Men like to hear loving remarks just as much as women if not more. They like to think of themselves as 'macho man', but deep inside some of them are very emotional, sensitive and like to be nurtured just as much as women..

A responsible man works so hard to be the bread winner, supports his wife, helps with the kids and wants to be extremely independent.. Your man wants you to show him how much you appreciate him and how you feel about him..

Here are a few tips to make your man happy and keep your marriage sparking:


1. Always try to 'lighten his load' - After a hard day of work, men seem to get more aggravated and annoyed if they had a bad day at work. Sometimes they get frustrated to the point of yelling and screaming.. They may not mean it, but this is how they get.. Always smile when he comes home walking through the door, approach him with a passionate kiss, then sit down for dinner together.. Chat and let him tell you about his day, how it went, and if he’s upset why..

Do yourself a favor, lend your ear and let him vent. When he’s done then ask him how he feels about what happened, what’s he going do to make it better, and if he is OK.. Please! don’t tell him what to do, suggest what he can do otherwise this can cause a huge fight.. Note, When couples are upset they might say things that they really don’t mean, but once the damage is done one of you or both will get hurt. Be each others friend not just lovers..


2. Show him that you interested in his hobbies - If he enjoys football, surprise him even if you don’t care for the game that much without asking you. Grab a pillow, blanket, some popcorn, and sit and watch the game with him. You can even record the game for him if he is not at home from work yet. Maybe while watching the game during the commercials, have him explain to you what the game is about if you’re really not familiar with it..

Grab his hand, massage his back, massage his neck or just plant a kiss on him during or at intervals.. Don’t just sit there like a bump on a log and think to yourself OK when is this darn game gonna be over.. Enjoy it you will be surprised sometimes how interested you will become, you might even end up liking it more than him. Your man enjoys what you do so why can’t you enjoy what he does? This will benefit the two of you and bring you closer together... READ MORE »

This should be two sided no be the guy dey carry all the relationship load...if the bae no join carry im neck go crack oooo....by using the right hand to wash the left will make hands clean...the success of a relationship is shouldered on the cooperation and the communication of the people involved...