There is this friend of mine way back from yabatech whiçh I knew 7 years ago, we recently became friends on watsap and have been chatting very well. In my time in school she was the perfect girl I wanted to have, for 3 years I was on her case, and 3 times I asked her out she turned me down on all occasions.

Yesterday, I the mood of Valentine I started sharing on my status things I've done for love, of which everything has to do with this lady, up until yesterday she has never checked my watsap status, but yesterday she checked it and saw all I wrote about what I did, though I didn't mention her name.

I've been begging since yesterday, asking her to forgive me,but she is yet to reply my messages, the truth is that I wrote all those because I'm lonely and still miss her, but if I knew she would have seen it, I won't have posted all those.

Pls, I still like her and don't want to loose her friendship, she's not replying my messages, what can I do to pacify her, I know what I did was stupid and have brought down all those posts, how can I also tell her that I'm still in love with her. Thank you.

still in love after how many years, abeg move on its not by force, in fact the feeling isn't mutual, woman's not hot.

move on man. There are lots of fishes in the river. She doesn't love you. This is one thing I hate about Nigerian girls. They know they don't love you, instead of telling you their mind they will just keep playing hide and seek with your emotions. There love for you grows only when you must have left

freedomchild:
move on man. There are lots of fishes in the river. She doesn't love you. This is one thing I hate about Nigerian girls. They know they don't love you, instead of telling you their mind they will just keep playing hide and seek with your emotions. There love for you grows only when you must have left

Thanks boss

elyna:
still in love after how many years, abeg move on its not by force, in fact the feeling isn't mutual, woman's not hot.

Very true

CsRockefeller:
There is this friend of mine way back from yabatech whiçh I knew 7 years ago, we recently became friends on watsap and have been chatting very well. In my time in school she was the perfect girl I wanted to have, for 3 years I was on her case, and 3 times I asked her out she turned me down on all occasions.

Yesterday, I the mood of Valentine I started sharing on my status things I've done for love, of which everything has to do with this lady, up until yesterday she has never checked my watsap status, but yesterday she checked it and saw all I wrote about what I did, though I didn't mention her name.

I've been begging since yesterday, asking her to forgive me,but she is yet to reply my messages, the truth is that I wrote all those because I'm lonely and still miss her, but if I knew she would have seen it, I won't have posted all those.

Pls, I still like her and don't want to loose her friendship, she's not replying my messages, what can I do to pacify her, I know what I did was stupid and have brought down all those posts, how can I also tell her that I'm still in love with her. Thank you.

Oga op, y post wetin u no fit defend. So u no even get mind, now u come dey beg.

BRO YOU NEED UBUNJA MISEDUCATIONS, READ ALL HIS THREAD AND THANK ME LATER..

this kyn friendzone na pure witchcraft ..the girl wicked gan

Pubichairs:
this kyn friendzone na pure witchcraft ..the girl wicked gan

She's wicked or the op can't keep his emotions in check and move on?

first of all, the fact that you're even "begging" her would make her lose respect for you completely. Now don't get me wrong, it's not wrong to beg a girl, but don't do it to the extent where you become less of a man. Cause not every girl understand these things

You know cami, when you chase after a lady for too long, even if she had interest in you, they will lose that interest and won't have value for you.

We humans always want to have the things that dont chase after us. That lady doesn't love you... I don't think she ever did.... Begging her only reduces your self worth and brings you to no value. Try to manage ur ego especially with ladies...stop begging her!!...move on!!

zaragal:
You know cami, when you chase after a lady for too long, even if she had interest in you, they will lose that interest and won't have value for you.

We humans always want to have the things that dont chase after us. That lady doesn't love you... I don't think she ever did.... Begging her only reduces your self worth and brings you to no value. Try to manage ur ego especially with ladies...stop begging her!!...move on!!

Wow!! Wow!! Wow!! Thanks so much for that exposé, if i knew all these since I'm sure i would have acted different. Read too much academic books that i neglected the ones that talk about emotional intelligence. Thanks dear.

zaragal:
You know cami, when you chase after a lady for too long, even if she had interest in you, they will lose that interest and won't have value for you.

We humans always want to have the things that dont chase after us. That lady doesn't love you... I don't think she ever did.... Begging her only reduces your self worth and brings you to no value. Try to manage ur ego especially with ladies...stop begging her!!...move on!!

y exposing us

zaragal:
You know cami, when you chase after a lady for too long, even if she had interest in you, they will lose that interest and won't have value for you.

We humans always want to have the things that dont chase after us. That lady doesn't love you... I don't think she ever did.... Begging her only reduces your self worth and brings you to no value. Try to manage ur ego especially with ladies...stop begging her!!...move on!!

gbam .. you have talk the talk I wanted to talk finish.

ladies love alpha male not cici.

CsRockefeller:



Wow!! Wow!! Wow!! Thanks so much for that exposé, if i knew all these since I'm sure i would have acted different. Read too much academic books that i neglected the ones that talk about emotional intelligence. Thanks dear.

Read too much academic books now you blame the books you read and the ones you didn't.....oga jus shut it abeg I read and probably came out with better grades I never ASSLICKED any girl...how do u chase a woman that long.....op go to church at least start from there ehnnn before you drag your surname in the mud

You asked her out 3times in 3years and you get rejected, don't you ever get tired of rejection? like this babe obviously not into you, get a life please.

LessNoise:


Read too much academic books now you blame the books you read and the ones you didn't.....oga jus shut it abeg I read and probably came out with better grades I never ASSLICKED any girl...how do u chase a woman that long.....op go to church at least start from there ehnnn before you drag your surname in the mud

Ok, let me put the records straight, i never chased her for 7 years, we were polytechnic students, and from 2011-2013 i was on her case (through oug the duration of my ND program). It ended there and i didn't have any contact with her up until November 2017, suddenly we became close again and the feelings resurrected, since she was the last person i really liked.

But i don't have her number again, for one week we haven't spoken and i hope it stays like that for a long time.

CsRockefeller:
y

It’s crazy how you guys are able to pull this off but once I summoned the courage to ask a lady n she says no that’s the end. I have had situations where some of this girl later get back to say yes after they found out about how comfortable you are but the feeling will never be the same.

Loving is spontaneous, if you don’t give me enough green light to carry on from the first encounter us is never going to happen because I will never ask a second time n I will never give you a chance to correct the chance you never gave. Maybe it is my ego or maturity but hey, it is what it is after all girls walk up to radiating enough greenness just for me to take leads.

CsRockefeller:


Ok, let me put the records straight, i never chased her for 7 years, we were polytechnic students, and from 2011-2013 i was on her case (through oug the duration of my ND program). It ended there and i didn't have any contact with her up until November 2017, suddenly we became close again and the feelings resurrected, since she was the last person i really liked.

But i don't have her number again, for one week we haven't spoken and i hope it stays like that for a long time.

Oh now I get it......trust me no girl is worth the hassle cut her off

Chikita66:
You asked her out 3times in 3years and you get rejected, don't you ever get tired of rejection? like this babe obviously not into you, get a life please.

Yes ma, I'm already on it.

due seems you like the word NO alot..
dont devalue yourself for a chick..

CsRockefeller:



Wow!! Wow!! Wow!! Thanks so much for that exposé, if i knew all these since I'm sure i would have acted different. Read too much academic books that i neglected the ones that talk about emotional intelligence. Thanks dear.

Eyaaaa....Pele...its not all about first class sometimes

kamsibabylove:


y exposing us

Baby,....let's help the dude na, abi wat do u think??

zaragal:

Baby,....let's help the dude na, abi wat do u think??

you're right anyway, coz if twas my brother, i will give the xame advice to him

zaragal:


Eyaaaa....Pele...its not all about first class sometimes

Yes, you're correct. How u doing?

CsRockefeller:


Yes, you're correct. How u doing?

Very well thnx..and u??

zaragal:


Very well thnx..and u??

very well, seems you have been busy with school and work. Hope I'm not getting too far, these days I'm kind of cautious.

CsRockefeller:
very well, seems you have been busy with school and work. Hope I'm not getting too far, these days I'm kind of cautious.

Lol...its all good