What does it mean to manage your man?? He has told me I should learn to manage him. No explanation tho ... help please xx

Take him the way he is and stop expecting too much from him. Especially financially.

Good luck.

I provide for myself ... Could it mean something else??

How many years have u guys been dating?

8 months have known him 4 years tho

Americanalove:
8 months have known him 4 years tho

What don't you like about him? Do u normally complain about that?

I’m trying to figure out what it means to manage someone in a relationship as it is known by Nigerian ppl please

For the sake of clarification I am a black American British woman

Gentle034:

What don't you like about him? Do u normally complain about that?

He doesn’t spend enough quality time with me is my usual complaint

Americanalove:



He doesn’t spend enough quality time with me is my usual complaint

Maybe it's cos his work is time demanding, or something somewhere is taking up his time, and that's what u need to find out and manage or fix, whichever the case.

Gentle034:

Maybe it's cos his work is time demanding, or something somewhere is taking up his time, and that's what u need to find out and manage or fix, whichever the case.

OMG I’m confused ����������
Please how do I manage it I’m not sure what you mean sorry

Gentle034:

Maybe it's cos his work is time demanding, or something somewhere is taking up his time, and that's what u need to find out and manage or fix, whichever the case.

So he is busy making money, I should manage him how??
From this I’m thinking that managing means to accept whatever it is he does?? Is that correct. Or fix meaning do what necessary to change it??

Americanalove:


So he is busy making money, I should manage him how??

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You should learn to probably adopt with his Schedules, I know of most men who wouldn't want to joke with their schedules especially if he is disciplined
You guy's should just sit and Map out your meeting days, and talk about when to fix dates. You should also learn to give him some breathing space, atleast it would help spice the relationship a bit, this is because frequent familiarization can cause somewhat of disrespect.

Gentle034:
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You should learn to probably adopt with his Schedules, I know of most men who wouldn't want to joke with their schedules especially if he is disciplined
You guy's should just sit and Map out your meeting days, and talk about when to fix dates. You should also learn to give him some breathing space, atleast it would help spice the relationship a bit, this is because frequent familiarization can cause somewhat of disrespect.

Thank you I understand now. Very grateful you have taken the time to explain. Bless you xx

It could be that you should regulate his life.Or coordinate everything about him.
Also it depends on when he says that

Americanalove:


Thank you I understand now. Very grateful you have taken the time to explain. Bless you xx

Am glad I could help. Thanks and enjoy your relationship with one mind.

Americanalove:
I’m trying to figure out what it means to manage someone in a relationship as it is known by Nigerian ppl please

For the sake of clarification I am a black American British woman

What do you mean by 'Black American British' woman?

chivic:
It could be that you should regulate his life.Or coordinate everything about him.
Also it depends on when he says that

Please can you explain more so that I can grasp this concept?

Regulate his life meaning...
Coordinate everything about him how

SpareNo1:
What do you mean by 'Black American British' woman?

I’m British on paper but my beliefs and behaviour correlate with American culture

Americanalove:




I’m British on paper but my beliefs and behaviour correlate with American culture

I don't get still. You mind explaining a lil more please? I'm curious

SpareNo1:
I don't get still. You mind explaining a lil more please? I'm curious

My country is owned by Britain thus I am British on paper and have a few traits.

However it’s closes point is America, therefore we get American TV and food so culturally one would describe me as an American.

As most Nigerian ppl I have met they would describe my train of thought as a white woman due to my upbringing but my accent and colloquialisms are regarded as American

More importantly just looking at me most think I’m South African...

Americanalove:


Please can you explain more so that I can grasp this concept?

Regulate his life meaning...
Coordinate everything about him how

1)When does he make such statement?
Is it when he is angry?or when you offend him? Or when he is happy with you?
2)since u feed your self,does he have the capacity to feed him self?

chivic:


1)When does he make such statement?
Is it when he is angry?or when you offend him? Or when he is happy with you?
2)since u feed your self,does he have the capacity to feed him self?

He says it when I am complaining he doesn’t spend enough time with me.
And yes he is well off on his own and does take care of things around my house as well more recently as he says we are getting more serious... whatever that means ......

SpareNo1:
Lol. This doesn't make sense bro.

Wondering if you just wanna be a troll or an Anini/Oyelusi

Americanalove:


First of all I’m a woman 2nd google Bermuda then come back to me I’m sure you may get it then.

First of all, go down low


I'm the former president of Ghana

SpareNo1:
First of all, go down low


I'm the former president of Ghana

Nice very beautiful country

Americanalove:



Nice very beautiful country

Thank you

Oma to kaloju e

Its simple it means take it or leave it

Americanalove:



He says it when I am complaining he doesn’t spend enough time with me.
And yes he is well off on his own and does take care of things around my house as well more recently as he says we are getting more serious... whatever that means ......

Then what he simply means is that,he is not perfect and can't do more than what he is currently doing.You should bare with him.or rather take him they way you see him.

LessNoise:
Its simple it means take it or leave it

Thank you very much I understand now

chivic:


Then what he simply means is that,he is not perfect and can't do more than what he is currently doing.You should bare with him.or rather take him they way you see him.

Thank you your help is appreciate xx