I don't know how some people thing and make comments.What is the big deal with my wife washing my car.My wife wash my car whenever i don't have much time left to do the washing.I don't even tell her to do it but she will look at how clean and thirty the car is and do the washing without being told.

we are happily leaving,it does not show any humiliation or using someone as a house help.

Don't see it as a female thing, I will do the washing of the car, even hers, not just mine.