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Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Tallesty1(m): 8:41pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
sinaj:Relationship expert |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Blackhawk03(f): 8:42pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
greiboy: So, what's wrong with him? |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Blackhawk03(f): 8:43pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Jodha: You're kidding, yeah? |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
ChiefPiiko:You need true love. |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by GabrielAganyi(m): 8:46pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
OhGeeBee: These guys wouldn't kill me oooo Lolzzzzz |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Blackhawk03:grief/a sad moment we all experience it e.g. when your boyfriend break your heart when your favorite grandparent died or someone close to you it has the tendency of becoming depression though, but it often fade with time |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
ChiefPiiko: Okay, you convinced me to cut short my 24 months ban i placed on myself from the forum. You're at where David was when he said oh my spirit why art thou disquieted within me. Depression often assumed to be a negative impression occurs in any form which i believe you're going through now. I call it the saturation point syndrome or positive depression. Positive depression is God saying i want to impact freshness into your soul, it's when He calls Moses aside to say I need to refuel you and speak into your Spirit.Set time aside your daily routine, and make yourself ready to have an encounter that's off your normal daily activities.... When we've exhausted all the ideas into all we do, and channel our energies into our normal productive channels, we become somewhat " overused ". Overused because we're functioning using the best of our ideas and energies but, we're yet to hit the desired mark.. Hence, this " positive depression" sets in...Like in Kind David. Positive depression occurs when we've used all our ideas and have become empty of new strategies and need to be refilled to get insights for the journey forward. With this in mind, positive depression is God's call saying come into the shelter, come into the place of rest, away from the storms of daily living, i need to refuel your spirit so you can gain insights for the next stage for your journey. Positive depression is what you've been going through and it simply means God wants to fill you, Hence, He causes you to hunger so you can in response to the hunger turn to Him for answers and freshness. This is the cause above...As for the solution, this is it : 1.Make out time to listen to soothing music, new music opens the soul to newer energies and you get refreshed easily..Slow music works best. My recommendation if you're a Christian, try worship or soul lifting music 2. Make out time to study something new around your occupation. Chances are life wants to show you something new about your occupation..Use youtube and search for videos that relates with your field, jump from video to video you'll find interesting soul-lifting video contents that will refresh your soul 3. Stretch your soul - By partaking in socail engagements where you benefit nothing, like helping out in church, giving alms to beggars, evangelism, you do things that gives/pours your soul out, by pouring out, you empty yourself of stagnant energies and make yourself open to be re-filled by the Lord. 4. If you teach or comment on social media, do not comment for sometime, chances are life wants to teach you new stratagem for looking at issues, and the teacher needs to stay away for some time to be re-filled, if you continue teaching/posting you will be projecting yourself on issues from an old plane and you won't be addressing issues with the best of insights 5. Listen to soul lifting sermons. Get youtube videos from teachers/motivational speakers you like and you'll be glad you did. Watch a new movie series, do something new..This is life saying a chapter has come to an end, and a new door is opening, because the new path leads or may lead to uncharted territories, life is saying take the time of, still your soul, silence the noise in your head and mind, make time out, your inner soul wants to speak with you...So clear the dross, clear the old garbage, clear the hills, level the valleys, make the path clear, for newness is coming into your way. Congrats cause this implies, a new level of productivity, wisdom, increase and prosperity is on its way. But it depends on the quality of your yielding to it to harness the fullness of what awaits you ahead. I would have loved to break this down further, but work on this, you'll be fine my brother ! Remember, this is a sign of newness, fresh experience and greatness on the other side of the door..I celebrate you...Navigate this gloom, and come out shining on the other end ! Shalom - The Villain ! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:47pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
ChiefPiiko:. There must be a remote and immediate cause of what you re passing through. Let it all out so u can get help. But for now try as much as possible to stay close to family or friends. Try hanging out don't lock urself up in the house. |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by dollytino4real(f): 8:49pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
sinaj:na kpokpo garri i bring |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by donstan18: 8:49pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
OhGeeBee: You re in the spirit brO, Mane murdered Rae-Sremmurd in that track, where he said. There's so much money on the floor we buyin school clothes....why you bring the money machine to the club for? Pint of lean, pound of weed, and a kilo I eurostep past a hater like I'm Rondo Depression de learn work for our syd |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 8:55pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Thanks everyone. I have gotten some useful information from here, someone has also reached out offline, we are having a productive conversation |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Blackhawk03(f): 8:56pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
greiboy: Those ones are like norms, they're bound to happen, that's grieving. He doesn't have a reason for this, he's empty, he feels nothing, his emotions are on a lockdown. Dude is depressed, I've been there. |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
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Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by donstan18: 9:00pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
ChiefPiiko: Dope 1 Like
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Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Snow02: 9:02pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
donstan18:try any mixtape by curren$y his music is generally for kush puffing and good Vibing also Travis Scott album "days before rodeo" or "owl Pharaoh" |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by sinaj(f): 9:02pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
dollytino4real:lolll I dnt wnt kpokpo garri jore Is udara I wnt or evn fruits. It haf tey I chew dat kpokpo garri sef |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Blackhawk03:He was on nairaland through out last year dashing money to people, he was even planning a marriage a short while ago. I could even recall, a post where he claimed his dogs is eating better than some nairalanders He isn't depressed, he is just feeling sad because something didn't go as planned of recent. |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by donstan18: 9:06pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
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Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by donstan18: 9:07pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
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Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 9:07pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
greiboy: It can be called soul-shrinking, a void, a soul-portal...An emptiness that has to be filled, it's not entirely depression, that's why i coined it " positive depression ", dude has to be emptied so he can be filled again. Giving and helping charitable causes is the way out. Probably he's witholding within heimself more than he Gives out ( i.e. in form of wisdom, counsel etc). Life's way of ensuring he don't hoard too much is to make us get into this saturated point, so we fill the need and desire to empty ourselves, so we can be re-filled. It's scaterred all through the scriptures especially in the book ofo Psalms through the expereinces of David... |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Blackhawk03(f): 9:08pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
greiboy: Lol. Depression happens quicker than we think, you mostly don't see it coming. Mine happened overnight. Funny thing is, I was on nairaland commenting and laughing on every thread. Money, clothes, food, class don't stop depression from creeping in if it wants to. |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Jodha:dumbest shiit I've read in 2018 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Blazing8(m): 9:12pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
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Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by dollytino4real(f): 9:15pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
sinaj:ok i hear u |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
bluetrails7:So you are saying he was doing those things out of depression. To make up for his emotional damage or something I honestly felt he just wanted some attention . You maybe right though |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by MalekFidel(m): 9:19pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
GabrielAganyi:what kind of buffoonery is this? |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 9:19pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
greiboy: .. |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Blackhawk03:Hell no depression is not a quick sand. it takes a while to really manifest itself it all begins with a period of sustained grief or sadness. it can never just happen like you think once you can't deal with that, then you feel empty. symptoms of depression Hopeless lost of interest anxiety sudden mood swings and so on |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
bluetrails7:You are a pastor Ok hollow feeling then. I like to think of it as emotional damage |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
greiboy: ... |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Re: I Am Bored, Sad And Slipping Into Depression by donstan18: 9:26pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
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