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Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by jericco1(m): 6:34am On Jan 03
there's an eBook for this kind of thing.
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by agongajoseph(m): 6:40am On Jan 03
Purebeerry:
As you guys are talking you can just say "I love you", " I cherish you", "You are the best" , "I love kissing you" etc.

If its my man as we are talking, he might just interrupt the conversation and start calling me sweet name, and mostly funny sweet names, like obim, my Bugatti, my iphone8, my Ferrari, my heartbeat etc. cheesy.

Try and be romantic OK, I know its hard.

Just so you know, ladies love to feel special.
pls dont do this o..... the lady that posted this can't tell u she's faithful to her bf.
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by Nobody: 6:41am On Jan 03
agongajoseph:
pls dont do this o..... the lady that posted this can't tell u she's faithful to her bf.
I am very faithful, he doesn't even give me the chance to cheat sef.
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by agongajoseph(m): 6:45am On Jan 03
Purebeerry:
I am very faithful, he doesn't even give me the chance to cheat sef.
why na... he shud pls give u d chance to cheat joor, but there's a way u can do it
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by Airforce1(m): 6:45am On Jan 03
Purebeerry:
I am very faithful, he doesn't even give me the chance to cheat sef.

Meaning he bleeps you like almost everyday so you don't look outside ?


Your down there must be wide like Atlantic ocean cheesy
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by jeff1607(m): 6:49am On Jan 03
Give her something light
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by CorGier: 6:52am On Jan 03
But what's the point of romance to couples in a non-sexual relationship? Why punish yourself like that by starting what you can't finish?

Any guy in such an arrangement would clearly be disadvantaged cos she would put the whole onus of the keeping the relationship interesting on you. The problem now is that your girl is bored, she's freaking tired of hearing you open your mouth talking about the same damn trite stuffs all the time.

Me thinks you both need to stop faking romance and go sexual, you can't give what you don't have nah - that's why you blank out of sh!t to say in such situations cos you both aren't just like that.... yet.
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by Nobody: 7:11am On Jan 03
agongajoseph:
why na... he shud pls give u d chance to cheat joor, but there's a way u can do it
So now you want me to cheat.
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by agongajoseph(m): 7:14am On Jan 03
Purebeerry:
So now you want me to cheat.
its normal for girls na. It's a normal tin to compare dicks. ...change diet joor
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by Derawiz(m): 7:16am On Jan 03
Brodello:


Bro I understand you.

I'm into a successful business already and this lady is part of my success story.

She has been there even when everything was against all odds.

I don't want someone like that to just go...

Man needs to be romantic at times Na.

She's part of my future oo.

Well, if you're already doing well good for you.
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by Nobody: 7:19am On Jan 03
agongajoseph:
its normal for girls na. It's a normal tin to compare dicks. ...change diet joor
Devil get behind me angry.

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Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by MetroBaba1(m): 7:46am On Jan 03
Derawiz:
If you spent the time you're using to seek for advice on how to please a girl on your future and setting up goals, 2018 would be your best year ever.
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by funmisticqueen(f): 7:58am On Jan 03
Brodello:
Please ladies and gents, I seriously need your help here; I need it like mad.

There's this lady I like. and I love her scatter.

We have a good rapport. We could talk for hours without anyone getting bored but the problem comes when she says I should tell her something nice.

In my mind, I would be like "This one we are talking about since is what"?

Most of the times when she says I should tell her something nice, I would just gist her till she doesn't ask me again.

I have been doing this until yesterday....

We were talking on phone then she said tell me something nice, I'm about to sleep. Then she came online on Facebook. I just started yarning unnecessary gist.

Then she asked again.... I felt like the ground should just swallow me right there.

Then she said "You don't want to tell me something nice because you are not Romantic"

Father Lord... I don't know where the headache came from. I just started having unnecessary headache.

I felt she meant I should tell her sweet words but I didn't know how to start it to make it flow. Me that was gisting you before, how do I just switch to sweet talking and make it flow.

I don't know if you get?

Or what else could she mean when she says "Tell me something Nice"

I want to be my best. I can do anything for this lady.

I have gone to YouTube for help.... Nothing. Maybe I'm not typing the right queries. I've also searched Google.

Please ladies... Guys... Save me from this embarrassment. cry

If you like put insult. Words dey pepper me well well, maybe my head will open embarassed

Be prepared, my post is very long, but i am sure it will be helpful.
guy, when next she says you are not romantic, you can ask her what she means by being romantic. Now you have to be careful so as not to say it in a way that will make her angry. Ask her to teach you how to be romantic to her in the way that is special for only her. Ask her the way a school student will ask a teacher a question if he is truly interesred in getting an answer.

She may reply you straight fowardly, in puzzles, or might be rude or snide to you. But however she replies it keep your cool. Let me give you an example.

Girl[/color]: goodnight dear, i have to go to work tomorrow.

Guy: [color=#000099]
: good night dear. Love ya.

Girl[/color]: : thanks o, but dear wont you say anything romantic.

Guy[color=#000099]
: yeah i know l'm unromantic, but darling you know i love u right. Concerning this issue sef, i even tried to ask for help from google, online forums( dont say friends o, or she might think you kiss and tell) and what i realise is that no matter how many cheesy words they dish out. Those words will never be special enough for you.
So dear how do you want me to be romantic enough that is special for just you only. See ehn, i will learn, let me bring note book sef.

Girl[/color]: : ( would give you an answer which may be like romeo and juliet, or sexually, or she herself may be nonspecific meaning that she cant really express herslf but when she hears what she wants, she would know it, or maybe rudely in which case you would pet her and say, ' it is not like that na')

Guy: [color=#000099]
: oh thanks dear that is what i love about you, so honest, you know how to make anyone want to learn from you.( Then say something romantic that is like her reply
).

Girl[/color]: : (would blush and feel like a superstar making you feel like one too)

Guy: [color=#000099]
good night dear, love you, dont worry i will only dream about you this night, just like every other night. (Then kiss thru the phone or if you are not on that level, hug thru the phone)

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Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by Marcelo290(m): 10:57am On Jan 03
Which part of being romantic don't you understand? Tell her sweet things naa
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by Marshalxv(m): 11:49am On Jan 03
She constantly telling you to say sweet things to her means she love u and wants to stick with you.
She wants to hear those sweet words other guys say to her from u .
You can start by calling her sweet funny names in the middle of ur conversation, names like. my cup cake,my burger ,my balance diet....and the rest.

tell her how much she mean to you and the future plans u have for both of u.
tell her those things u text her,these are the things she wants to hear from u bro.Do this and you'll have her for good.
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by adekhingz(m): 12:31pm On Jan 03
Tell her, "babe. You mean everything to me. I'm going to bed now, but trust me, I'm gonna be seeing you in my dreams. I love you darling. I wish you were my pillow; I'd have been assured of a more peaceful sleep. talk to you tomorrow again dear. I love you"

that's all
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by Weselion(m): 3:00pm On Jan 03
Awesome
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by akaahs(m): 5:28pm On Jan 03
Brodello:


Okay.

What do you think should be my reply when next she asks?

Thanks for your reply.
Bros, wat she simply want to hear from u is just to tell her about how u feel about her, wat u ll do to keep her, d good part of her u like most as her good character nd habit, how u ll cuddle her nd cares her wen u guyz are together, talk about d future, how u like her b part of u, how u can't stop being a good man to her, how u ll loved to cook for her. Bros just imagine ur life without her nd pour it to her, period
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by Yommy247(m): 8:58pm On Jan 03
leverage:
grin organize gang r*pe
Product of rape spotted
Re: She Said I'm Not Romantic --- Any Advice? by ivyT(f): 9:54pm On Jan 03
leverage:

Funny? Lady that's f*cking romantic
Boring..

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