call her in the middle of the night, let your words flow, there's no chat more romantic than the one done in an odd hour, 97% of girls falls for it.

Dimples129:



Or maybe you could just start a discussion about something interesting. What topics are you interested in? Is it interesting? Talk about that.

What do you enjoy doing, is it something interesting, talk about that. Do you know anything funny, anything at all as long as it's funny, share with her.

Erm.... quiet moments are ok... Control your breathing and distract your self. Basically, don't be scared or worried about awkward silence. Hold your own and stay back, lean back and let her get close to you.

Don't forget that it works both ways. She has to impress you too so don't 'carry' her through the date. If she's a shi conversationalist, then don't feel you need to composite for her weakness. Just hold your own.

Good luck son

Mama D mama I Hail U. Hournorable Minister of Toasting Tips and Counselling

Lala234:

Being a lady/woman O believe you should be able to collect me too na

if you dont know what to do with a gal's phone number maybe dont ask for it in the first place...

ucheHapers:
Make a long list of all the questions and topics you want to discuss with her....her family, friends, hobbies, future ambitions, favourite colour, ideal man, dream holiday/ date...etc have the list at hand when u call her, then cross out each topic as u go on...Gist begets gist
...thank me later with a bottle of wine

This is silly. OP, don't try this else you'll make a fool of yourself. A simple hello should get the conversation going. We can't and shouldn't tell you what should follow thereafter.

blues343:
Mama D mama I Hail U. Hournorable Minister of Toasting Tips and Counselling

ubunja:
if you dont know what to do with a gal's phone number maybe dont ask for it in the first place...

Shey na by force to comment ba?

Lala234:

Shey na by force to comment ba?

many of you here seem lacking in basic common sense. you need to grow up already...