As Sent to Fabmimi by Rosalyn

She wrote:

"Good day, my name is Rosalyn.from Benue stat I need help so I don't take my life. Because that seem to be the only option now. I got married in court at the age of 19 because I was pregnant and because I didn't want to bring shame to my parents, I got married and it has been the worst decision I ever made..I have never had peace.i have been abused emotional, physically and psychologically..I have no say,at that time I couldn't visit my parents, even when I was pregnant for my two kids, he treated me like I was nothing..I did Cs and he threatened me to tell the doctor to discharge me because he didn't want to waste money,I ended up having infection on my incision area( a flesh eating disease) it nealy killed me.He refused to put me in school as promised nor pay for me to learn a skill..I was being punished for everything, it was like I was walking in eggshells. he locked me outside till 3am with my newborn baby inside the room crying for hours because I asked him why he came home by 12am. He goes out to drink, club,cheats with many women.

One day, I asked him a question and he beat me up in front of his mother,then it happened again and again .I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he'll change..But he never changed, at times he won't talk to me for weeks nor buy food or eat the food I cook, he'll insult me and call me and my family names. I keep baring everything until last year august when I found out he was sleeping with my kid sis who's 16. She told me that they've been having sex three times a week for 2 years,she got pregnant and they aborted it..I was devastated..I was shocked ,I was in pain..I wanted to run away with my kids but I had nowhere to go to,I had no money, no skill, no degree..So i stiayed bearing it all..He still hasn't changed.he use it to rub on my face instead..I have developed a terrible high blood pressure at the age of 26. He keeps tormenting me and beating me up.. Threatening me with a knife, I ran away to Lagos for some weeks.. Came back and this morning, he startes beating me for no reason... I need to leave this marriage.. I need to get my life back. I need help"

Source: http://mandynews.com/2018/01/13/domestic-violence-woman-cries-out-after-husband-brutalizes-her-photos/

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This is sad

As a woman I have to be honest with this young woman and her likes here. Why would you sleep around at age 19? And you don't have the sense to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy?

The precious time you ought to have face your studies or learn some skills, you were carried away by doggies, catties and some token he was giving you.

If you were independent, by now you'd be taking care of your children and live a happy life as a single mother.

To your parents, if you die I believe that stupid tradition will give them another child.

I'm a woman n I can take care of my children without any man's support, I'm saying this for y'all to live an independent life not that I'm bragging.

Some men are just effing stupid....

The woman you sleep with yet you raised your filthy hands to beat her, even if she didn't say a word, you're cursed already, my prayer is for your children not to have share in it.

Some men just no get joy

Op pls add graphic

If u tired of ur marriage u walk away.
Enough of the one sided domestic abuse stories.

Is this the kind of life you want to live

I can't even finished reading ur post cos am a angry already... That man is HEARTLESS.

It is a pity that she married a total stranger.

Fear God what is graphical about this

sinaj:
Op pls add graphic

If u tired of ur marriage u walk away.
Enough of the one sided domestic abuse stories.

Is this the kind of life you want to live

I can't even finished reading ur post cos am a angry already... That man is HEARTLESS.

It is a pity that she married a total stranger.

I always tell the unmarried Girls/Men, that "Choosing ur Husband/wife, is choosing ur future."

Hmmmm... I Dont knw what some men have turned into . devil is really working overtime in the hearts of men.

Run for ur life b4 that man kills u. He isn't worth ur life at all

D only help I can gv is dis go to ministry of Justice or public defender dey may be under the ministry of Justice in ur state if u hv ni ooo or go to ministry of women affairs too u will thanks mi later dey will help me out

On FP already.

Seriously I hate it when men beat ladies especially their wives

No matter her act she don't deserve these

pls if you still love your self pls walk away

he is married to your 16yr old sister not you, that's why u are collecting the whole beating as maid

Join DPA group

If this lady was living in Lagos this man for done hear am