am On Dec 26, 2017 |
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Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by daryoor(m): 2:35am On Dec 26, 2017 |
you shouldnt be doing it alone though dont u have sibling. or are you the richest child. omo ma shared responsibilty o. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by cinoedhunter: 2:40am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Nutase:Wife material spotted 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by saajus: 5:05am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Don't fix any amount so that your future wife won't get into trouble with your family.. Give according to what gets into your hands that month. If they have special needs, you can attend to them also. Nairalanders, this is an eye opener for everyone. Don't forget your parents. NoLotty7: |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by ImperialYoruba: 5:21am On Dec 26, 2017 |
NoLotty7: I believe this topic should be pinned to the homepage. A lot of lessons should be learnt here. OP, I have only one parent alive but I use the virtue of both to place blessings on your head and pray that your pocket will never dry, may your intention be fruitful and rewarding, and that your life is long to also raise and groom your children in this tradition to become joy for you in old age, Amen! Simply put, this is a welfare programme. There are pertinent information missing so I will ask and you can clarify. Q1. Are your parents still bringing in income? 2. Are they close to retirement? 3. Will they receive pension? 4. Do you have a living will? 5. Do they have a living wheel? 6. How old are your siblings and how many? 1 Like |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by FunmyKemmy(f): 5:37am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Cool |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Benez: 5:55am On Dec 26, 2017 |
While it is a good idea, I opine that if your earning is less than 250k per month, then the budgeted amounts are too much for a start especially a bachelor like you.. Mind you, when you get married, you would have to replicate same to your in-law unless your wife is not aware. My advise is that, reduce the amounts because of future responsibilities and ensure you keep it away from your in-coming wife. Thank you. |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by correctguy101(m): 6:10am On Dec 26, 2017 |
hobermener:I remember one church one girl carry me go Pastor was like : " drop something for your prophet" 1 Like
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Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by theimmortals(m): 6:48am On Dec 26, 2017 |
How is that your business? And some people will be happy disclosing how much they actually give to their parent .Before you disclose that all in the name of showing off, make sure you tell us how much it actually cost your parents to give you good education and good home up bringing. No go do pass yourself No dey do pass yourself |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by bettercreature(m): 6:56am On Dec 26, 2017 |
daryoor:You must be very stingy! You shouldn’t wait for your siblings before you do things for your parent beside it’s not suppose to be a shared responsibility.You can only advice them to contribute but don’t wait for them Give them what you have and leave the rest 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by stchinedu: 7:28am On Dec 26, 2017 |
uprightman: Nice piece. Money is not all. My mum falls into this category.she keeps reminding me that all she wants is to see me often and hear from me. I built a house for her but she still would appreciate seeing me and hearing from me often. |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Bamz(m): 7:38am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Nutase: Too much sense will not kill you. |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Sike(m): 7:43am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Nutase:GBAM!!!! U NO GO LOST. |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by OmoDavido(m): 7:52am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Mum= 50k Dad=120k |
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