AM kind of confused n i need help plz how can u tell if ur chick is a virgin?

my brother, there is no way of telling if she is a virgin or not until you actually sleep with her. But if she tells you she is and her body language and actions agree with it and she came from a decent family, then believe her

If I may ask, why do you need to know if she is a virgin?,

Well my girlfriends says she is one. Am doubting i just want 2 know i can can find out if she truly is. It's more of a distant relationship and there was a day she told me she masturbated and she later found out that she was bleeding, is this possible?. Although we get close to eachother but she never allow the real thing to happen. it;s either fingering or i use my toungue. She recently told me that she does not want the real thing to happen coz she wants to remain a virgin until after marriage.

x real i guess , she is lieing to u, u cant bleed in masturbation except u go deep, in which case u dont even want to be a virgin, u understand, my advice is open yur eyes

she lied to you .

Na wa o, if a girl is fingered how can she still be a virgin agin

Let me take a wild guess here ; She is certainly not one

nduleme:

Na wa o, if a girl is fingered how can she still be a virgin agin
Let me take a wild guess here ; She is certainly not one

so naive!

using a tampon doesn't mean u no longer a virgin, so why the finger then?

she no longer a virgin to fingering, but still a virgin to vaginal intercourse, u can be a virgin to different things, although being called a virgin is attributed more to the act of coitus, which involves the use of a penis.

so fingering a girl does not mean she's longer a virgin, although some men might think not. that then is their problem.

x-real:

Well my girlfriends says she is one. Am doubting i just want 2 know i can can find out if she truly is. It's more of a distant relationship and there was a day she told me she masturbated and she later found out that she was bleeding, is this possible?. Although we get close to eachother but she never allow the real thing to happen. it;s either fingering or i use my toungue. She recently told me that she does not want the real thing to happen because she wants to remain a virgin until after marriage.

do u want her to bleed when u guys have intercourse for the first time, so she masturbated and probably broke her hymen or maybe she didnt, all that matters is that she claims she hadnt had sex with a man b4. there's no way u can disprove that. so take it or leave it. hopefully with time, u ll tell

nduleme:

Na wa o, if a girl is fingered how can she still be a virgin agin

Let me take a wild guess here ; She is certainly not one

Dude why not finger a virgin for close 20mins and see later in day, that she will hola at you on phone and tells you
" Dear i'm feeling some pains"

it's a different case for  a girl who is disflowered

smartsoft:

Dude why not finger a virgin for close 20mins and see later in day, that she will hola at you on phone and tells you
" Dear i'm feeling some pains"

it's a different case for a girl who is disflowered

what kind of fingers are u guys working with sef?, abeg and to be fingering a girl for 20mins is jus plain nasty kai, get a job

bluenubian:

what kind of fingers are u guys working with sef?, abeg and to be fingering a girl for 20mins is jus plain nasty kai, get a job

damn it yall too raw

shut up, why point me out?, dint u see ur dudes that said it, keep stalking me on NL

am sorry didnt knew i had ur quote, n hey stop dat shyt iight, aint in da good mood pls dnt make take it out on u pls, am sorry

well apology accepted, am not trying to pick on u, u can take it out on me all u want, except i wont sit here and listen to it. next time be clear b4 u jus quote whoever

put your mind at ease she is still a virgin, Sounds like she just tore her hymen, the membrane covering the entrance of her vagina. she is still a virgin until she has sexual intercourse .

poke her and see

lol just tryin to be naughty

I guess you have to take her words for it but from your tone, you sound like you probably forced your way with her. Poor girl. Some of you guys have no clue and to the clown talking about palming a girl for 20mins I mean really? Just like you probably think thrusting your wood heavily into the cat gives pleasure too