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Advice Needed Please by kozmokaz(m): 9:43am On Jan 03, 2018 |
Been a regular visitor on this platform , and honestly I must commend you guys (romance landers ) Well I believe most guys got issues in there relationship/romance life but can't man up to seek advice from people and it still kills them slowly ( psychologically). Well I choose to be different sha : Met this gal in my 100lv in one of of GSS courses , funny enough the hall was so crowded(mouau students can relate) but her beauty still stood out . We got talking and she actually sounded nice , we were actually in same college( CEET) engineering college . Didn't get her number that day ( I actually didn't ask ) , days passed , then weeks, I never got to see her . When I was about moving on with my live , she popped out from the blues and that was when it all started we got talking and became friends and from just friends to close friends (no intimacy ) though my friends think we are dating ...she is so smart and intelligent ( my perfect kinda girl) she is also fun to be with and lovely too . Few weeks back , prior to sch resumption , we got chatting and she popped up a question "What am I to you ?" I thought it was time to take it to a new level , then I took the bull by the horn only for her to present to me the greatest shock of my life and I quote " I love you as a friend , I really do but I think I will appreciate you more if we are just friends " This words honestly rendered me "psychologically impotent " though I told her immediately that am cool with that @ least you still appreciate our friendship Really need advice guys I think am loosing it NB no insults pls |
Re: Advice Needed Please by kozmokaz(m): 9:54am On Jan 03, 2018 |
Need no view ! Need advice ! |
Re: Advice Needed Please by MummyIMadeIt: 10:33am On Jan 03, 2018 |
Youth of this days..... Go and find something more reasonable to do with ur life, and leave girls issue alone for now..... 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed Please by fayded(m): 10:42am On Jan 03, 2018 |
Be friends with her.. And start chyking other girls. Let her see you talking to other girls.. It always works. Just keep her in the friendzone and look for a "girlfriend". 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed Please by kozmokaz(m): 10:57am On Jan 03, 2018 |
MummyIMadeIt: Seriously ? And when love comes knocking ? |
Re: Advice Needed Please by kozmokaz(m): 10:59am On Jan 03, 2018 |
fayded: Not really that kinda guy , got a reputation I wouldn't wanna tamper with |
Re: Advice Needed Please by Hykis(m): 11:24am On Jan 03, 2018 |
At last she friend zone u... |
Re: Advice Needed Please by kozmokaz(m): 11:36am On Jan 03, 2018 |
Hykis: Lol funny enough I did my home work properly . She ain't dating any guy (from my finding, so how come the "friend zone" |
Re: Advice Needed Please by ehinmowo: 11:38am On Jan 03, 2018 |
bro the journey is still far for u o. I learnt long time ago never to allow emotion to lead the way in my life. Since den I hv politely educated and turned down two ladies who offer to carry my baby even in my broke and unaccomplished state. Love comes at anytime bt reasons supercede feelings. 1. Do u think u are financially sound to marry her nw? 2. Do u think she can wait for u (i guess u still hv like 4-5 yrs pls ur NYSC)? 3. Are u sure that if she agreed to wait, u will not change ur mind if u meet a charmer girl in future? Jst be frds. Bt I will not be surprised if she fall in love wit u and crying over ur shoulder it in the process. Bt u hv to show maturity. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed Please by deafeyez: 11:52am On Jan 03, 2018 |
The ways of women are mysterious.
One just have to be learning however, drop deep emotions and just be real. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed Please by Hykis(m): 11:57am On Jan 03, 2018 |
kozmokaz: the friend zone of a word came through d way u talk to her, d way u see her. u shuld see her as ur girlfriend nt as ur friend...treat her as ur girl friend already, its just gonna av some limitations. u grab. call her baby,dear, sweaty...nd all dat...tease her if u start to see her as ur girl friend..she'll definitely start to see u as her boyfriend... note: mke her miss u sometimes...don't be desperate over her...take a two days brake sometimes b4 u call her....cus d lower d supply d higher d demand i.e d lower u supply her d higher she demands u. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed Please by kozmokaz(m): 4:05pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Hykis: |
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