Pusyiter:
Their popsie. If dem leave you eh, you go laminate kpomo oooo. I sight you broz.

hahaha broz e no reach dat level nah i just dey hail

revontuli:


Give me a few months even I'll write naija pidgin

Lol, I'll be monitoring your progress.

simonlee:

We even have yam flour which would give 'similar' results without the pounding. however, the manually pounded yams taste much better and has the right texture. therefore, many believe that it's always worth the stress in the end.
You should try pounded yam and Egusi soup in an African restaurant close to you

Sometimes I grind the Indian curry spices with mortar and pestle, but only on rare occasions. Practical and quick comes before taste most of the time

na me hail you pass. All join, Ikorodu na Lagos.

sirBLUNT:
hahaha broz e no reach dat level nah i just dey hail

XhosaNostra:


Lol, I'm not saying I'm immune to charm. I'm human. But there's a way to go about it, in order not to rouse suspicion. I really don't like "immoral" people. I'm very self-righteous & I will jump on my high horse in a second, especially when there's no feeling there

... Imagine this situation.. Self-righteousness is already thrown out of the window, init?

Opentokwowledge:
... Imagine this situation.. Self-righteousness is already thrown out of the window, init?

Lol, no

Women liberation in action. Beijing women conference rehashed.

If she is say Linda Ikeji or something and he doesnt speak email. not impossible. he is just been supportive. dont like the idea though, cos the baby could have been by her side learning to send emails o r something

simonlee:

We even have yam flour which would give 'similar' results without the pounding. however, the manually pounded yams taste much better and has the right texture. therefore, many believe that it's always worth the stress in the end.
You should try pounded yam and Egusi soup in an African restaurant close to you

Is pounded yam the same thing as Ghanaian fufu?

Ladyhippolyta88:
This woman is very lucky he is the best man in the world.Many women pray for husbands like this ah oga you are a good man.Some Nigerians would call this man bewitched or whatever jealousy and bad belle people.

I Really Really wish i could have a face to face conversation with you about your idea and perspective about Feminism. I honestly believe from what i have gathered as your opinion on it, that on this idea, there's a fundamental flaw in your perception of it and this is one that i would really like to help you correct because i believe you are intelligent and so need to know the truth, But unfortunately i can't fully accomplish that mission on nairaland because there's too much i will want to tell you, i just can't do that much Typing and at the end of the day, i may not be able to pass the message to you properly. Maybe someday we could have a telephone conversation or something like that Where we shall tackle this using the Tool of RATIONALITY.. and maybe we could Enlighten each other On what the REAL Truths are on this issue, On what can be done and also how it Should be done.
I do hope this will happen soon and i am very positive that after that session, You will get to see this issue in a very different Light and ultimately find more Satisfaction and inner peace in going about the cause that you and others are fighting for.

Shalom.

revontuli:


Is pounded yam the same thing as Ghanaian fufu?

Fufu is a general terms used to describe either pounded yam (yam fufu), pounded cassava (cassava fufu), pounded Coco yam (Coco yam fufu) or any other starch meal made from tuber crops.
it is however safe to say that when 'fufu' is mentioned without being specific, the person is most likely referring to 'cassava fufu'. So, Ghanaian fufu could be cassava fufu (most likely) and not pounded yam.

XhosaNostra:



Example, I met this other guy at a convenience store not too far from my house. He was standing behind me in the queue, so as I moved away after paying for my stuff, he stepped at the back of my shoe & the strap broke. He was kind enough to offer me a lift home since I couldn't walk with one shoe. Anyway, on the way we started having a conversation. I knew he was Nigerian before he even told me, the accent gave it away. He asked if I have a boyfriend etc. And then he told me about another girl he is dating, but she moved away because of work. They're still in a relationship though. Mind you, it is clear that we're both in a relationship at this point, but then this guy asks for my number, telling me that he has a big "thing", he's sure I've heard about Nigerian men before blah blah blah.

See, for me, two things are a no-no. 1) A guy that has admitted he has a girlfriend, but still expects you to be in a relationship with him 2) A guy that knows you have a boyfriend, but is OK with being "the other guy". Nothing screams "whimp" or user more than someone like that, because I believe a guy with sense wouldn't wanna be an option.

Anyway, there's been a lot of similar experiences with different guys. They'll be telling you about how much money they will be spending on you, how big their côcks are & the fact that they don't seem to mind being a side squeeze. None of that is attractive TO ME.

Lol!

I think it is a cultural thing.

Nigerians don't take fidelity very seriously (even if they say otherwise) hence your having a boyfriend means nothing to him. He also won't mind being the side boo because he has a babe and is not looking to marrying you.

BluntTheApostle:


Yes, especially, biologically.

Women are stronger than men physically too?

revontuli:


Sometimes I grind the Indian curry spices with mortar and pestle, but only on rare occasions. Practical and quick comes before taste most of the time

Here in Africa, it is common belief that when food is cook in the most traditional method, with all the pounding and grinding using stones, motor and pestle, it will taste better.
All the blending, mashing and shredding now practised literally takes the joy out of the meal...according to our moms!

Fadiga24:
That's their love I see nothing stupid in that

As if there is a guideline on what a husband should do and should not do in the house.

stopp talkin nonsense for cheap likes... if dia ar no guidelines, a man shud get pregnant naaa...

bukatyne:


Lol!

I think it is a cultural thing.

Nigerians don't take fidelity very seriously (even if they say otherwise) hence your having a boyfriend means nothing to him. He also won't mind being the side boo because he has a babe and is not looking to marrying you.

Lol, then it'll never be. Who wants to be used? I'm not looking for marriage either, but I like the thought of a possibility. Why enter a relationship that's a dead end before it even started? Seems like a waste of time.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, then it'll never be. Who wants to be used? I'm not looking for marriage either, but I like the thought of a possibility. Why enter a relationship that's a dead end before it even started? Seems like a waste of time.

It is not a relationship; it is 'friends with benefits'

bukatyne:


It is not a relationship; it is 'friends with benefits'

Nah, I'll pass.

XhosaNostra:


Nah, I'll pass.

Love in stupid

Role reversal is cool sometimes. It's a kinky way of spicing up relationships. However, it should not be taken too far

bukatyne:


Women are stronger than men physically too?

Largely so. An average man might be able to beat up an average woman but that is just an aspect of physical strength. This average woman may be able to take more pains than that average man. I have had cases when we would come back from a long trip and everyone, including dad, would be tired but mom would still be up on her feet preparing dinner. And it is how my sister has developed. Sometimes I can't do half of what she does without feeling tired and sleepy.

simonlee:

Fufu is a general terms used to describe either pounded yam (yam fufu), pounded cassava (cassava fufu), pounded Coco yam (Coco yam fufu) or any other starch meal made from tuber crops.
it is however safe to say that when 'fufu' is mentioned without being specific, the person is most likely referring to 'cassava fufu'. So, Ghanaian fufu could be cassava fufu (most likely) and not pounded yam.

Ghanaians love their cassava, so that's the difference between Nigerian and Ghanaian fufu!

revontuli:



Ghanaians love their cassava, so that's the difference between Nigerian and Ghanaian fufu!

Yes they do love cassava alot... your comment could mean something else,if only you know what meanings Nigerians have given to the word "Cassava". lol

simonlee:

Yes they do love cassava alot... your comment could mean something else,if only you know what meanings Nigerians have given to the word "Cassava". lol

Oh dear, those damn double meanings! Ignorance is bliss!

but shebi you de form warrior princess bfor

XhosaNostra:
Staged. Unless the guy has been bewitched, I don't see how any self-respecting man would allow himself to become whatever that is. As a woman, I'd feel very uncomfortable watching a man (my man) do all the housework, while I'm sitting on my ass eating bonbons all day. In my own household I prefer to do all the housework, because I do it better

luminouz:

Lmaooooo
If u have ever seen any of my posts,u will know I ain't a faker... I'm Alien..always have...always real n raw n myself....besides I dated these girls in Nigeria....not outside d country...so I don't know jack about how their countrymen feel about naija guys!!!

N don't use NL posts to gauge all naija guys....NL is just SM n on SM... EVERYBODY IS A KING ONLINE!!!

Lol, I hear you.

revontuli:


Oh dear, those damn double meanings! Ignorance is bliss!

Don't worry. At this rate, you'll be Nigerian in no time

Preshy561:
what's wrong with the picture biko?

Nothing really...