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Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by iFESTAC680(m): 6:36pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
ozoono: That's the idea bro, this thread brought back a lot of memories. |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by Ecbatana: 7:06pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
shinarlaura: Si tu me donne ton coeur, j'en garde toujours avec attention. çava? 2 Likes |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by JeffreyJunior: 7:30pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
ibkayee:I'm interested in knowing your father's reaction if he was around. Lol As kids, my sister and I used to mess with mum like that but not when her super man dey around oo. That one would release a brain resetting slap especially to me because he was always soft to his "precious daughter" but not his naughty son. |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by ibkayee(f): 7:34pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
JeffreyJunior:My dad is actually the more laid back of the two so he probably would've just corrected me calmly lol |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by Justiceleague1: 7:35pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
*when you bring home an injured hand or leg and she boils water very hot at night... dem nor born you to say no.. |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by Ventura1: 7:35pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
She must smack you with her palm, we call it 'Abara' in Yoruba. |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by JeffreyJunior: 7:42pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
ibkayee:You got it good then. I had the opposite. Mum was and is still laid back, no worries of any sort but dad, hmm. Thinking of it now, I think dad was kinda laid back too but had to step up since his wife was more of hakuna matata person. Besides, if you had younger me as son, you wouldn't afford to be laid back unless you wanted to raise just another idiot. 1 Like |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by ibkayee(f): 7:46pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
JeffreyJunior:Lmao @ hakuna matata I think my parents had it pretty good, my siblings and I are pretty laid back 'good' children in the Nigerian sense lol 1 Like |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by mediclife1987(m): 7:58pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
shinarlaura: Sweet Cameroonian babe. Are you in Nigeria at present? |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by nairamaniac: 8:05pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
jibrilELsudan: To be honest all these behaviours mentioned here are toxic. Just that we grow as children to see them as normal. From birth, they program our minds to see these things as normal. If any mother tries these things abtoad, the next door neighbour would get her reported and arrested These things also transfers the toxicity from generation to generation. 1 Like |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by nairamaniac: 8:15pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
MilitantAtheist: Ur mama was an agbero |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by Stanweezy(m): 9:22pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
2018 post Nairaland and evening newspaper are like Tinubu and Bla Blu, Blu Blu bulaba |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by Suunnn(f): 10:16pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
infoleak:Reality |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by etrange: 3:33pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
Haha.... trust me, this applies to Caribbean moms and many Asian moms as well. |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:37pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
nairamaniac: you are actuall right most people dont see that way but a few do For example, your mum will shout at you for not answering back a question she asked then 5 sec later she asks another question ( you keep quiet becoz few sec ago you got shouted for it) she goes haywire again for you not answering Most people can not express themselves fully becoz we got confused when we were kids,simply becoz every expression of yourself good or bad you can be shouted for it |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by nairamaniac: 8:57pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:And the trend just gets Transfered from Generation to generation. I really know lots of people that can't express themselves till date due to these kinds of childhood experiences. And most of those questions they expect you to answer are actually Rheutheorical questions. They believe that you should answer questions based on their own Tone and temperament. Like they would yell as you with YOU THIS BOY, YOU HAVE COME AGAIN. When you keep quiet, they get offended that you didn't respond. What the hell am I to so? NO MUMMY, I HAVENT COME AGAIN. |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:41pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
nairamaniac: it messes up the child's confidence and emotional inteligence Henc you find that in most african culture and tradition, emotions are thrown away, eg a daughter in law can be abused by MIL and she taught not to reply back or not voice her thoughts etc. Emotionally she will be damaged society is saying just stay cool and hubby would likely say the same. Eventually she will either snap on the kids for no reason and be a terrible MIL in the future becoz it would be her turn to be respected and not to be answered back and she would want to make sure that everyone knows that she is MIL and has power |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by merits(m): 2:04pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
infoleak:Not all mother are good,some mother are murderer. |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by satandeterrible: 2:53pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
SultanOfPuna: Lack of sense. Pray for sense. |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by shinarlaura(f): 10:28pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
mediclife1987: No.. but was there about two months ago |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by shinarlaura(f): 10:32pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Ecbatana: Hahaha Ca va tres bien et toi?... j 'espere que ça va aussi 1 Like |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by mediclife1987(m): 10:58pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
shinarlaura: Awww, so when are you coming back my sweet princess? |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by Ecbatana: 11:36am On Jan 17, 2023 |
shinarlaura: Oui, çava. Est-ce que tu habites au Nigeria? |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by shinarlaura(f): 10:37am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Ecbatana: Non..je suis au Cameroun. |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by Ecbatana: 3:20pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
shinarlaura: D'accord, j'ai beaucoup d'intèret dans ton pays. Surtout la capitale de Douala. |
Re: How To Know If Your Mother Is A Nigerian by Nobody: 11:57am On Sep 26, 2023 |
shinarlaura:My mum was birthed in Cameroon, and spent the first 15 years of her life there. Yaounde and Douala. Lol |
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