donstan18:


Both parties are not cheap.

Sex itself is cheap.

MissJoy29:
Well, it's also your opinion.

donstan18:


Beside, what's your definition of a cheap lady?

MissJoy29:

A lady who sleeps around and isn't ashamed of it.

donstan18:


Lol, but most ladies and men sleeps around, does it mean most people are cheap?

MissJoy29:

Yes. Isn't that why we have a lot of immoral activity in the world right now. It's also another reason for the high rate of divorce now. So yes, a lot of men and ladies are immoral.

donstan18:



Nne, I won't to get you well
Are you saying that we are all cheap? ,

MissJoy29:

Why do people confuse "a lot" for "all" these days?

I hardly generalise o. So I use "a lot", "some", "many" etc rather than "all" when giving opinions on topics like this.

donstan18:


Some "A lot" and "Some" can be generalized

MissJoy29:
Really?

donstan18:


Sure, serious

donstan18:
Society : Is she a whoré?,
Me : No.
Society :How?
Me : Because she didn't demand for money for sex.

Society :What of "Cheap"?, is she cheap?,
Me : No.

Society : How?,
Me : Anything that has a price is cheap, but she wasn't paid for sex, it was a consensual quickie by two adults.

Society : How about the "Moral"? ,
Me : Uuuhhmm, I think most of us these days aren't morally strong so I won't judge both of them since it wasn't rape and it didn't affect anyone.

Society : What of the man that will marry her later?, what do you think of him? .
Me : Nothing much, I just think he should marry her if he finds her worthy to be his wife.

Society : How will the society see this narration by the lady?
Me : Hahahaha, I think they"ll blame and condemn the woman, while the men that all slept with her will be seen as champions.

Society : Thank you Donstan18, do you have any other thing to say?

Me : Yea, I think I want to be "An UBER DRIVER"

Society : Hahahahah

MissJoy29:

Funny...but I disagree with your second opinion. She's cheap . This isn't me judging her though. She's living her life

greiboy:
She is cheap because she doesn't have value.. She is promiscuous.
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Not everything that has value can be sold or bought with money

Value = dignity in some cases

MissJoy29:

Exactly! Thank you.

Cc donstan18

greiboy:
Here is another definition of cheap to clear any doubt

cheap is anything of little worth because achieved in a discreditable way requiring little effort.

This definition best describes her scenario

MissJoy29:

Oh I'm not in doubt. I said it earlier & still stand by it. She's cheap. Some people don't think she is. I just copied one of them.

Cc donstan18

greiboy:
if she isn't cheap, what is she ? normal?

Will any guy know all this and still want to date or marry her ?

A lady that had several casual sex with random strangers that she knew next to nothing about without any remorse!

Will any of her previous sex partners want to marry her? I don't think so, she even admit to that in her story

Will anyone prefer to be associated with her?

Hmmm. I am beginning to wonder about nairalanders

greiboy:
She is cheap because she doesn't have value.. She is promiscuous.
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Not everything that has value can be sold or bought with money

Value = dignity in some cases

donstan18:


What of the men?

greiboy:
same set of cheap mother fuckers

How can you have sex with someone that you know very little about. You really believe those guys had no gf

The word dignity isn't gender specific you know

donstan18:


Never knew having sex with strangers could define a cheap person

greiboy:
value and dignity goes hand in hand

A cheap thing is some thing requires little effort. So what will you qualify as cheap?

donstan18:


Anything that has a price is cheap.

Don't you think so?

greiboy:
Anything that does not have value, not every price is money

Have you ever heard of the saying" pay the ultimate price"