A friend of mine (actually, someone dat felt i was de only one she could safely confide in wit dis) told me this some days ago, and asked for my advice cos she's truly at a crossroads. I didn't want to judge single handedly and prolly make a mistake when I could seek 4 contributions from great minds like u all. Pls help out. Thanks.

She fell in love with a particular guy- her first love actually (a graduate)- de relationship had been going on fine until last year when she met this other guy who is also a student like her in de university. She truly fell in love with dis guy with a kind of love she never felt for de first one. But according to her, this guy didn't seem to want to put his whole self into de relationship- probably cos he wanted 2 be very sure of her before finalizing. This he never explained to her why, and she'd continually asked him to let her know where she stood with him.

Nice story. But where do we come in?

Does she want advice on whether or nor to leave the first bobo for her new school boyfriend? **cos it seems she has already dumbed the brother**

Or Is it whether she should continue asking the school boyfriend to show her he loves her?

if its the latter then I'll say "you can't show what you don't feel". If he loves her believe me whether he likes it or not it will show. So tell your friend to stop making excuses for him (I mean the "he wants 2 be very sure before he finalizes" bull sh!t). When and if he is actually in love with her she will know.

Flashfast1:

Nice story. But where do we come in?

Does she want advice on whether or nor to leave the first bobo for her new school boyfriend? **cos it seems she has already dumbed the brother**

Or Is it whether she should continue asking the school boyfriend to show her he loves her?

if its the latter then I'll say "you can't show what you don't feel". If he loves her believe me whether he likes it or not it will show. So tell your friend to stop making excuses for him (I mean the "he wants 2 be very sure before he finalizes" bull droppings). When and if he is actually in love with her she will know.

Brilliantly said.

this post is like a joke with no punch line