I've been in love with this girl for over a year now. I'm so passionate about her it hurts even breathing to think about her sometimes. She makes me laugh and I feel totally at home with her as a soulmate. However, I have some doubts about her fidelity and her ability to be a true Godly wife.

I know this other lady who I have a lot of respect for and she would make a great Godly wifge but that special sumthin is missing!! What do do?? Which is more important to forumers, passion and a racing heart or sensible and trustworthy??

Soulful:

Which is more important to forumers, passion and a racing heart or sensible and trustworthy??

i will say "sensible and trustworthy". everyother thing been equal

i believe you can have the whole deal so dats what i'm going for.

I'd say passion and a racing heart. If she truly feels the same way you do, she would change for better. Tell her wht u think, and she might change. The second girl might not even be wht she appears to be. Trust me. Trust your heart, and follow it.

sensible and trusworthy makes it all cos if you trust her all things will work out fine

God never gives it all to one person, what are your priorities in a wife? investigate into how well these mean to u, create a list of priorities, check who meets these targets closer and make your decision. Good Luck with that

sensible my dear. passion runs out at some point in every marriage, and it's other things that keep the fire going. a sensible godfearing woman u can come home to every nite. the passionate one pulls u back home from ur priorities. if u look at most old couples, u see an inner sense of peace. the fire is all gone, but the tranquility that comes with being able to trust someone keeps them going. so in ur best interest, choose sensibly.

Am sure u already know the answer to ur problem cos it lies with u.