profolaolu:
Well how on earth will frown at ur father

Verbal abuse doesn't put a smile on anyone's face

locust:
No be to leave house be the koko o. Discuss with your mom and never leave your dad out of the discussion. He could be feeling guilty as a result of the night's event with your mom. You don't want to be at loggerheads with your parents

Absolutely! Thanks bro

MasterRahl:
Verbal abuse doesn't put a smile on anyone's face

U did many wrongs, supporting ur mother against ur father was uncalled for, in the case of marital issues as a child you should be neutral probably because U now have fund to get what U want,U see it as a time to rebel against ur father,remember whatever you sow is what U ll reap,karma law,ur countenance must have called the verbal abuse and our parents hate disrespect, my brother, U certainly guilty

profolaolu:
U did many wrongs, supporting ur mother against ur father was uncalled for, in the case of marital issues as a child you should be neutral probably because U now have fund to get what U want,U see it as a time to rebel against ur father,remember whatever you sow is what U ll reap,karma law,ur countenance must have called the verbal abuse and our parents hate disrespect, my brother, U certainly guilty

I don't understand you. Do you understand me

MasterRahl:
I don't understand you. Do you understand me

Of course I do U change ur countenance against ur daddy because he had issues with ur mummy that they have been together before U ever think of coming to the earth and because U are making money U think U can make decision and decided to leave the house because of what never concern U

Cowbuoy:


Well in that case, since you wanna leave so badly... You should try and sit Mom down and make her understand the reason(s) why you wanna leave so badly and especially how it's good for your own sake and of course hers too... In short, try and convince with the merits in you looking for greener pastures (just like this my typing color ) only and abeg do not walk away on her without getting her consent and maybe some blessings too... My 2½ cents!!


And I hope you won't disappoint 'em and be a prodigal son few years later, shey?? Just kidding!!

op.. Here's the best advice..

Leave home, make peace with dad, mum and everyone at home before you leave.. Don't leave in anger. And make sure to plan everything well before you leave at least so you won't regret it.

MasterRahl:
Okay guys!

This is my first thread on romance section of this forum. I don't know if this is the right section for this thread, but since its the most populated, I'll give it a shot. I need your advice please.

So yesterday, I got into an argument with my father. I'm 23+, currently doing my MSc. Will be 24 next month. I work as a freelancer (though he doesn't know). The thing is, he got into an argument with my mum a night before. It hurt me and I was annoyed. But its not my marriage so I kept shut.

The next morning, I was having breakfast. He came into my room to ask when I'll be going to school. I responded 9am. I wasn't smiling though. He then started shouting, calling me a mad man...saying I like frowning at him...that I'm free to remove my clothes & go naked on the streets...bla bla bla.

He is usually very abusive when he's annoyed and it happens often. If I get extremely angry, it could lead to me smashing his head with a stool, and that's something I badly want to avoid.

Mum had the hint that I'm planning to leave. Today, her elder sister came to me...started begging and quoting Ephesians, talking about heaven & hell etc. She knelt and begged that I should make peace and not leave home. I've even found a room to rent.

I badly need my space. Mind you, my parents stay in their own house, not a rented apartment. People, I need your advice. Thanks!

MasterRahl:
Okay guys!

This is my first thread on romance section of this forum. I don't know if this is the right section for this thread, but since its the most populated, I'll give it a shot. I need your advice please.

So yesterday, I got into an argument with my father. I'm 23+, currently doing my MSc. Will be 24 next month. I work as a freelancer (though he doesn't know). The thing is, he got into an argument with my mum a night before. It hurt me and I was annoyed. But its not my marriage so I kept shut.

The next morning, I was having breakfast. He came into my room to ask when I'll be going to school. I responded 9am. I wasn't smiling though. He then started shouting, calling me a mad man...saying I like frowning at him...that I'm free to remove my clothes & go naked on the streets...bla bla bla.

He is usually very abusive when he's annoyed and it happens often. If I get extremely angry, it could lead to me smashing his head with a stool, and that's something I badly want to avoid.

Mum had the hint that I'm planning to leave. Today, her elder sister came to me...started begging and quoting Ephesians, talking about heaven & hell etc. She knelt and begged that I should make peace and not leave home. I've even found a room to rent.

I badly need my space. Mind you, my parents stay in their own house, not a rented apartment. People, I need your advice. Thanks!

MasterRahl:
Okay guys!

This is my first thread on romance section of this forum. I don't know if this is the right section for this thread, but since its the most populated, I'll give it a shot. I need your advice please.

So yesterday, I got into an argument with my father. I'm 23+, currently doing my MSc. Will be 24 next month. I work as a freelancer (though he doesn't know). The thing is, he got into an argument with my mum a night before. It hurt me and I was annoyed. But its not my marriage so I kept shut.

The next morning, I was having breakfast. He came into my room to ask when I'll be going to school. I responded 9am. I wasn't smiling though. He then started shouting, calling me a mad man...saying I like frowning at him...that I'm free to remove my clothes & go naked on the streets...bla bla bla.

He is usually very abusive when he's annoyed and it happens often. If I get extremely angry, it could lead to me smashing his head with a stool, and that's something I badly want to avoid.

Mum had the hint that I'm planning to leave. Today, her elder sister came to me...started begging and quoting Ephesians, talking about heaven & hell etc. She knelt and begged that I should make peace and not leave home. I've even found a room to rent.

I badly need my space. Mind you, my parents stay in their own house, not a rented apartment. People, I need your advice. Thanks!

your mom has been living with him for years. she understands him. just talk to him.

profolaolu:
Of course I do U change ur countenance against ur daddy because he had issues with ur mummy that they have been together before U ever think of coming to the earth and because U are making money U think U can make decision and decided to leave the house because of what never concern U

I see. We are all entitled to our opinion. I respect yours.

WinningSun:
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your mom has been living with him for years. she understands him. just talk to him.

Luxuryconsult:
op.. Here's the best advice..

Leave home, make peace with dad, mum and everyone at home before you leave.. Don't leave in anger. And make sure to plan everything well before you leave at least so you won't regret it.

Noted! Thanks!

Update: Apartment Painted. Lol!

Op, I support you 100% , familiarity breeds disrespect, my advice to you is to minimize contact with your neighbours to the barest minimum.

Greenbullet:
Op, I support you 100% , familiarity breeds disrespect, my advice to you is to minimize contact with your neighbours to the barest minimum.

Thank you Sir! I'm strengthened!