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What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by DiDeBee(m): 6:42am On Jan 03
Hello NL,
A sincere advice pls, what do you do wen your woman does all to show she loves you but still keeps some familiar guys around?
By familiar I mean, you hv noticed a particular person or persons she still keeps tab with....
Could she be forming the same love with him or them and should it matter to me?? embarassed lipsrsealed
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by moshood521: 6:47am On Jan 03
guy jst cut ur hope in 2...
dats mah kinda advice

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by AlexCk: 6:53am On Jan 03
DiDeBee:
Hello NL,
A sincere advice pls, what do you do wen your woman does all to show she loves you but still keeps some familiar guys around?
By familiar I mean, you hv noticed a particular person or persons she still keeps tab with....
Could she be forming the same love with him or them and should it matter to me?? embarassed lipsrsealed

It's possible they are just buddies, it's possible there's nothing going on with them too, guess u have to trust her bro, she's entitled to have friends sha,
U can always communicate, or tease her about her 'familiar friend', to find out things.

May the force be with you

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by OrestesDante(m): 6:56am On Jan 03
angry



∆ Free Zoned... Don't be surprised ∆

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by Craziestgirl(f): 7:02am On Jan 03
It simply means
you are not worthy of being
the only one.

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by gabinogem(m): 7:06am On Jan 03
Craziestgirl:
It simply means
you are not worthy of being
the only one.
lol...badt gial
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by gabinogem(m): 7:09am On Jan 03
AlexCk:


It's possible they are just buddies, it's possible there's nothing going on with them too, guess u have to trust her bro, she's entitled to have friends sha,
U can always communicate, or tease her about her 'familiar friend', to find out things.

May the force be with you
it's also possible she's just 'freestyling'

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by DiDeBee(m): 7:13am On Jan 03
AlexCk:


It's possible they are just buddies, it's possible there's nothing going on with them too, guess u have to trust her bro, she's entitled to have friends sha,
U can always communicate, or tease her about her 'familiar friend', to find out things.

May the force be with you

Thnks...but Would hv thought of 'just buddies' too, not until I accidentally bombed into some of their conversations undecided....dats wen her sincerity became questionable
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by sekxyqueen(f): 7:13am On Jan 03
free yourself from such disastrous mind set..
I think you are just acting so insecure angry

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by Nobody: 7:14am On Jan 03
She is good at cheating, you can't do anything about it. Lolz.

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by DiDeBee(m): 7:15am On Jan 03
moshood521:
guy jst cut ur hope in 2...
dats mah kinda advice

Hmmm,...very sad most possible option at d moment...might even ruin us mehnnn embarassed
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by ubunja(m): 7:18am On Jan 03
if she loves you but insists on keeping others then demote yourself to the level of others and still stay on good books with her.
there is no point in paying to be with someone who others get to be with for free.

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by KushyKush: 7:18am On Jan 03
Never put all your hopes in one basket. Go for a backup girlfriend incase anything happens.

Works all the time.

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by DiDeBee(m): 7:21am On Jan 03
sekxyqueen:
free yourself from such disastrous mind set..

I think you are just acting so insecure angry

Hmmmm, don't think dis is insecurity thanks....how do u explain sm other person expressing affectionate feelings to your spouse and she kips absorbing them and roll along wit d person?....is dat supposed to b overlooked
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by cerowo(f): 7:23am On Jan 03
It may surprise you that they are jst friends and nothing attached....
But wait o, is she your galfriend or yr friend that's caring and u think she's showing u greenlight?
Be sure.

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by DiDeBee(m): 7:24am On Jan 03
ubunja:
if she loves you but insists on keeping others then demote yourself to the level of others and still stay on good books with her.
there is no point in paying to be with someone who others get to be with for free.

Thinking if dat too but will being her second -class citizen make me feel better?? It doesn't feel like it will lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by DiDeBee(m): 7:26am On Jan 03
cerowo:
It may surprise you that they are jst friends and nothing attached....
But wait o, is she your galfriend or yr friend that's caring and u think she's showing u greenlight?
Be sure.

My real bae.....as in point 1.....no second.
And trust me their conversation is deeper than jst frnds
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by sekxyqueen(f): 7:26am On Jan 03
DiDeBee:


Hmmmm, don't think dis is insecurity thanks....how do u explain sm other person expressing affectionate feelings to your spouse and she kips absorbing them and roll along wit d person?....is dat supposed to b overlooked
was that what she told you,you just fabricate such intuitive just to lament on


there are still girls that role with guys and still have nothing to do with them in terms of emotional attachment. .

though I wouldn't advice a lady in relationship to be rolling with numerous guys cos at one point in time...the tendency of going out of the initial lane will be high...

just be sure of the kinda things they discuss and the type of places that intersect and all whatnot...


do not be led by hallucinations anyway..

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by DiDeBee(m): 7:35am On Jan 03
sekxyqueen:

was that what she told you,you just fabricate such intuitive just to lament on


there are still girls that role with guys and still have nothing to do with them in terms of emotional attachment. .

though I wouldn't advice a lady in relationship to be rolling with numerous guys cos at one point in time...the tendency of going out of the initial lane will be high...

just be sure of the kinda things they discuss and the type of places that intersect and all whatnot...


do not be led by hallucinations anyway..

Fabrication - Nope
Hallucinations - Not even close

Thanks but I intercepted their deep conversations, the only missing part is their MEETing...but wen I mean deep it was deep, if they havnt met before they will definitely meet sooner
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by xrisdgreat(m): 7:44am On Jan 03
obviously,deres a problem..talk 2 her abwt it,tell her u dont like it.
if it where to be u dats doin that,hope she'l b fine about it.

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by FiringSquad(m): 7:53am On Jan 03
xrisdgreat:
obviously,deres a problem..talk 2 her abwt it,tell her u dont like it.

if it where to be u dats doin that,hope she'l b fine about it.
dont do that mahn!...thats when she'll do more either to piss you off or make you to jealous,stand up and be in charge,there are many other ways you could send that message....

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by xrisdgreat(m): 7:57am On Jan 03
FiringSquad:
dont do that mahn!...thats when she'll do more either to piss you off or make you to jealous,stand up and be in charge,there are many other ways you could send that message....

be creative,wat way do u think
VIOLENCE or?

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by DiDeBee(m): 8:11am On Jan 03
FiringSquad:
dont do that mahn!...thats when she'll do more either to piss you off or make you to jealous,stand up and be in charge,there are many other ways you could send that message....

Exactly, dats y am here...other ways like??
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by AlexCk: 8:14am On Jan 03
gabinogem:
it's also possible she's just 'freestyling'
lol, na y trust important, see the pix below, lol.
'Trust', could be nothing. Lol

DiDeBee:


Thnks...but Would hv thought of 'just buddies' too, not until I accidentally bombed into some of their conversations undecided....dats wen her sincerity became questionable

Bummer,
Well, cuz u say she shows u that she' really loves u, that's y i feel she may just be having harmless funny chats with the buddy. I could be wrong tho, na y trust important, like i wrote b4, tease her about it, make we hear wetn e go tawk.

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by moshood521: 8:16am On Jan 03
DiDeBee:


Hmmm,...very sad most possible option at d moment...might even ruin us mehnnn embarassed

abi nah..
nah to hustle 4 nw ni jawe...
i gt gal mk dea try do dat kinda poo wif me sef..
buh me nah gt all dat kinda tym

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by DiDeBee(m): 8:33am On Jan 03
xrisdgreat:
obviously,deres a problem..talk 2 her abwt it,tell her u dont like it.

if it where to be u dats doin that,hope she'l b fine about it.

Thanks...did dat some tym ago and she stopped.
Probably bcus i was around.
Surprisedly she is still doing it discreetly
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by cerowo(f): 8:35am On Jan 03
DiDeBee:

My real bae.....as in point 1.....no second. And trust me their conversation is deeper than jst frnds
Then why don't sit her down nd talk sense into her

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by DiDeBee(m): 8:37am On Jan 03
cerowo:

Then why don't sit her down nd talk sense into her

I did dat thanks.
Jst observed she still went back to it, dats y it baffles me
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by izaray(f): 8:39am On Jan 03
Come guy, m
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by cerowo(f): 8:40am On Jan 03
DiDeBee:


I did dat thanks.
Jst observed she still went back to it, dats y it baffles me
Then it means she aren't bothered if you are affectd or not.
If possible why don't cut her off, cause it seems she's interested with the other guy

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Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by DiDeBee(m): 8:42am On Jan 03
cerowo:

Then it means she aren't bothered if you are affectd or not.
If possible why don't cut her off, cause it seems she's interested with the other guy

Really wish she accepted that. Would have been much easier for me to move on if I need to.
Re: What To Do When She Does All To Show She Loves You, But Still Keeps Others? by cerowo(f): 8:48am On Jan 03
DiDeBee:


Really wish she accepted that. Would have been much easier for me to move on if I need to.
Man up dude

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