RoyalBlak007:
"spare me"

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Safiaa:
Darling. Guys are very easy to handle. You just have to know your way around it. If you allow yourself to be manipulated and used, that's what will happen.

Shugavee:
Now my friend was gisting me abt a guy she just met, cool,nice n all that!! She liked the boy to the stage she started forming n collected 2k 4 tp even if he even asked her if it was enough (n no it wasnt) she said that that they kissed, that it was very romantic to the extent he kissed her at the park b4 leaving!! So i asked, are u guys officially dating?? she was confused!! N she was planning to go to his house the next weekend to cook n sex him!! i was happy she was happy n all that,, but i asked again is he ur boyfriend?? She was confused!!! So i told her to ask him whats the bases of the relationship,,,, uncle said they are still friends trying to know each other!! Really but when u met her u wanted to touch her body n all n probably hv sex if u had the chance to!! Is tht how friends kiss each other up n down!! All of u are mad!! So u just give a girl so much hope 4 nothing!!! Just 4 the fun of it?? My friend actually cried!!!

Newboss:
Is that not what women do to guys just to extort them? I applaud the guy! You are actually the scum here because you just can't think! He could have told her what she wanted to hear and have "unhinged" access till he's tired of her. Rather, he chose to be plain with her! Yes, friends do have sex, not just kiss, without any dating relationship whatsoever!

Deal with your obsession with dating!

Blakjewelry:
after reading if felt even more confused

Shugavee:
Now my friend was gisting me abt a guy she just met, cool,nice n all that!! She liked the boy to the stage she started forming n collected 2k 4 tp even if he even asked her if it was enough (n no it wasnt) she said that that they kissed, that it was very romantic to the extent he kissed her at the park b4 leaving!! So i asked, are u guys officially dating?? she was confused!! N she was planning to go to his house the next weekend to cook n sex him!! i was happy she was happy n all that,, but i asked again is he ur boyfriend?? She was confused!!! So i told her to ask him whats the bases of the relationship,,,, uncle said they are still friends trying to know each other!! Really but when u met her u wanted to touch her body n all n probably hv sex if u had the chance to!! Is tht how friends kiss each other up n down!! All of u are mad!! So u just give a girl so much hope 4 nothing!!! Just 4 the fun of it?? My friend actually cried!!!

Shugavee:
becaused she asked!!!! N secondly why begin a sexual approach with a lady u want nothing to do with!! Whats the need?? There are prostitutes everywhere, why go 4 innocent girls in search of love with pure hearts!! To uplift ur ego or what??

eezeribe:

But your friend collected transport fare from him and even wished for more....
But the kiss they shared was passionate,romantic and mutual...
But the touch he gave her was sensual and definitely evoked good feelings through her body...
But why are you seeing it from only one angle
But is it not too early to label the guy a scum
But don't you think it's too early for the guy to declare her,his girlfriend because he has not officially asked her out or professed love
But don't you think there is nothing wrong with two civilised adults consenting to mutual sex without necessarily being in a full-time relationship
But don't you think you are overreacting to the whole issue?
But don't you think the so called friend is actually YOU

alexialin:
Op your friend is so naive.
And she will be used and dumped!

In a relationship, both people involved must define it.

If the guy says let's see how it goes, then u tell him. We are just friends, let's study ourselves. Then he will ask but friends can kiss, and have fun? Right?
Then u ask him: Oga do u always kiss and have sex with all your female friends?
He will become quiet, then he will reply it's just a question nah
Then u look at him disgustingly, and say well u are not serious. I don't have time for unserious guys. Then walk away.

It's not byforce u must date him, cut him off straight! And shut down your feelings towards him. He's not worth your time .

eezeribe:

But your friend collected transport fare from him and even wished for more....
But the kiss they shared was passionate,romantic and mutual...
But the touch he gave her was sensual and definitely evoked good feelings through her body...
But why are you seeing it from only one angle
But is it not too early to label the guy a scum
But don't you think it's too early for the guy to declare her,his girlfriend because he has not officially asked her out or professed love
But don't you think there is nothing wrong with two civilised adults consenting to mutual sex without necessarily being in a full-time relationship
But don't you think you are overreacting to the whole issue?
But don't you think the so called friend is actually YOU

Shugavee:
same thing i told her,, just imagine i didnt tell her to ask him! Thats how he would hv sex her n join!!

emeijeh:
Op, spear you what?


I feel like daggering you too!

nuggarito:
This is why girls are there worst enemies, tomorrow we well see news headline lady kills his friend because of a guy. Confused set of individuals. Tomorrow if that guy use the same tactics on you , you go fall like mumu. Madam mind ya business, its not your kissing she's not using your mouth to kiss.

jamael:
Is it only me or do I find it difficult to understand the correlation between the topic and the writeup?

Shugavee:
i dont understand did my friend complain to you!! Abi when the guy dumps her even worse than this?? Is u they will be crying 4 abi If supporting a woman means letting my friend be fooled by a guy!! No i dont support my fellow woman come n beat me

Shugavee:
Now my friend was gisting me abt a guy she just met, cool,nice n all that!! She liked the boy to the stage she started forming n collected 2k 4 tp even if he even asked her if it was enough (n no it wasnt) she said that that they kissed, that it was very romantic to the extent he kissed her at the park b4 leaving!! So i asked, are u guys officially dating?? she was confused!! N she was planning to go to his house the next weekend to cook n sex him!! i was happy she was happy n all that,, but i asked again is he ur boyfriend?? She was confused!!! So i told her to ask him whats the bases of the relationship,,,, uncle said they are still friends trying to know each other!! Really but when u met her u wanted to touch her body n all n probably hv sex if u had the chance to!! Is tht how friends kiss each other up n down!! All of u are mad!! So u just give a girl so much hope 4 nothing!!! Just 4 the fun of it?? My friend actually cried!!!

Newboss:
So anything sexual is dating in your village? Haven't you heard of the term "fling"? It's a very normal thing! Dating relationships do come out of such! Stop thinking "relationship", and start thinking "life"! He could fall in love with her. Kissing a girl doesn't me you are in love with her!

Get over your obsession with dating! Let things go naturally! She likes him! So what is your headache? Guys like girls too but end up being told what the guy told the girl!

If your friend really likes him, let her hustle for her spot or just get lost! What nonsense!

Oh, so you hypocrites know about use and dump now? It originated from you folks! Now guys are smarter! Kudos to the guy once again!

drnoel:


(Falls down from thread) what is this pls?

drnoel:


(Falls down from thread) what is this pls?