GAMEFACE:
why? Would you do same for Instagram and Facebook?

Blackhawk03:
Ain't cut out for unnecessary dramas and shitty bullshit.

I can't be thinking of how to make more money and as well be pondering on why my bf is giving me attitudes or not answering his calls...

If izz nor money and happiness, please stay back in 2017.

izzyybothe17:


how do we kickstart our friendship? Any idea?

Preetiex:
most of u guys cry wen u are friendzone yet u are d ones asking to be friend.hmmm It is well in d well

emusmithy:
The year is about to end and some of us have not yet found that special one.

It's not funny �. Work, work and work but no real lady or guy to call at the end of the day's job to tell how your day went, without the fear that they're not 'karashikas' or 'playboys'.

What's stopped you from kick-starting that relationship?


- Low income
- Not too cute
- Fear of getting on with the wrong guy/girl
- Your village people
- Too choosy
- Too much shakara(forming)
- Waiting for the perfect man



DO YOU BELIEVE YOU CAN FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE here as you would in your workplace, church, neighborhood etc?

Let's stop seeing ourselves as 'virtual beings'- I believe you could meet someone here and actually start something that will culminate into marriage.


Well, I'm just thinking aloud. I even heard Mynd44 is still "available", if you know what I mean. I think lalasticlal.a is still searching too.

You see a cute, prospective and hardworking guy and the next thing you hear, he is single. Same for the ladies. Igwe must hear this!!!


Let's analyse this menace and profer the way forward. Next Year 2017; We've got to have lots of weddings.


Pass the ball...

biggie10:
Omo our Village people have tried this year ooo

Asin they were in top form,

every calamity was a hit back to back, from not having any reasonable savings since January to not having a reasonable relationship with God or Man.

Hats off to those guys, they really tried

Preetiex:
wat is ur definition of real ladies, wia are d real men?

Hantonia:
Dis My Digit 08173540649

Preetiex:
no cry say she friendzone u,cos u say u want to be her friend o

sleepingqueen25:
until I find him..... am gonna make something good out of my singleness.

ttmax09:
Let's negotiate will pick ya calls even if na 2 am

Merceline:


I don't know. The thing is that I don't fall in love easily. Not that a guy has to go far to impress but if we don't click, then forget it. I don't date for the sake of it too, no energy for pretence and all.
I am not bothered about not being in any relationship too. Maybe because I am enjoying peace and freedom.

Xmen149:
finance and lack of good one

work dnt pay much,so always looking for where to invest and that means lil savings,it takes an actual missing limb to cope with that.

but hope jungle go mature well nxt year so i get on with it,

#in recent economy,found out you cnt have all all the money before marriage,just earn enough to take care of basic needs then a lady earning or taking care of your lil setup to support for your huzzle...cos things don spoil walai!.

queencalipso:
fear

emusmithy:


I know...The 'friend' thing must stop in 2017.
I'll start by FOLLOWING you. You can follow back.

queencalipso:
fear

izzyybothe17:


how bout FB add up?

dayod247:
Some of us just have problems. E.g Me. In my 30's now. I have never being in a relationship that lasted up to 8months, why? I get so tired easily. I tired long distance, short distance and middle distance, all na same. The whole wahala and privacy intrusion is just too much sometimes. So I have stopped looking for any relationship, trying to deal with the problem first. I'm even tired sef.

Some say when you find one that is meant to be yours you will stay. Hope that's true. Or do I need help?

Mynd44:

Desperately single?

I think the main problem here is that I enjoy my company too much to be bothered

Jupxter:


[/b]You will be two and will combine your finances[b]. Marriage is partnership don't forget. I used to think this way, till i had a re-think recently. Find companionship while you work on your finances.

tbliss22:

Hello miss..... How was your night? I just sent u a dm

Xmen149:


ya am trying to work on that,but career ladies or those willing to do that in this side of the country are rare and most believes its all about their money (one told me no courtship,ring straight,later found out from a relative she cnt even make indomie(though i cook well) and is dominating cos of career level).

Na huzzle people full this place(fly dreams,always on eatry,etc..hardly see one that can manage finance when its not coming from their pocket ,). But the one will surly come by sha...

SmellingAnus:
you and I share the same trait here...

Jupxter:




Don't say most. I have interacted with a few good independent ladies on this forum. Don't stereotype, go with a clean and free mind and try to increase the ladies you interact with. This wil create opportunities for you to choose the one you want to settle with