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Re: Pregnancy Dilema by ifyan(m): 1:11pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
My bro shakara get him own time to end. When she ready,she go con back beg. Stand as a man so as U wouldn't be manipulated my her. U most ladies of such age are looking for a fast and easy way to trap a man. Be wise |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by kingofchess(m): 1:12pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
donstan18:she did not say a word....i just have 2 leave the house 2 cool off. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by kingofchess(m): 1:15pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
victorakpabome:i am ready to take responsibility....but the problem now is that, she is not returning my calls |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by Nobody: 1:16pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
donstan18: What's your definition of a spouse? These guys are just boyfriend and girlfriend (straffmates). No legal conotation whatsoever |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by kingofchess(m): 1:17pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
fatymore:she is actually pregnant...the doctor gave me the test result himself. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by Nobody: 1:17pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
kingofchess: Let her be. She will come around. Women are like that. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by kingofchess(m): 1:19pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
donstan18:donstan18...if she terminated the pregnancy without my consent. Do i have a case with her by law? |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by fatymore(f): 1:19pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
kingofchess:Let her be for sometime.. Except she is ready to be a sole parent...... |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by Nobody: 1:22pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Age is just a number naa,i am 40 and my boo is 18years. Let her be for now,stop calling her.You hurt her with your words you know. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by Gofwane(m): 1:24pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Are you in love with the lady or her age? |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by donstan18: 1:32pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
victorakpabome: So, your point is this, Any woman(single) is in the right position to decide on what happens to a baby belonging to her and boyfriend. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by Nobody: 1:36pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
donstan18: DONSTAN18 - YES. If the man wants to have a say in this he should have done the necessary engagements to make the union legal. Why do you think we have such a huge rise in the BABYMAMA syndrome nowadays? Its because of thought processes like this. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by donstan18: 1:37pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
kingofchess: Maybe, NO! What if she keeps the baby for you to financially take care of when given birth, and you refuses. Will she have a case against you by law? |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by Nobody: 1:40pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
donstan18: She does. Once a paternity test is carried out when the baby is born. And the result shows him as the rightful father. Then she has a case with him for baby upkeep |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by donstan18: 1:45pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
victorakpabome: So, I ask. What happens when the lady decides to keep the baby when the man doesn't , and as a result of that, the man refuses to accept the baby when given birth. Will she by any legal law, case a file against the man...... No try indulge DNA point here mk I no punch u. Concerning the baby mama issue, most of those women don't have any other choice than to keep if for celebrities. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:49pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Op my advice is that at 33,she is not too old to be ur wife and from what you said she doesn't look it. She lied about it,yes but pls forgive her and as per not picking ur calls,send her a text message and explain why you said all those things to her. If truly you want to meet her people ,go ahead with your plans Nd inform her when your people intend going over to meet her people. Once she see the seriousness in you,she will mellow down and I bet you,she will also apologize for lying to you. Ope u luv her? |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by Nobody: 1:52pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
donstan18: Then he becomes known as a DEADBEAT dad |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by donstan18: 1:54pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
victorakpabome: You and kingofchess just de burst my head with these yarns. -Abortion will be done when the lady decides. -The baby will be kept if the lady decides. If all these claims have been happening in Nigeria, why then are women(single) scared of getting pregnant. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by Nobody: 2:00pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
donstan18: Single women are scared of getting pregnant for some of the following reasons: 1. Fear of their mate actually accepting the pregnancy 2. Fear of their parents rebuttal 3. Fear of complications that could arise from abortion 4. Fear of the stigma associated with being pregnant out of wedlock 5. Fear of the complications that arise from pregnancy 6. Fear of losing their shape from the pregnancy etc etc etc Brother the list many |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by donstan18: 2:03pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
kingofchess: She's way matured. She messed up by telling you lies, and you fvcked up by not being unable to manage your anger. Just meet her up for proper discussion. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by donstan18: 2:03pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
victorakpabome: You and kingofchess just de burst my head with these yarns. -Abortion will be done when the lady decides. -The baby will be kept if the lady decides. If all these claims have been happening in Nigeria, why then are women(single) scared of getting pregnant. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by donstan18: 2:08pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
victorakpabome:DEADBEAT dad Burst my head!!! |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by MrPresident1: 2:08pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
kingofchess: Pray to God, and accept responsibility for your baby and woman. When you smashed you were already married. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by donstan18: 2:11pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
victorakpabome:Ma nigga I don't get your number 1 reason. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by kingofchess(m): 2:28pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
JONNYSPUTE:thank u very much. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by kingofchess(m): 2:31pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
donstan18:guy u r too much. Thank u |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by JONNYSPUTE(m): 2:34pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
kingofchess:. You re welcome bro. Don't allow it to worry you so much. She is scared of ur actions that's why she left,OK. Text her,and let her know how sorry you are. I wish you good luck. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by kingofchess(m): 2:56pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
JONNYSPUTE:thanks... I will |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by Nobody: 3:05pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
pocohantas:Hm! See question oo. But Op need to answer this question seriously. |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by kingofchess(m): 5:24pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
chisco82:very funny question |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by ochibuogwu5: 12:17pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
Go to the throne of Grace, ask God to forgive both of you this sin of fornication, Ask Jesus Christ to show both of you HIS MERCY AND RELEASE HIS GRACE through HIS HOLY SPIRIT to direct both of you *aright*; HE IS ALWAYS READY TO FORGIVE, SHOW MERCY AND RELEASE HIS GRACE IN TIMES OF NEED no matter how many times you committed sin and the depth of such sin{Hebrews 4:16} however HIS GRACE gives each one of you the capacity to *say no to future sin*, reject all *unholy relationships/intercourse/ideas* and live up to God's righteous standard TILL JESUS CHRIST COMES AGAIN thus "He{THE HOLY SPIRIT} will also strengthen you to the end so that you may be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ" (1 Cor.1: 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Dilema by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
A 33yrs old lady won't attempt abortion, so man chillas. 1 Like |
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