Love is wonderful, we agree. But it’s quite unfortunate that most people do not know what loving a person really mean, or that throwing the words ‘I love you’ ever so often does not express love in its totality.

While dating, it’s always our hope that relationships, especially ‘serious’ ones, lead to something lasting and gives us the emotional fulfillment we desire. But alas! The reality is; they may never do.

How well do you know your partner? How well can you trust that after two or more years of dating and fighting the relationship storms along the way that they would not just leave you high and dry all of a sudden?

They are no guarantees to this things right? Yes. But two years or more is a long time to waste on something that has no assurance, no future and no landing point. Trust me, it’s not a good feeling and it would certainly knock the sail off your boat, even if you later find your bearing.

So before you get to that point, where years lead to fruitlessness and you keep repeating “Had I known”; here are some warning signs you should heed and plan an escape route before that partner whom you think loves you eternally shatter your heart into countless pieces.

They are often not ready to compromise
It doesn’t matter how little or huge it is, they just don’t find a reason why your need should supersede theirs. Promises not kept, phone calls not returned, plans and interests seconded for their urgent needs. You try to understand, you try to rationalize that you should also compromise, but how long can you keep that up with no effort from them?

Point is, if they have not started now, they may never do and you would always be expected to understand. And when push comes to shove; when their needs demands more from them, they would not think of keeping you in their life as a compromise. They would never!



They bring you close but not close enough
They tip toe around you, wanting you close but not close enough. You know most of their friends but only hear about their family. How can you rationalize dating a person for over a year or more but never quite meeting with any member of their family? Do not count the fact that they’ve met yours, that’s because you see them in a deeper light than they do you.

They probably don’t want you to meet with their family so that it would be like a clean slate when they finally decide to leave you. So it is better to be the more proactive one.


Their Ex keeps calling them, yet it is okay.
We all know exes are bad news. Continuous communication with them never end well; if it didn’t work out between them in the past and they supposedly moved on with you, then what’s the point of still reaching out?

Fact is that they don’t truly care about your emotions; they would never accept it from you but expect you to understand and see it as harmless.

And while you keep seeing it in a good light, it would be a rude shock when you finally get dumped for that ex who seems to know them better and whose ‘friendship’ they still cherish.

They are quick to call it quits after every provocation
If you can count how many times they’ve called it quits already over any slight provocations, then you should get ready for the big bomb. The final whistle when all your pleadings and explanations would not quench.

Given all the signs already, it is plain to see that you are only been dragged along in the relationship, and when the weight shifts or become too unbearable for them, they will drop you like a hot potato. Remember already that he/she cannot compromise, so darling you’ve reached your limits and really have to go even before they call it quits… again!



read more at >>>>>>
https://tripplemonline.com/2018/02/02/relationship-signs-that-youre-setting-yourself-up-for-heartbreak/

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I cannot come and go and kill myself for a lady who wasn't there at delivery room when my mum gave birth to me

heartbreak from where, I'm still looking for that guy that can break my heart as I am now. I'm always 10steps ahead waiting for you to mess up.

good for you @elyna
However, most people in a relationship still needs to know the signs that it is toxic for them and leave soon enough

tripplem2018:
good for you @elyna
However, most people in a relationship still needs to know the signs that it is toxic for them and leave soon enough

I understand the purpose of the thread I was in a toxic relationship too, in my case the emotional and verbal abuse was too much, when I started to fight back he got scared, it's not something I would wish on my enemy. women need more education on stuff like this, many are suffering and smiling just to maintain the status quo.