she just gained admission this year, she is 19 while I'm 35.
can I really wait for her as I promised. she love me and still call me abt 2times a week.
I thought she will move on wen she gain admission so I can get married to a ready girl. but now I don't knw what to do cos I think I don't want to wait such a long time till she graduate.
her parents are of d opinion that she must finish school before any marriage. now I find it hard to cheat on her cos I don't knw how she will feel if she comes back and find out am married to another girl. pls I need advice from experienced people

You do not have a biological clock. You can wait 3 or4 extra years if you really love her. If not then just tell her, don’t waste her youth. She can easily replace you, she’s in her prime. That’s all, just don’t waste any time to make this decision.

psychologically are u OK?

35yrs old.... going for less than 20 years OLD GIRL?
na wa o.... WHAT DO U BOTH DISCUSS ABOUT.... how is she going to be of HELP to u.... asides her body parts of sex.... WHAT DARFUK were u thinking... ehn?

Please go for your LEVEL(26/27-32) and stop CHILD ABUSE o... she is still a DEPENDENT? so it will be adoption TO marry her.
I suspect u have already SLEPT with her... pls I beg u.... release her.

mylogic111:
she just gained admission this year, she is 19 while I'm 35.
can I really wait for her as I promised. she love me and still call me abt 2times a week.
I thought she will move on wen she gain admission so I can get married to a ready girl. but now I don't knw what to do cos I think I don't want to wait such a long time till she graduate.
her parents are of d opinion that she must finish school before any marriage. now I find it hard to cheat on her cos I don't knw how she will feel if she comes back and find out am married to another girl. pls I need advice from experienced people

greatnaija01:
psychologically are u OK?

35yrs old.... going for less than 20 years OLD GIRL?
na wa o.... WHAT DO U BOTH DISCUSS ABOUT.... how is she going to be of HELP to u.... asides her body parts of sex.... WHAT DARFUK were u thinking... ehn?

Please go for your LEVEL(26/27-32) and stop CHILD ABUSE o... she is still a DEPENDENT? so it will be adoption TO marry her.
I suspect u have already SLEPT with her... pls I beg u.... release her.

she’s above the age of 18. She’s not a child, she can date an older man. Men her age will only waste her time. Please let them be.

Safiaaa:
she’s above the age of 18. She’s not a child, she can date an older man. Men her age will only waste her time. Please let them be.

wat "TIME" re u talking abt here

Nigerian ladies wit their low mentalities...

instead of doin something productive nd be independent wit dat "TIME", y'all will use dat time to be tinking of marriage.

crismark:

wat "TIME" re u talking abt here

Nigerian ladies wit their low mentalities...

instead of doin something productive nd be independent wit dat "TIME", y'all will use dat time to be tinking of marriage.

So you can’t be productive and be in a relationship at the same time? Does that make sense to you? Please go away.

nawa o.....dis one na child abuse o.

Safiaaa:
So you can’t be productive and be in a relationship at the same time? Does that make sense to you? Please go away.

wit d ladies am seeing dis days.....NO dey cant...

crismark:

wit d ladies am seeing dis days.....NO dey cant...

Kindly go away. Thanks

Safiaaa:
Kindly go away. Thanks

explain GO Away pls..
cos d last time i checked, am very far frm u

teenagers love is so sweet but never stable

crismark:

explain GO Away pls..

cos d last time i checked, am very far frm u

Please come to me I don't want you to go away

BlissB:
Please come to me I don't want you to go away

loool...hw shuld i come to u?

crismark:

loool...hw shuld i come to u?

Any how you wish to appear am at the other side waiting for you

BlissB:
Any how you wish to appear am at the other side waiting for you

loool..u re a joker!!!

i nor be wizard so i no dey dissappear nd appear

crismark:

loool..u re a joker!!!

i nor be wizard so i no dey dissappear nd appear

Hahaha....we can always start with "STEP"

BlissB:
Hahaha....we can always start with "STEP"

oya start d step...lemme follow u

It's better for you to cut her loose to go and get some experience like her mates...

If you marry her at this age she will eventually cheat on you cos she'll always be wondering what's out there

I didn't say I want to marry her at this age . learn how to read and comprehend a passage.


I come here to seek opinion if it advisable for a 35 year old guy to still wait for a 19year old that just gained admission till she graduate and go for youth service before getting married

did I tell you she is living wit me? what do u mean by cutting her loose....do I stop her from getting whatever experience u are talking about. am I her father to control her........

am not holding her down or persuading her in any way. I don't even call her . unless she calls. she keeps male frnds of her mate and live her normal young gals flirting normal life.
I don't even knw how many male frnds she is keeping now so am not holding her.
my concern is that I dont want her to feel offended if I decide to marry before she graduate. which will take up to 5years.
I don't want to marry at 40

greatnaija01:
psychologically are u OK?

35yrs old.... going for less than 20 years OLD GIRL?
na wa o.... WHAT DO U BOTH DISCUSS ABOUT.... how is she going to be of HELP to u.... asides her body parts of sex.... WHAT DARFUK were u thinking... ehn?

Please go for your LEVEL(26/27-32) and stop CHILD ABUSE o... she is still a DEPENDENT? so it will be adoption TO marry her.
I suspect u have already SLEPT with her... pls I beg u.... release her.

she has passed the age. If dey love each other then wats stopping them

Safiaaa:
she’s above the age of 18. She’s not a child, she can date an older man. Men her age will only waste her time. Please let them be.

Above 18? Not a child? Open your eyes, this is not Europe or North America oh. I'm not even up to 30 yet, but i can't sleep with a girl less than 22. Even if she is stark naked in my room. Not to even talk of dating.

I know someone like you can marry a 50 year old man as long as he has money the way you are talking

mylogic111:
I didn't say I want to marry her at this age . learn how to read and comprehend a passage.


I come here to seek opinion if it advisable for a 35 year old guy to still wait for a 19year old that just gained admission till she graduate and go for youth service before getting married

did I tell you she is living wit me? what do u mean by cutting her loose....do I stop her from getting whatever experience u are talking about. am I her father to control her........

am not holding her down or persuading her in any way. I don't even call her . unless she calls. she keeps male frnds of her mate and live her normal young gals flirting normal life.
I don't even knw how many male frnds she is keeping now so am not holding her.
my concern is that I dont want her to feel offended if I decide to marry before she graduate. which will take up to 5years.
I don't want to marry at 40

Child Abuser.

Oga, since your friends don't want to tell you the truth. The internet will.

Leave her alone and let her be. There are plenty women between 26 - 30 that are desperately looking for a spouse.

Leave her alone before you go and start molesting her

roarik:
nawa o.....dis one na child abuse o.

Asin ehn, My sister..nothing way we no go see for the Nigeria oh.

start molesting?...u are funny

u talk like a sex starved man.

sex is not an issue for real men.
even for low life guys sex is in d market and hawked everywhere at token. but I come here to talk abt life time luv

Now that she just entered higher institution, she will soon dump your ass, been there, done that.

I'm praying for her to dump me so I can get married this year but its not yet forthcoming... honestly dats my prayer cos I don't want to be d one to hurt her

Safiaaa:
she’s above the age of 18. She’s not a child, she can date an older man. Men her age will only waste her time. Please let them be.

u people don't worry yrsef.by d time d girl spend up to 2yrs at d university is d guy dat will begging to marry her .she is still very naive so anything op tell her now she will accept.by d time university opens her eyes Na op go dey beg her

Safiaaa:
she’s above the age of 18. She’s not a child, she can date an older man. Men her age will only waste her time. Please let them be.

u people don't worry yrsef.by d time d girl spend up to 2yrs at d university is d guy dat will b begging to marry her .she is still very naive so anything op tell her now she will accept.by d time university opens her eyes Na op go dey beg her

cruchenutii:


Above 18? Not a child? Open your eyes, this is not Europe or North America oh. I'm not even up to 30 yet, but i can't sleep with a girl less than 22. Even if she is stark naked in my room. Not to even talk of dating.

I know someone like you can marry a 50 year old man as long as he has money the way you are talking

ok

Safiaaa:
ok

Cheers.

Chikita66:
Now that she just entered higher institution, she will soon dump your ass, been there, done that.

hmmmm so you dumped someone abi

You pipu be breaking guys hearts Left, Right and Center