Shugavee:
Honestly they r!!! Men shame single ladies alot,some even behave like they dont need women, that's cause they are single n frustrated too!! Women put too much pressure on themselves, thinking we r the only ones in search n men are all taken!!!! Nope they ain't they are as well desperate n frustrated too!! Even tho they dont admit it!!!

seunadeolu:

Guilty as charged

pcguru1:


Let's put it this way, A lady is successful, beautiful and all, it would be hard for guys to say she's broke because she's not or say she's ugly so they clamour on the available ammo that is present the marital status so they use that. Frankly am surprised people care about that, or maybe it's not the same being ridiculed for being single as a guy, because if anything or word they say doesn't put money in my pocket then it doesn't make cents.

Note: Rarely would you find a guy that is occupied and busy doing such hehehe not saying anything

CosmicJames:
The only thing that can frustrate a man is if he didn't have money. Nothing else. Not even women.
You should understand that the frustration of women is most likely due to the fact that they are not expected to remain in their father's house especially in this part of the world.

But for the men, they have no other place to go than to remain in their father's house.
So even if they (men) don't get married, at least they can stay in their father's home without pressure.
This is not the case with women

Shugavee:
i get ur point but i dont totally agree, if u r talking abt the pressure 4 marriage for a lady whether in ur fathers house or not, the pressure will stil be there, and i also feel parents r more accommodating with female children than male!!! A lady can hv a good job n her parents will insist she stays in their house so she won't be seen too rich (africian mentality) most times most of them move out when they r old!! Me example!!! left for my parents they wanted me to keep staying in their house till i get married but i said no !!! But if a man is in father's house n he is mature, his parents r even willing to get him an apartment if they r well to do, if u are from a poor home no one would want to feed you n plus the disrespect!!! Inequality shit

Back to base, women feel the pressure to Marry but guys hv no pressure but still feel bad abt their single hood!! Except u r a fuckboy tho, but i mean responsible guys

sheffy87:







well said
everything still boils down to societal pressure! only dat women feel it d more!!!! if a man has money and is well to do his problem almost completely solved!!!!!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Everyone is frustrated since Apc started ruling us

CosmicJames:

I didn't say a woman can't stay in their father's home. Of course they (women) can.
But they have to stay there with some serious pressure. It is not the same with the men.
This particular factor increases the pressure on women. But I can assure you that men don't have such pressure from both parents and the society.

Let's assume a woman is unable to get her own place outside her father's house/home

ellapius:
Op u re 100% correct. My bros has Been single for past 2years.. .he is lonely most times and frustrated too. You see him becoming a workaholic for nothing he needs a woman. I know they are many out there

marvin906:




what to do my dear..
me Marvin becoming restless just because i dont have a chick in my life
huhhhh
that will be the day heaven comes down

lefulefu:
if he has a good job then getting a woman ought not to be his problem. If a young has a good job with a nice accommodation and he avoids women then there are two things dat could be his problem.

ellapius:
he has a number of ladies around him .but all thinks is work work money money. His his time for ladies is like gongnto the swimming pool for leisure

lefulefu:
one of my bigger bros he's a doctor and very well off.he's in his late 40s and ladies surround him the way ants surround sugar. Almost every night he sleeps with a different girl in his well furnished flat. He's much single with no serious girlfriend and he's always very cheerful.tell me why won't he be cheerful when he has a nice ride and he's comfortable. Only brokeness can make we men frustrated and angry ..not singlehood.your brother is probably not ready not ready for woman wahala right now.i am sure when he's ready he will open up and accept a lady into his life. For now he doesn't want to be distracted by nagging and cheating.

ellapius:
same way I tot. .i even linked my friend to him. He just used her for two weeks and came up with a story that she is a distraction.

ImaIma1:


Easy Tiger

Shugavee:

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ellapius:
same way I tot. .i even linked my friend to him. He just used her for two weeks and came up with a story that she is a distraction.

Rubbiish:

Stop disturbing your brother for Christ sake!!!
Which kind girl be this....

Halfpenny:


Too late

ellapius:
its the kind that care about family o. Lol Abi is it ur brother

lazeal:
you think so? Watch what will happen now!

Halfpenny:


Too late