donnaD:

pls appreciate ur wife,she is doing all these for both of u well being by the way it's her sweat and money.when the blessings begin to flow u will not complain that it's way too much oo.learn to stand by her decisions.tank God she is not materialistic.

lekonso:

I warn you very seriously if you do anything to that your wife because of what she has done, you will see the anger of God. In any case i'm very sure you will come back to this platform to share the testimony of what God has done in the life of your wife. She does not need to tell you before she obeys God, so that you will not prevent her. If she has told you, you will not allow her to obey God.

majormofor:
I av only one question!!!!Was it You(op) dat found out she gave d salary out or she told u after doing it (not dat u asked for it).the ansa to dis Question will say a lot..

lawman88:
Thank you all for your advice. Me and my wife appreciate your views. I'm not against seed sowing, I felt I should be informed. I hardly turns down her request and I don't discuss my family affair with neighbors or parents, I just posted it here to get random views. I have gave consent to hard request: She has apologized for not telling me before sowing the seed and I have accepted. No love lost...we wish u a prosperous and a praying year....

bionixs:
dem swear for you? did you read pastor or rev.father?

stanliwise:

You're welcome. How about the message.

stanliwise:

You're welcome. How about the message.

lawman88:
Happy new year Nairalanders,

My wife is very churchy and spiritual. I love her for that but she told me this morning that the spirit ministered to her to sow something huge to a reverend father, so she carried all her December salary and gave to a reverend father. I asked her why she didn't notify me before she undertook it and she said such instructions should be carried out without anybody's knowledge.

I'm not a catholic member, I'm RCCG. catholic members in the house, is that how your doctrine is? We are young couple and I wish we don't have any serious disagreement for now.

lawman88:


Your delusion has reached its crescendo. So you think I will lie about my marital issues

lawman88:

Even before we marry, I told her she will be going to school immediately after marriage and finish her course work as postgraduate student before we even talk of pregnancy but she said she wants to give birth to a child first. My parents don't even put any pressure on her and her own parents are already dead. So I don't know where pressure is coming from

Peterosky:
My brother I understand how you feel about her doing a thing like that without informing you. But my dear, if she says she was led by the spirit to do so, then don't get offended. Just be happy because there is sure going to be a very good reward for her action .I would have advised you to warn her seriously if she had said her Reverend father asked her to do so because some pastors can be very funny. Imagine my pastor asked all members to bring their January salary as first fruit to the church. I'm am still praying that God gives me the grace to comply with the command.

lawman88:
Happy new year Nairalanders,

My wife is very churchy and spiritual. I love her for that but she told me this morning that the spirit ministered to her to sow something huge to a reverend father, so she carried all her December salary and gave to a reverend father. I asked her why she didn't notify me before she undertook it and she said such instructions should be carried out without anybody's knowledge.

I'm not a catholic member, I'm RCCG. catholic members in the house, is that how your doctrine is? We are young couple and I wish we don't have any serious disagreement for now.

pocohantas:


Nigerian women are naturally under pressure, I wouldn't doubt you if you say no one is pressurising her. The womb-watchers are timing us, how else do we prove to them that we're not refurbished oloshos? You sef put yourself in our shoes...

Pierohandsome:
i dnt need to quote u scriptures to convince u, we are not in a law court. And ur statement here is out of point. Whether she acted in emotion or not is nobody's business, i made my point based on the post that states it out of divine instruction.

As for women in the bible, why didnt mary tell Joseph abt the pregnancy of Jesus whn the Angel Gabriel appear to her in luke 1 :35

stanliwise:

You're welcome. How about the message.

baum1:


Bro, please send me the message - audio or video. My email is baumtenpers@gmail.com. Thanks. Blessings

seuncyrus:


In as much as I dont see anything wrong with what the woman did ( except for the fact that she didn't tell her husband ) I think we need to stop this mentality that its until we " sow seeds" that God answers our prayers ...so many people have been swindled all in the name of " sowing seeds" to different "Mog"

seuncyrus:


In as much as I dont see anything wrong with what the woman did ( except for the fact that she didn't tell her husband ) I think we need to stop this mentality that its until we " sow seeds" that God answers our prayers ...so many people have been swindled all in the name of " sowing seeds" to different "Mog"

lawman88:


Lol....even this morning I gave her 4k as she was going to work. She works with FCMB and I was thinking of stopping her so that she go for postgraduate studies

wirinet:


Are you sure you are Catholic? There is nothing like the doctrine of sowing of seed in catholism, that is a pentecostal creation. The only giving in catholism is general offerings or offerings for specific purposes, ie, building projects, offerings for the poor, harvest, etc.

Parishioners are allowed to give reverend fathers gifts like food, drinks and other material items, but giving tithes, seed offerings, money to the Reverend fathers personally is not encouraged in the Catholic Church
What will the father do with your money? Reverend fathers are paid salary, a house, a cook, a house help and sometimes a car with a driver. The Reverend Fathers will not wear armani suits, will not buy a jet plane, will not build a mansion for himself and definitely does not have wife and kids to cater for.

If the lady gave the money to the church, That would be understandable ( but still wrong since she did not inform her husband ), but to give money personally to a reverend father for blessing is not Catholic doctrine.

Richy4:
can you just imagine OP opening a joint account with the wife in future?

Pierohandsome:
Spiritual obedience is sensitive and personal. She acted based on the knowledge of ur spiritual level, decisions like that doesnt require any consultation frm third party especially if she knows the spiritual level of the person she is trying to confide with is low.

She did the right thing, be happy with Her and move on

lawman88:

Yes. She is trying to conceive. The marriage is just four months

alexialin:









At the bolded, me sef I taya o.

Have never heard of such before o. Until she said it with her own mouth.

I looked at her with shock and disbelief. I was like what?


She said: I had to sow my salary, I was meant to pay u to my Pastor. But don't worry February I will pay it back.
There and then ehn? I just hated the Pastor, then the lady? I gave her a piece of mind.

She was like don't worry, I will pay it back. If not that she's a matured lady. I don't know what I would have done that day. I had to swallow my fury and wait till February. Can u imagine? Pastor wey get more than enough, dey follow me struggle what's been owed to me.

Anyways God dey.

delishpot:



Nne, if you sit-down for some programed wey pastor dey market sowing seed, you no go know when you go sell your pickin take sow. All my life I have been going to church, one in particular nearly made me carry school fees sow seed. Thank God say I went with my room mate. He told me to respect myself and sow with sense. I was in the uni then. There are ways one can sow seed and have it work but it works not because of the seed but because of the energy released by the act while it was been done by the sower. Many sow in vain without that knowledge.

lawman88:

I didn't ask and did not find out. She just simply wish to tell me on her own volition

delishpot:



Nne, if you sit-down for some programed wey pastor dey market sowing seed, you no go know when you go sell your pickin take sow. All my life I have been going to church, one in particular nearly made me carry school fees sow seed. Thank God say I went with my room mate. He told me to respect myself and sow with sense. I was in the uni then. There are ways one can sow seed and have it work but it works not because of the seed but because of the energy released by the act while it was been done by the sower. Many sow in vain without that knowledge.