The ideal man for any woman is a handsome Christian, Godfearing, hard-working, loving, caring, romantic, understanding, gentle but not mumu, intelligent, determined, honest, faithful, humorous, straightforward man who has a bright future, vision, focus and foresight.

He should be able to at least cook a few dishes because he cannot expect his wife to be cooking 24/7/365. And he must be tall! He must not be one that talks too much, sleeps too much and he must not snore while he sleeps.

That is the ideal man but unfortunately, you can't find all these qualities in a man.

Women in the house, can you tell us about your ideal man? What qualities should the ideal have? And why?

(For the men: "your ideal woman"

whats the use? its only a typical man you get in the end. anyway no harm in hoping....

You wanna know my ideal man?

He must be born-again, must fear God in all ramification and be seen to be one. He must be romantic, knowledgeable and intelligent, caring..... shall i continue? We wont leave this place to night i bet.

The Ideal man for me is a Muslim man who knows and understands his position as a man and respects, supports and understands my position as a woman. A man who's not afraid of handling things, one who is flexible in his emotions and firm in his mission. He must be conscious of his surroundings globally and financial secured. He has to have a sense of humor and a man who respects higher power than him self. A man who does's good works and deeds. Really just someone who is honest, upfront, trustworthy and pure in their intentions. A man who is qualified to lead himself and his family by demonstration and who who supports his woman. A man of integrity. There is so  much more but for know this is it.

he should always be at his best he should be intelligent and God fearing he should be tall and understanding and d favour of God should show on him and wherever he goes.(u know wat i mean) he should be huge.

hmmn let me think...when i get married, my ideal man must not jump off me after a wild, pleasurable sex... & sleep off b4 i can savour the moment

[shaking my head] Experienced girls [I]sha[/I].

How do you even know that men tend to sleep off after such activities?

Seun:

[shaking me head] Experienced girls [I]sha[/I]. How do you even know that men tend to sleep off after such activities?

Seun, what are you trying to insinuate? Anyway, I am a girl, so why won't I know?

Pinky:

hmmn let me think...when I get  married, my ideal man must not jump off  me after a wild, pleasurable sex... & sleep off before I can savour the moment

emmmm, not to burst any bubbles, but if a man's first act is to get away from u, jump into shower, or whatever, there is something wrong somewhere oh..... you better check urself b4 u hurt urself.

i still dont see the reason why an i deal man MUST be tall?

jogego:

if a man's first act is to get away from you, jump into shower, or whatever, there is something wrong somewhere oh..... you better check urself before you hurt urself.

jogego you re not serious one bit.... what gives you & seun the impression.. I have seen the practical aspect of this post......... I only said he must not jump off & go to sleep, I never said he musnt go to shower or do something else..am talking about sleepn off immediately..... now I know that's what you do to your girl{s}.........because you sound experienced

my ideal man must be tall,loving, caring ,godfearing,romantic,must be sentive to my feeling at all times.

Pinky:

jogego link=topic=440.msg5121#msg5121 date=1118657457:

if a man's first act is to get away from you, jump into shower, or whatever, there is something wrong somewhere oh..... you better check urself before you hurt urself.

jogego you re not serious one bit.... what gives you & seun the impression.. I have seen the practical aspect of this post......... I only said he must not jump off & go to sleep, I never said he musnt go to shower or do something else..am talking about sleepn off immediately..... now I know that's what you do to your girl{s}.........because you sound experienced

if person get experience, na offence. oya carry police come with hand cuff make dem come carry me

I'm rolling on the floor with laughter!

my ideal man is a godfearing somebody a person that will understand and will not hit me and will take his responbility in the house a pastor is the person i ant to marry full stop

eh! whats the saying if wishes were......................

(ladies please complete it for me)

Then bear this in mind, cause for everything you wish for in a guy, you are most likely to end up with the opposite. Prepare yourselves!

hey my ideal man again is a person that is atrative and a person that is down to earth and is careing and lovingand of course not a fool that will not know what is right or wrong

tall tall tall cos i am tall too, cute not necessary drop dead gorgeous, respects me as a woman, holds intelligent conversation, loves to argue a point not a heated argument but civilised discussion but we are still friends and we make up at the end, someone that has his own opinion. he does not have to agree with me all the time that pisses me off. i like guy that has a mind of his own, and who welcomes my own individuality also a guy that will help out at home, loving and[b] loyal[/b], not a player, someone i can trust and grow old with. will be good if he is built not too muscular though, good teeth, nice eyes and welcoming warming smile.

Must your Ideal man be handsome?

he most not be handsome but normal

love4ever:

he most not be handsome but normal

Sweetheart, there is nothing bad if he is handsome. Our God is handsome.

That means every man is handsome and every lady pretty, for all God created are certified good by God. He created all of us in His own image so reject no man in the name he's not handsome enough.

Dats an ideal man huh? but wot about wot is in his mind..gurl am talking out of experience

a man with a great mind is lovable. that is one of the attributes i would like my man to have..

Motee:

love4ever link=topic=440.msg9572#msg9572 date=1120486244:

he most not be handsome but normal

Sweetheart, there is nothing bad if he is handsome. Our God is handsome.

No.. Our God is Awesome..not handsome.

Anyways nothing spoil if the man is handsome..na just extra juice.

my ideal man..cute, fun, funny, sexy, god fearing, not addicted to sex and sweet

I would call it "Love at first read"

ehhhhh.. mmkay. I am still waiting for one of them to explain.

woah dere now..wot happened? sum1 tell me wot happened

Nike read the last 7 posts. And Explain.

nuffin to explain..he says hes de ideal man and i'm like yea ok