Please Ladies, i need an answer to my question from your point of view. As a man i never understand why a woman who is not a virgin will love the idea of me spending on her, taking her our and not have sex with me especially when it's obvious we are dating and she's no virgin. I know some can be in serious relationships but i clearly define every relationship. Now one of such girls in my life recently called to wish me happy new year and i responded remorsefully. She went on with the convo so i had to cut her short cos i knew the next thing she'd say is 'send me money na' or play with my emotions and not get down. I am not exchanging sex for help or money but it is obvious when most 9ja ladies come to your house, deny you sex, they feel like they escaped something only for them to sleep with another brother who more often than non will not measure up to what you can do for them. My question after all this sermon to the ladies is, Is it all a game or indecision cos most end up angry saying 'is it because of sex' you stopped calling or caring?' Obviously yes cos i cannot endure for too long especially when i know you're doing the damn thing with some other dude. If you no like me reach then no like my attention or money join. So ladies, again i ask; Is it all a game and why do you folks get angry after the incident even when a brother did not force his way ( i never rape )? Even a machine needs lubrication to stay alive and efficient.

Clearly you are Mr. Nice guy. Pls I want to introduce you to my sister.

for women getting BENEFITS without having to pay for them with SEX is as pleasurable as guys getting SEX without having to pay for it with BENEFITS.
Free Money is a goal for women.
Free Sex is a goal for men.

I just realized today is her birthday on Facebook. Could it be the reason she contacted me? I just tire.

So if you help me I must give you sex?

Where is that rule written?

I think you must not mix the two... Help me without expecting anything ... This will decrease disappointments... I can easily go to another guy to help me but I just chose you to be my mumu coz you are probably nice and won't ask for sex

So so emotional. #sobs #sniffs

Yellowdayzee:
So if you help me I must give you sex?

Where is that rule written?

I think you must not mix the two... Help me without expecting anything ... This will decrease disappointments... I can easily go to another guy to help me but I just chose you to be my mumu coz you are probably nice and won't ask for sex

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so many useless thread today

Preshy561:
so many useless thread today

As useless as your brains. I asked for opinions not your stupidity.