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Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Kobicove(m): 8:02am On Dec 26, 2017 |
intruder15: This is a very good comment |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by daryoor(m): 8:53am On Dec 26, 2017 |
bettercreature: giving is for a purpose the way i will give if im the only welm earning child is different from if im the least earning. |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Ekatwins: 8:56am On Dec 26, 2017 |
@OP: pls don't relent in helping ur parents. U get blessed for it, no matter how little u earn. It mustn't be money. It can be some food stuffs or ingredients out of the ones u buy for ur monthly upkeep. That blessing u receive from parents works and long life is guaranteed. Yes I use to give my parents as a corper but not monthly. But as soon as l got a job of N75k I started N5k monthly. As my salary increased, I increased. As at months back, I give mum N13- N15, then dad N10. Later I found out my other siblings don't really care, dey give once in blue moon. So I confided in a friend and he advised me to have a family meeting and involve everyone to contribute according to their status and size of family. And it worked. I taxed everyone based on their pocket. We exempted d one without job. Even the 2 siblings teaching in schs earning N25k each contribute N2500 monthly. No matter how little, it makes everyone responsible for the upkeep of our parents. Our last born is responsible for collating all monies in her account. She sends a reminder to all of us b4 salary is paid and its working. We give mum 70% and dad 30%. Cos dad is a pensioner of about N100k a month, richer than 2 of my siblings but the blessing counts. Now there is no more pressure on me alone. My husband is aware of the family contribution. Now am thinking of modifying it in a way that a little from the money is saved in case any of them has a pressing issue like medical attention etc and if not used withing the year, we'll use it for family Xmas party @december. Pls involve ur siblings. Don't carry dat burden alone Sorry for long post 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Nobody: 9:04am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Nutase:wowwww you made a whole book of wisdom! This actually scattered a man of God's marriage that I know of... You are blessed! 1 Like |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Nobody: 9:14am On Dec 26, 2017 |
I Will Advice You Don't Place Them On Salary; That Will Make You Predictable And When You Disappoint Your Future Wife Will Be Blamed. They Will Think She Influenced You. Remember, Your Parents In-law Will Also Come Into The Picture After Wedding. Give Them Any Amount Anytime As You Can Afford. |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by emeijeh(m): 9:28am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Wish you same boss ChiefPiiko: 1 Like |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by labiola: 10:01am On Dec 26, 2017 |
For me, my dad is late so nothing goes to him. My mum stay with me and still get 10k monthly salary and occasionally gets some money for contingency. My uncle gets 5k monthly and parent in law gets 10k. This is what I can afford now. Your heart of given and your income will determine how much to give. |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by ewen: 10:06am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Nutase: you said it all. It happened to me. |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by pendragon35(m): 11:03am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Emzyme:bro ur own bad ooo..I no fit die..lolxxxx |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by chukzyfcbb: 12:08pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
can DJ cuppy place otedola on monthly stipend? Can davido place his father on monthly stipend? This question is only applicable if your parent is struggling. What if my parents have assets that generate millions annually? Like someone said, this question is for those whose parents are still struggling. For financially balanced mom and dad, just buy them gifts, visit often and support in some things, that's all. Monthly stipend is not for all parents. 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by murphybo(m): 12:34pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
NoLotty7:I will advise you to think twice if you can't continue the ratio after marriage before you put your incoming bride to problem...if you are a trough Yoruba or IBO man you should know what I mean |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by olalekan225(m): 12:40pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Hozier:
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Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by armyofone(m): 8:14pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
No, it must be shared responsibility among her children. They should take turns. Nobody should shoulder taking care of parents alone. bettercreature: |
Re: How Much Do You Give Your Parents As Monthly Stipend? by Miztahbk(m): 10:40pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Lol to b honest,as their own son i gv them 500k per month... Hw is it |
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