OloriAbdulatif:
@kunleajaye the red light has actually been there even before you got married to her( if she is the same person you have been writing about) I think you should let her be for now, but keep in touch with your kids and make sure your family in Nigeria sees them from time to time. You will be fine but please stay away from that stripper girl, its unhealthy... E-hugs

kunleajaye:


Of course I want her. She's my wife and I love her to bits. I know I'm not a perfect human being. No one is perfect. I also have faults in this but I'm willing to talk this out. At times i wish we hadn't come to the United States cos we were very happy before we came here.

BALLOSKI:
because of this, she should act the way she did? No communication? Wives of those Forbes billionaires stood by their husbands and not dragging them.

Nutase:
Congratulations..... Now you can turn the stripper to a wife.

Born2Breed:


Who is judging here? He admitted his guilts.

This is just a side of the story and don't tell me you can't read between the lines that he is trying hard to paint himself innocent.

Birds of same feathers.

kunleajaye:
Thank you all for your kind comments in this trying times for me. I do love my wife and I adore my kids and would never abandon them. I came to the US with her to better myself and further my education, and since i didn't want her to remain idle and dormant while i studied, i advised her to apply to skool too. All this I explained in my post last year. I'll do anything for my kids and wife and she knows it.

pocohantas:


And you men understand women?
Ever wondered why his wife is nagging?

Both parties are wrong to me. They should grow up...

mamawin:
This is the worst comment here. Except you're a stripper yourself

MizMyColi:


Oshey, Akuko!
Na so!

Soulmate wey allow me marry, born three children before showing up in my life, is that one a soulmate?

Biko, biko, let me sleep peacefully with this cigar in my mouth.

No disturbance please

WinningSun:


you guys need to go read his other post on his profile. a lady that called him s thief just to keep his job. he made mistakes marrying her in the first place

zicoraads:

LOL.

The Lord works in mysterious ways. Even King Solomon had to go the distance. Still, I'm not certain he found 'The One.'

MizMyColi:


I no trust you.
Lol
Which King Solomon, that na olden days nau.

zicoraads:

Do not steal. Do not kill. Forgive. Love.

Olden days admonitions, and yet, we still follow all. Forget olden days. The whites just really damaged us. Before them, we were free to take on as many as we wanted

The man can hardly be satisfied with only one road to Tuscany.

Man was and is supposed to have many roads to different Tuscanies

The earlier we return back to olden days and the ways of our ancestors, the better it'll be for us all

MizMyColi:


I support you totally on this, as long as the woman is allowed to do same too.

Even our ancestors would agree to a little modification, don't ya think?

zicoraads:

No, they won't. The role of the woman is always clear.

Cook, take care of the children and be like a young, calm Khlaeesi when your Drogo wants to ride you

Aquariann:
I find the comments of most females here distasteful. They're all blaming the man for turning to another woman forgetting his wife has been denying him sex for eons.

To my second point, let's flip the script ladies. You're in the heat of an argument with your husband (not boyfriend or fiance please), and he tells you to your face he regretted choosing you over some other girl he was romantically involved with at a point.

Yes, the OPs wife told him to his face that (after five years of being married to her) she still prefered the other guy. She crossed the line at this point and NO MAN, worth his name will take this insult.

And yes, it was after she not just rejected him in the bedroom, but also voiced her rejection to his face that he was pushed to the other lady. Personally, I'll never have an erectïon for such a woman again, because I'll just find it hard to get it out of my head that she's just giving me a pity fvck.

Perhaps untill y'all understand the importance of sex (to a man) in marriage, y'all shouldn't get married.

Phonefanatic:


Expired pros.titute

SnakeXenzia:
I read only the first page of this thread and I'm pissed rn.
All those shouting save your marriage ,get your woman bla bla bla. Nonsense!
The only prayer I have for you OP is I hope you dont end up like my dad

mamawin:
If she happens to be in the same town/city as your mum send money through her to get a phone and a line. With that you can communicat with her and the kids.

But to me this is like a lost battle. She no longer loves you.
But PLEASE the club girl is no alternative. Give yourself enough time to heal and find a decent person that will truely make you happy.

Espada10:
hmmm ,I agree with u but I am now curious. .,how did you dad end up?

suicide

Espada10:
now , that is my type of girl with an exception

kunleajaye:
Thank you all for your kind comments in this trying times for me. I do love my wife and I adore my kids and would never abandon them. I came to the US with her to better myself and further my education, and since i didn't want her to remain idle and dormant while i studied, i advised her to apply to skool too. All this I explained in my post last year. I'll do anything for my kids and wife and she knows it.

SnakeXenzia:
he died!
At 45!

suicide

Espada10:
I am so sorry for that and sorry for even asking...my apologies