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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Ayohbk(m): 11:40am On Apr 04, 2018 |
Shroud: For your mind you're smart abi. What if i say the use of condom is "an obfuscation of nature and creation. Because the main purpose of sex is procreation and when you use condoms you prevent that. "Gays stepped on your right ", that sounds like the dumbest thing I've ever heard, Elton John is married to a man, Ellen degenerres is married to have woman, there are so many gay people that are married, how has that prevented you from living out your miserable life. What gives you the right to obstruct other's pursuit of happiness. If a man believes being married to another man makes him happy, who are you to question him. Do you not marry persons of yoyr choice, why prevent others from doing same. It only shows you're a selfish person. Then you stated that children adopted by gay couples have growth issues, no sense of freedom and turn out to be homosexuals too, oga do you think at all before you type, can you please state examples to buttress your point. I don't know how people will just come to an online forum to State Bullshiii. I don't know if it's to blame our educational system that has handicapped a lot of people's thinking or to blame individuals like you who just refuse to use their brains. |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Ayohbk(m): 11:42am On Apr 04, 2018 |
openmine: Do you know there are many gay men and women who bow to societal pressure and get married to the opposite sex but they still run things on a downlow. Lol |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Ayohbk(m): 11:56am On Apr 04, 2018 |
openmine: How about men and women who have reproductive issues ( low sperm count, erectile dysfunction, impotence, womb complication) and can't procreate, does that make them less human? A woman that has sex but doesn't conceive, does that make a her less human?. Can you please give proof of where therapy has worked for homosexuality. The U.S and other developed countries have categorically stated that homosexuality is not a mental issue or disease, so there's nothing like a cure or therapy. But no , na from Nigerians who are dying from ordinary malaria and still battling with polio for decades you go dey hear " go for therapy" and other shits. |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Ayohbk(m): 11:59am On Apr 04, 2018 |
Obi1kenobi: Lol...... you just destroyed the guy's career. Mehn..... your punchlines are legendary. Put the bloody lowlife homophobes right in their place. |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by WrathOfHadez(m): 12:29pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
Ayohbk: I stopped reading when I saw "the use of condom is an obfuscation of nature". Gay people are not only suffering from sexual orientation disturbances, they are also inflicted by acute mental retardation and perceptual disturbances. So if condom is an obfuscation of nature, then you should add clothes and every other apparel we put on to the list So will be the shaving and cutting of hair as they are meant to grow long. So would be every other healthy means of birth control. There's no amount of logic or rationalism that will dispel the fact you're an aberration of nature. Now get lost. Prince Of Sod(o)my. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by openmine(m): 12:51pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
Ayohbk:Sorry bro ur comparison is not in any way related! Wat has low sperm count (which can be rectified with the right medication) have any correlation with a mental aberration? Ohh yeah,so just because the US and other supposed advanced countries have validated that its not a mental issue,hence we are to suck up and digest whatever they tell U! I guess U will be comfortable if the so called US say its OKay to have se.x with an animal! That has always my issue with Africans,our thinking ends where the whites ends there by limiting our ability to think out of the box! Inferiority complex go kill us for this nation! Maybe one day marijuana will accepted in US and other so called advanced countries and U will also see that as comfortable right? Smh |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by openmine(m): 12:54pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
Ayohbk:yawn...Another weak and stale reasoning to justify a seemingly shameful act! |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by openmine(m): 12:59pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
WrathOfHadez:lol...the annoying part is their illogic conclusion that they were born homosexuals....meanwhile these traits were actually learnt...but because they don't know how to hide their shameful acts,they seek the attention of the western media to draw sympathy and thereby make it a norm to our society! Smh |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by WrathOfHadez(m): 1:03pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
openmine:never mind those silly slip of humanity. They encouraged the feeling and never fought the urge in thier teens. Now they are looking stupider by the day trying to rationalize their abominable conduct. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 1:07pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
openmine: Look at this one who uses technology brought by west and even practices their religion talking about inferiority complex, the other day we all saw a viral video of a herdsman mating his cow, you think its US that's influencing this? always funny how we Africans act like we are the citadel of morals and some white people are corrupting us, we live in a society where its okay to marry kids and but you think your morals are higher up than that of others. |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by WrathOfHadez(m): 1:07pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
Hypocritical bag of goatshit, these gays. How could America and her band of devilish allies criminalise incest and endorse faggotry. Is incest not also between consenting couples? |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 1:16pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
WrathOfHadez: They did so after many years of advocacy from gay rights groups, you can start up incest advocacy if you wish to, people advocate for their rights if they feel they haven't been accommodated enough its not a thing of social media rants, moreover the world leaning more on liberalism, people get easily heard and understood |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by openmine(m): 1:28pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
sanpipita:lol... Ur reasoning is so unfortunate and quite disturbing! So because U had technology from the west, Got religion from the west.... Does that suggest or demand that you should accept or digest what ever they offer to U? What sort of backward mindset is that? What better vocab can be used to classify such reasoning except "inferiority complex"! As much as am not oblivious of the fact that the western culture brought good things to Africans,must that also be a premise to also accept the "bad things"(that they once rejected) simply because we want to look good before them? Are u aware that there are people in that same US that abhor homosexuals? Do U think becos their media says some thing,does that now reflect the collective views of every one in that country? |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 1:39pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
openmine: So you think its Americans that brought homosexuality to Africa? you need to start researching deep, bet some of you think homosexuality only started existing in this age, and its only natural there will be people to disagree about homosexuality in US like we do here, ideals and thoughts don't always have to be same, back here people feel its okay to marry kids while others see it in bad light guess you get the point? and I never insinuated we should swallow anything west throws at us, but to say they are influencing us badly is absurd, its only exposes us as weak minded people, there are many immoralities that's been happening in Africa even before west came, stop the blame game |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by WrathOfHadez(m): 1:42pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
sanpipita:thank you for admitting faggotry twisted and blackmailed the law by lobbying to have legitimacy. That's all I needed. But here in Nigeria and other Good countries, we will continue to mend the moral fabric of humanity. |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 1:52pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
WrathOfHadez: Oh well if that's what you understood from what I posted then good for you, you even ascribed Nigeria as a good country and moral fabric of humanity, hilarious |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by openmine(m): 2:31pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
sanpipita: So based on a half baked analysis by a random researcher,U came to a logical conclusion that homosexuality started at Africa before it got to the west? So once an article or research that is in conformity with ur line of thought,U just go with tlit without even making ur own research? kai...lol sanpipita: blame game....? Hahahahaha don't make me laugh U insinuated that since the whites brought tech and other stuffs into Africa hence we show get influenced by what they do eg accept homosexuality as a norm since that's what they have accepted! In fact U are grossly contradicting urself... This was ur earlier statement sanpipita: if ur statement isnt that of an inferior person,then I don't really know what to say.... Maybe if today the US starts making a law to rid the country of homosexuals with reason, U will also accept it too! Such kind of mentality is associated to indirect slavery! |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by WrathOfHadez(m): 2:38pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
sanpipita:we're morally okay in Nigeria. I don't expect you to agree anyway, a gay is always ready to sell his country for a feel of anal drilling. But be rest assured, we'll never legalise that disgusting act here. You'll always be a criminal advocating and ranting about your perversion behind the thick curtains of social media. Step out, you're doing a long time in jail . |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by WrathOfHadez(m): 2:41pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
sanpipita: Have you ever researched sexual consent in America? Some age of consent in some states are even 16. Florida or one other state use to be 12. You're a victim of neocolonialism and mental hoodwinking. |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 3:15pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
openmine: Seems you are quick to jump into conclusions, state where I said homosexuality started in Africa before getting to the west, my point is it isn't an imported orientation like most of you make it be, there is a long history of homosexuality in Africa before west came by and no where I said we should gulp whatever west brings to us, they brought us tech and religion and I ended it there, where exactly is this contradiction you talk about or is English comprehension so hard for you? I even clarify my positions but seems you still want to see non existent contradictions and clutch on them like a straw man |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 3:23pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
WrathOfHadez: Nigeria and morals in same sentence again? I always known delusion is real but let there be limits to such idotic delusions, what's morally okay about Nigeria? is it about a society that justifies rape? known thieves and abusers are celebrated, miss me with that BS, you can't even find social justice in Nigeria for yourself and you want to sound politically correct |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 3:29pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
WrathOfHadez: And you are a victim of nonsensical african solidarity that comes with utopian delusion, consent age in Nigeria is 18 but kids young as 10 and 11 are either raped or given away for marriage, give yourself a proper look and purge your leprous society first before pointing at those miles ahead of you in all facets of humanity |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by openmine(m): 5:10pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
sanpipita: Oh really? so let me get U correctly....did U just say homosexuality was some thing that was already in existence in Africa before the whites showed up right? Please is that a joke? Some folks will always look for any slight excuse to continue their shameful acts...to the extent of justifying that Africa already started practicing homosexuality...Hahahahaha soon U will go get another incomplete and falsified research which erroneously states that bestiality started in Africa....Chai No matter where it came from....I don't care....all I care about is that homosexuality is abnormal,unnatural, shameful and an aberration to the existence of mankind! And no matter how U or ur likes flip this unfortunate aberration, Nothing absolutely nothing can justify that abominable act whether U chose to believe it or not! I repeat...what is wrong is wrong! |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 6:08pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
openmine: Problem with Nigerians is they like arguing with bold ignorance, I haven't asked you to accept homosexuality but arm yourself about facts about it, saying west brought homosexuality to Africa is laughable, homosexuality in Africa dates back as 16th century or even more there was hardly any western influence in ancient Egypt whose homosexuality practice is well recorded even in Ethiopia too, from nzima people in Ghana, to pangwe in Cameroon, the khoikhoi people in south africa specifically had a name for men into men which they called koetsire, ancient African warriors were known to take boys slaves who served them intimately too I can give you an example of azande warriors from congo if im not wrong, all these happened without any western influence, and do you want me to shocked you about beastiality in Africa? maybe read swaziland king long age beastiality ritual, history is VERY important just arm yourself with it whether you accept homosexuality or not, I'm getting tired on educating you on this, read and expand your knowledge. |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by openmine(m): 6:17pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
sanpipita: Maybe U have a comprehension problem....I don't care where or how it started.....what I know from my current facts remains that.... No matter where it came from....I don't care....all I care about is that homosexuality is abnormal,unnatural, shameful and an aberration to the existence of mankind! And no matter how U or ur likes flip this unfortunate aberration, Nothing absolutely nothing can justify that abominable act whether U chose to believe it or not! I repeat...what is wrong is wrong! That has been my line of thought right from the beginning of this post! I have a question for U....if indeed researchers made U believe homosexuality started here in Africa,why was homosexuality never a tradition or culture in africa? Why was it not coined in our culture as a norm? |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 6:46pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
openmine: Lol i gave you instances on how homosexuality was part of culture and tradition of certain people in africa and you are still asking questions , seems you quarrel with history that's your choice though homosexuality dates many years back, it will outlive me and you, all these noises amounts to nothing |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by openmine(m): 6:58pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
sanpipita:Chai lol..... why was homosexuality never a tradition or culture in africa? Let me elaborate with some simple definitions of the terms tradition and culture.... What is tradition? "A tradition is a belief or behavior passed down within a group or society with symbolic meaning or special significance with origins in the past." What is culture? "Culture is the social behavior and norms found in human societies. " So based on these explicit definitions,why is homosexuality not part of our culture and tradition? If U believe its part of our culture and tradition,can you name an African country aside south Africa that practices homosexuality? |
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 7:12pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
openmine: Nigerians don't practice homosexuality or you want to be oblivious, go to kano and see how men are openly into relationships with themselves, you think that's caused by western influence? I mentioned Congo, Ghana and Egypt in my earlier posts, is that you cant read well or what? are you scared to admit the rate of homosexuals keep increasing in this country? the mighty and powerful are part of it |
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