I have been dating this guy for about 2yrs now we got engaged June 2017, I love, trust and respect him so much.
I was going through his phone when I stumbled on his Facebook messenger, what I saw broke me... I saw him flirting with different girls and this particular girl he was having sex chat with "how he would love to suck her Kitty and make her cum, asking her if she loved reverse cow girl or doggy, how he would make her body a temple and worship it, how he would kiss her all over", he fell my hand, he apologised and I accepted but I cant forget. I dnt understand, am I supposed to move on like notin happened? And the painful part is we have been together in d roughest of times only for him to stop caring for me, everything about him is changed even the way he talks to me, he has diff girls he goes to meet just for sex and he thinks I don't know. I just decided to share my story because I might be tempted to poison him with the way he pretends this days. He even flirts with girls on nairaland.

Poison ke... Biko there are guys you can as well flirt with too .

Hmmm are u saying all those sex he's having with those girls, he should be having it with you when you're not married? Or that he has been having sex with you and he's still not satisfied.. I don get it.

Well its a mentality among many men to have a wife material that they nuture and a sex material or side chick just for fuccks. Besides, familiarizing urself with him when you're not married will not make him value u like when he first met you. You shd let him miss you.

Dont poison him yet, instead get a very concrete evidence and keep it, then threaten to break up with him. If he doesnt beg, show d evidence to a close member of his family. If he doesn't come back begging, you can leave him in peace and pray for another man.

Tani99:
I have been dating this guy for about 2yrs now we got engaged June 2017, I love, trust and respect him so much.
I was going through his phone when I stumbled on his Facebook messenger, what I saw broke me... I saw him flirting with different girls and this particular girl he was having sex chat with "how he would love to suck her Kitty and make her cum, asking her if she loved reverse cow girl or doggy, how he would make her body a temple and worship it, how he would kiss her all over", he fell my hand, he apologised and I accepted but I cant forget. I dnt understand, am I supposed to move on like notin happened? And the painful part is we have been together in d roughest of times only for him to stop caring for me, everything about him is changed even the way he talks to me, he has diff girls he goes to meet just for sex and he thinks I don't know. I just decided to share my story because I might be tempted to poison him with the way he pretends this days. He even flirts with girls on nairaland.

Tani I have sincerely apologised, and told you how deeply sorry I am, how ashamed I am; you are the one I love, but you still brought this over to nairaland.

Rockyrascal:
Tani I have sincerely apologised, and told you how deeply sorry I am, how ashamed I am; you are the one I love, but you still brought this over to nairaland.

My brother, them go soon poison you o . But on a more serious note, saying sorry is not good enough, if u are not making any changes to your lifestyle. She brought this here so that u will realize how much she's hurting cos it's as though u aren't walking the talk. My candid advise is that u sort yourself out, I don't believe she would deprive u of sex or deprives you of it, and if she has truly made sacrifices, genuine ones just to be with u, what else do u want? Tell her if you feel she's not doing it right, the thrill to hunt is very sweet but sometimes it's not worth the hassle if meat is readily available

Peachess:
I won't advice to get married to such a person, hell keep on doing it. A leopard doesn't change its spot. Even if you do marry him, you'll always keep that grudge against him. And finally, he can infect you with numerous STDs out there. So babe be wise

All of this

You see, he even has a different nl id... I give up

All you abokokus never chi chum chin.. My man this, my man that.

He'll end up giving you STDs and even HIV. Senseless people

Tani99:
You see, he even has a different nl id... I give up

That might be a troll, are you serious?

Tani99:
I have been dating this guy for about 2yrs now we got engaged June 2017, I love, trust and respect him so much.
I was going through his phone when I stumbled on his Facebook messenger, what I saw broke me... I saw him flirting with different girls and this particular girl he was having sex chat with "how he would love to suck her Kitty and make her cum, asking her if she loved reverse cow girl or doggy, how he would make her body a temple and worship it, how he would kiss her all over", he fell my hand, he apologised and I accepted but I cant forget. I dnt understand, am I supposed to move on like notin happened? And the painful part is we have been together in d roughest of times only for him to stop caring for me, everything about him is changed even the way he talks to me, he has diff girls he goes to meet just for sex and he thinks I don't know. I just decided to share my story because I might be tempted to poison him with the way he pretends this days. He even flirts with girls on nairaland.

you see lies everywhere

Tani99:
You see, he even has a different nl id... I give up

please don't give up o, it's just a troll am just an impersonator.

Dude is tired of the relationship, but he doesn't want to break ur heart, he wants you to break up with him.

I love you so much. I'm very sorry. This is a public forum. Let's talk privately my love.