Captleverage:
Why are boys of today desperate about money

adedeij02:
I met a girl 2months ago, I developed feelings for her on the first day I met her and I think she live me too. As time goes on we developed love affections and we are always good with each other. Just of recent she started putting into the stress of getting marriage as if we have been together for a year funny enough, she's just 27,she doesn't even have job to take care of herself yet. All she talk about is when are we getting married? She actually want me to make her a promise on when exactly we will get married. I'm so confused now. � ��

Zykod:


Don't fall for it. This one has something up her sleeve she aint spilling yet. Don't introduce this one even in 8months. Observe her.You need to know what she comes with, what her flaws are,why she's desperate, her family background. Do aa thorough check. Chances are she may be under induced pressure or trying to throw herself on you to alleviate issues or deeper issues. Do a through check. Introduce her to your pastor/counselor first for evaluation before family. But i don't like your story, the girl in this story is somewhat...dodgy except if i'm being overly suspicious...

Zykod:


Don't fall for it. This one has something up her sleeve she aint spilling yet. Don't introduce this one even in 8months. Observe her.You need to know what she comes with, what her flaws are,why she's desperate, her family background. Do aa thorough check. Chances are she may be under induced pressure or trying to throw herself on you to alleviate issues or deeper issues. Do a through check. Introduce her to your pastor/counselor first for evaluation before family. But i don't like your story, the girl in this story is somewhat...dodgy except if i'm being overly suspicious...

adedeij02:

Thanks for you contribution, but I don't think the girl is dodgy, I think she's intimidated and being pushed buy people around her. She actually thinks she will enter menopause before 30years.

Peachess:
When ladies get to the age of 25, society starts putting so much pressure on her. They make her feel inferior because she's unmarried and they commend the married ones (whether miserable or not) like they've made an achievement. The girl you're talking about is 27 and it kind of old. So don't blame her for being desperate, society made her that.

Peachess:
When ladies get to the age of 25, society starts putting so much pressure on her. They make her feel inferior because she's unmarried and they commend the married ones (whether miserable or not) like they've made an achievement. The girl you're talking about is 27 and it kind of old. So don't blame her for being desperate, society made her that.

dollytino4real:
is because dey are tired of free fork. like ur fork

RadicallyBlunt:
Somebody simply admired you, now you want him to say what doesn't come from his mind. All because all her friend don marry..No be man by himself go talk him mind?

Dis kind girl na for chop and clean mouth, she don show am herself, just play along. I no go advice you to promise her marriage. If she dey too desperate, just withdraw. Her emotions go make her come back for you. When she now comes back..ehnen.. that is your own time to knack the living daylight out of her kpekus, opportunity comes but once. Nack am like say na concrete u dey nack, naxk am like sex doll, nack am day and night, nack am without mercy, nack am terribly so tay she no go waka well again. When her eyez open, another man go continue from where u stop.

Peachess:

That's just pure wickedness, if he's no longer interested in her, he should just stay the Bleep away from her

adedeij02:

I bet you don't know what you're talking about [color=#006600][/color]

adedeij02:

I completely understand that she's going through pressure and I'm still willing to make it up to her no matter what but wants me to make a promise when we will actually get married. I think she's confused

RadicallyBlunt:
Somebody simply admired you, now you want him to say what doesn't come from his mind. All because all her friend don marry..No be man by himself go talk him mind?

Dis kind girl na for chop and clean mouth, she don show am herself, just play along. I no go advice you to promise her marriage. If she dey too desperate, just withdraw. Her emotions go make her come back for you. When she now comes back..ehnen.. that is your own time to knack the living daylight out of her kpekus, opportunity comes but once. Nack am like say na concrete u dey nack, naxk am like sex doll, nack am day and night, nack am without mercy, nack am terribly so tay she no go waka well again. When her eyez open, another man go continue from where u stop.

adedeij02:

I bet you don't know what you're talking about [color=#006600][/color]

adedeij02:

[b][/b]what do I get in return from all these. It doesn't make sense to me abeg

adedeij02:
Your contribution isn't off the point.

RadicallyBlunt:

Trying force marriage on a man, is it niceness?

If making a promise now and not keeping it was d case now, what would you say here on nairaland

Peachess:
When ladies get to the age of 25, society starts putting so much pressure on her. They make her feel inferior because she's unmarried and they commend the married ones (whether miserable or not) like they've made an achievement. The girl you're talking about is 27 and it kind of old. So don't blame her for being desperate, society made her that.

yeyerolling:
See dis one o. U dey complain of 2 months. A gal i met last year october, d first day she came to my house(2nd time of seeing). Asked me when am settling down i said 2020. She said she cant wait and asked y not next year(2018). I was shocked o. She said she didnt mind contributing financially. Dis is a gal who claims to be 25 ( which i doubt o). The reasons for todays desperation are to escape poverty, parental and societal pressure and peer pressure. Ndi ara tins

adedeij02:
I met a girl 2months ago, I developed feelings for her on the first day I met her and I think she live me too. As time goes on we developed love affections and we are always good with each other. Just of recent she started putting into the stress of getting marriage as if we have been together for a year funny enough, she's just 27,she doesn't even have job to take care of herself yet. All she talk about is when are we getting married? She actually want me to make her a promise on when exactly we will get married. I'm so confused now. � ��

Peachess:
When ladies get to the age of 25, society starts putting so much pressure on her. They make her feel inferior because she's unmarried and they commend the married ones (whether miserable or not) like they've made an achievement. The girl you're talking about is 27 and it kind of old. So don't blame her for being desperate, society made her that.

Peachess:
When ladies get to the age of 25, society starts putting so much pressure on her. They make her feel inferior because she's unmarried and they commend the married ones (whether miserable or not) like they've made an achievement. The girl you're talking about is 27 and it kind of old. So don't blame her for being desperate, society made her that.

hardon1:


u drink monkey tail, how is a 27 yr old lady "OLD" I guess you will term yourself OLD when you turn 27.