I met my wife during our university days.

She have all i want in a woman:beauty,brain and a good cook.

During our courtship i notice she is always secretive.

That didn't bother me anyway due to my love for her but little did i know that was my greatest undoing in our future union.

We got married after courting her for 2 years,then the kids came along.

3 years into our union i discovered that she always denied me sex by giving excuse each time i want it.

In addition each time i want to check her mails,contacts and whatsapp chats she will start attacking me verbally despite her checking mine.

I believe she is cheating on me as it is glaring.

It is when a woman is up to something fishy that she will always hide something from you in order not to be caught.

Please help what should I do?

Source:life issues on fb.

Through more light oga

All you wanted from a woman was beauty, brain and a good cook, you never wanted a woman who's open to you, who will respect and value your marriage.

Why are you now complaining?



Beauty and brain can only make a single lady, not a WIFE and a MOTHER

More information is needed to give an advice based on a balance perspective

I feel for him.

If the problem is because he can not satisfy her, he should use our herbal tea for men.

'Ogbu mma anaghi ekwe ka mma ga ya na azu'.

My igbo brothers will help you out

Has to be this woman

You're having those feelings cuz you're probably cheating.

Some people and yes women are naturally secretive, doesn't mean they have skeleton's in the closet.

Good luck with your marriage.

Op, u r funny. She is just the secretive type. Unless u get CONCRETE PROOF she is cheating,
everything is in your head.

swiz123:
' Ogbu mma anaghi ekwe ka mma ga ya na azu'.

My igbo brothers will help you out

Person wee de kill with knife no dey allow make person carry knife go em back.


Another person should translate to English

ameri9ja:
Op, u r funny. She is just the secretive type. Unless u get CONCRETE PROOF she is cheating,
everything is in your head.

I am sure she was not secretive as a baby so let's leave all this "she is the secretive type"....if you are secretive and not ready to change that, don't go into marriage cos, marriage and secretiveness by any of the spouses is not compatible.

VERDA:


I am sure she was not secretive as a baby so let's leave all this "she is the secretive type"....if you are secretive and not ready to change that, don't go into marriage cos, marriage and secretiveness by any of the spouses is not compatible.

Gives u no right to say she's cheating with no evidence

predmine20:
I met my wife during our university days.

She have all i want in a woman:beauty,brain and a good cook.

During our courtship i notice she is always secretive.

That didn't bother me anyway due to my love for her but little did i know that was my greatest undoing in our future union.

We got married after courting her for 2 years,then the kids came along.

3 years into our union i discovered that she always denied me sex by giving excuse each time i want it.

In addition each time i want to check her mails,contacts and whatsapp chats she will start attacking me verbally despite her checking mine.

I believe she is cheating on me as it is glaring.

It is when a woman is up to something fishy that she will always hide something from you in order not to be caught.

Please help what should I do?

Source:life issues on fb.

well,I feel you should confront her and see her reaction.don't live in assumptions.it might not be the case of infidelity

donstan18:

Person wee de kill with knife no dey allow make person carry knife go em back.

Another person should translate to English

A staber cannot allow a stabee to stab his back

If you have access to her phone I will help you. Pm me.

Warning!! What you discover afterwards may breakup your marriage.

ameri9ja:
Op, u r funny. She is just the secretive type. Unless u get CONCRETE PROOF she is cheating,
everything is in your head.

I am not the man in the post,i am only sharing from a source:so don't get it twisted nada.

greiboy:
More information is needed to give an advice based on a balance perspective

What info?the post is their for you to give a constructive advice if you so wished nada.

predmine20:
I am not the man in the post,i am only sharing from a source:so don't get it twisted nada.

Coulda fooled me.

mzhorlah:
well,I feel you should confront her and see her reaction.don't live in assumptions.it might not be the case of infidelity

I am not the man in the post,i am only trying to help by posting it here. well your advice is cool as it from a lady if i am correct.

greiboy:
More information is needed to give an advice based on a balance perspective

Oga adviser longtime.

Angy55:

Oga adviser longtime.

Yes, miss pretty, you just abandoned me anyhow

How are you?

greiboy:
Yes, miss pretty, you just abandoned me anyhow

How are you?

I didn't abandon you. I'm fine, you?

Angy55:
I didn't abandon you. I'm fine, you?

I am good we thank God, you?

greiboy:
I am good we thank God, you?

I'm good

Angy55:

I'm good

That is wonderful, I didn't get any response from you regarding the mails, why?

oga you made your bed so sleep on it

greiboy:
That is wonderful, I didn't get any response from you regarding the mails, why?

Had issues with my smart phone then. If you still have my mail address, send a msg and you will get a reply now.

Angy55:

Had issues with my smart phone then. If you still have my mail address, send a msg and you will get a reply now.

alright will do that later

ameri9ja:


Gives u no right to say she's cheating with no evidence

Haaa...did I accuse her of cheating?, I am not the OP now, my response was to ur trying to justify the lady's over secretiveness towards her husband.

The answer is simple. Bone her completely. No sex, no intimacy, don't check her phones and NEVER ALLOW HER CHECK YOURS. Just be cold. She would come asking then, spill up and spark. ''Revenge is better served when cold''. After which, come for lesson 2!