Lol.

My brother's wife wanted to do something like that, my brother told her point blank that he will go and collect his bride price back. She came back to her senses ASAP. :-

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Now, she doesn't joke with the blessed sacrament.

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You are a very stupid fellow, I am a freelancer and also assists people in writing statement of purpose. Do you know how many people i have assisted in writing SOP on this forum?

Na wa o.... All these wahala on top wedding

How do you except your family to follow you to your husband church for your wedding
Making it look like they are begging the man this marry you

Op,listen to your parent

MYSELF2018:
Amen, He has given me another alternative that my Family should look for any catholic Church for the wedding to hold in our side but My Dad can never agree with that.

He is the one giving you options as to where your wedding will take place

Stop this biko

estheremma:
ok,im catholic we do something called mixed marriage,that is marriage with ousiders,we can marry them n allow them continue their church.See with ur fiance pls,if he doez not wed in d catholic fold,he ceases to be a communicant,may not participate in major things.If u love him,do a mixed marriage for peace

Sound advice+reality check. Search your soul, your inner, real mind very well. Can you truly leave your church and accept your spouse's church? If not, don't bother, it will not last due constant tug of war in the home on this lone issue. Above all, BE sincere to your self. Good luck.

Ubenedictus:
a sacrament consist of form, matter, minister and intention.

take for instance baptism, the matter is water, the form is the words spoken by the minister, the intention is to baptise.

marriage has matter and form and minister and intention, he needs to ask the Church to dispense him from the need to fulfill the form of the sacrament I.e he will be dispensed from the need to do the wedding in the Catholic Church.

so instead his Bishop will empower someone usually a priest to be in your Church on that day to witness the wedding on behalf of the Catholic Church, by dispensing him from the form, he can be married in your Church and because the Catholic Church officially witnessed the wedding he will be recognized as valid..... there is a whole theology here.


if he agrees to this, then you guys need to see his parish priest immediately... he will tell him what to do.



the other option is to have two wedding, one in your Church I.e the big one with reception and everything, then a small one in his Church the next day at morning mass, without reception or other money sucking stuff.

his family may not like either options, I know if it is my house my mum won't attend the wedding in your Church she will meet us at the reception... you guys need to discuss this extensively.


I wish you luck

we are just killing this fate if ours with all types of doctrines that are not biblical. Na wa.

adescopy:
we are just killing this fate if ours with all types of doctrines that are not biblical. Na wa.

so who told you everything done in the Church must be explicitly written in the Bible.


besides if you had bothered to research about the Catholic sacrament of matrimony you would have been surprised how biblical it is.

but instead you took a learning opportunity and used it to criticise something you clearly don't understand.