WebSurfer:

The things we see ladies do these days
I rather stay at peace with my mind

Gentle034:

Gee you would be surprised, if u ask her why d pressure on marriage, especially if she is a religious person.

WebSurfer:

You know that question is very hard. I’m sure he will start with fornication to cover his tracks .. normal thing very religious fathers will do cos i remember him saying Something hold your body very well on that call earlier

lefulefu:
just take ur time and only get involved with the lady u feel a sort of connection with.if u rush into marriage cos of the pressure u getting from ur parents u might end up with a slayqueen or karashika as a wife.shine ur eye oo.

correctguy101:


She's very religious. A staunch JW

And you know how much them love Jehovah na

Gentle034:

Hehehehe!! But body no be fire wood nau! And this shouldn't be criteria to force one into marriage, if not married men for leave our young girls alone for us.
But then do u like the idea called marrige if it's not forced down on you? Do u plan to settle down in marriage someday?

WebSurfer:

Honestly speaking, I wish I have a baby mama and live life freely until I’m sure of a soulmate (if she exist)
Made mistakes in the past which I still regret till this moment

WebSurfer:

Like I almost did earlier this year. Thx bro

Gentle034:

I know our present society is riddled with slay Queen/hoe, i've also had my own share from this Fugly cake, but then that doesn't mean we should just jump into conclusions and start avoiding dem! If u will always remember that no one is perfect, we all are just striving hard to get perfect, then u would understand that a second chance myt be much sweeter than the first experince.

WebSurfer:

Tired of taking chances cos it’s costing me a lot.. so lemme just live my life in peace

WebSurfer:
My dad is at it again,
How do people cope with these pressures from people around them including family,

I’m just about 27 but my dad keeps worrying me over marriage I am not planning for anytime soon because he thinks i am living very comfortable of which I’m done with the troubles I go through from girls.

Infact I have been happy and having peace of mind lately being out of relationships

Is it a crime to be the only son of a home ?

SULTANALAUDDIN:
You're 27?? I'm just 24 and my mum is always pressuring over not having a fiancée. I don't know how to tell her in my native language that we are in the era of HOES it is difficult to find a good girl.

robotix:
you are over thinking this issue bro how about you create a new account here on nairaland....cos u have revealed too much on this handle and what I want to propose can not be used on this account cos it risky.

I have over 10 handle on nairaland, around 15 I guess. I am using one to woo a girl on Nairaland and she is the one I complained about on the other thread. I have used 2 extra accounts to seek opinions on same issue.

My plan? To marry her cos we are cool on all other issue. That is if she agrees but if not I have other options of course.

So bro, do same if you are okay with it. Honestly, stop revealing your financial status on nairaland. It is not needed. You were not supposed to answer that girl talking about 10m net worth as if 10M is even something to lose ones breath for... When there are guys with 500M in their bank account or even 1Billion.

blackjack21:


Worse is to actually tell her that, she will go find one for you.

WebSurfer:

my dad has did something similar around feb this year.. I had to take a girl home make him chill