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|Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by enasgreat: 11:45am On Jan 30, 2018|
Please Admin, post this to the front page to help the complainer.
please help this depressed.. Someone posted this on http://danielnaija.ml/forum2_theme_112953217.xhtml?tema=214 . Please Drop Your Comments.
I had an argument with my elder brother over a lady she brought home. The lady was once my close friend and a fellow coworker. Am a teacher in a secondary school and i happened to be the person that contributed to her employment.
My brother came back from school few weeks ago and told me she met a girl and the girl said she knows me. He gave a concise description of the lady and i instantly remembered her. I told him of my escapades with the lady and that she is not the type of girl to bring home for any reason. Yet, he invited her over and when the girl saw me, she started acting as if she wasn't normal. I tried my best to avoid her as she kept calling my name and seeking my attention for a reason best known to her.
I wasn't happy with the invitation because my brother is the kind of guy that is fond of reducing one's pride to zero, only to feel bossy. The next day , I noticed the girl started looking at me like a small boy and when a disagreement ensued, she called me a small boy that is not.......
My brother brought another lady to the compound that i knew very well. I didn't involve myself but the girl was Soughting for my involvement. I left her feeling whatever feeling she had. That evening, my brother had a minor quarrel with me and i was shocked when he said the girl told him that am stupid and lack respect. I became angry and decided to warn her. I met her the next day and approached her, the way she responded led to something else....
That same day evening, it like the girl called my brother to complain to him. Instead of him to approach me, she went to my working place and told the principal things that i weren't guilty of. She spoilt my reputation by telling the principal that i smoke Indian hemp. He said also that am crazy and some other crazy stuffs too.
The next day, the man called me and told me everything . I was even shocked to realized that the man started treating me as such.....
My brother left for school that same week...
I had a disagreement with my family over my money that was stolen by someone from the house. Someone broke into my room and took my money, my wrist watch and some minor things. I became angry since they have been doing this for long. The issue escalated to an extent that i took knife and threatened to stab someone and myself....Well, nothing happened later except that the next day, my dad went to my place of work and told the principal that i wanted to stab him and my mother. He also told him other crazy stuffs that i didn't even do. Now, the man is convinced that am mental and he is spreading that news with the staffs. He even went as far as to reduce my teaching periods and told the other staffs to treat me gently. Am being treated like a fool and a lunatic... I hate the treatment am getting from my fellow workers... Am feeling depressed right now, please help me.
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by heendrix(m): 11:48am On Jan 30, 2018|
will wait until I see other comments before I say mi own. actually waiting fr the summary
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by Colleverage: 11:54am On Jan 30, 2018|
The best way to deal with depression, this has worked for generations
1. Fill your pockets with rocks
2.take a bus going to obalende or cms
3. Drop at 3rd mainland bridge
4. Hop off the bridge into the water and let the waves take care of the rest
You are welcome
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by PSTEMMA1960(m): 12:01pm On Jan 30, 2018|
heendrix:the guy is nt telling the whole truth, u brother can't jst go to ur place of work jst like that if u have bt been troubling his peace, secondly u always know all the ladies ur brother is bringing home, meaning （u be waka waka pikin..
thirdly u carried knife and treathened to kill anyone that comes close, meaning u have a short temper , u may nt be a smoker, bt some smokers can't even behave like u..
forthly, for ur father to go to ur school it means that ur mum was in support of it, and for ur mum to surport him, then u have really giving her sleepness nights..
my advice, if u are good as u claimed, jst resign from ur place of work, get a new job and start all over again..
the people that are reporting u here are ur familes, nt outsiders..
once they say that this person is mad or smokes, if he is harsh, people around will say that did we nt say it, and if he is calm, they will say he is a pretender..
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by Ebios(m): 12:06pm On Jan 30, 2018|
heendrix:Must u quote the whole thread bfor u wait for comments?
As for the op,u should av told ur brother from the outset that u had danced "makosa" with her than just trying to disuade him with excuses of she not worthy of him bla bla bla...
See,just attend to urself/adjust ur ways bc abt 3 persons av said negative things abt u.
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:26pm On Jan 30, 2018|
You are claiming to be mentally stable yet you armed yourself with a sharp knife to threaten members of your family over some missing item?
You want the world to believe you are a responsible person despite that?
For your Father to go report you to yoir boss/principal, it means that you have been a thorn in his flesh...
As for your principal, he did very well by informing your colleagues of your irresponsible behaviour and suspected insanity. If you can pick up knife against your family over a missing item, then you will empty bullets on the heads of your coworkers if they "misbehave"...
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by LadySarah: 1:51pm On Jan 30, 2018|
This is so wrong.Not everyone is As strong As you
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by Colleverage: 1:57pm On Jan 30, 2018|
What? At least he won't have those problems to worry about anymore
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by Hardrive(m): 2:38pm On Jan 30, 2018|
My brother, you have done the right thing by coming here to seek advice.I would tell you that your brother has a trait of narcissism. I would like that you read more on narcissism there are articles on the possible ways to deal with a person who possess the trait. Once you read on it extensively, anything your brother does won't bother you as much. Wave off the attempt to commit suicide. I always say that a large part of the reason why people are suffering so much is due to not asking questions. But make sure you read on narcissistic personality disorders and how to deal with a manipulative person. Good luck.
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by cooljude(m): 3:44pm On Jan 30, 2018|
What is wrong with some persons, are you normal? You must be a psychopath to have made such an insensitive statement. Whether you believe the story or not, you shouldn't be making this kind if statement
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by Hardrive(m): 5:24pm On Jan 30, 2018|
Not too long ago, someone here complained about being depressed somewhere in rivers state. He was looking for sniper to drink but eventually drank tea mixed with cement, then he closed his account. You might still be naive, but depression leads to suicide and comments like these are what triggers it. I would like that you do a research on depression to avoid taking it as a joke.
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jan 30, 2018|
Check here for solutions
You will get clear answers if you check these threads out...
|Re: Please Advice Me... Am Getting Depressed. by Colleverage: 6:04pm On Jan 30, 2018|
Hardrive:Did he die? Cos I noticed you said he closed his account after drinking tea with cement
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