Dutchey:
its a lengthy post but I have to add this

When he upgrades the side chic to a wifey status, she will see his true colors. The vicious cycle will continue. Not everyone you lose is a loss.

Some side chics overlook some things because they are sometimes there for the man's money. Wasn't it same way one Senator's second wife was throwing shades at the first, till he beat her blue-black? Smh.

voicelez:
Trash!!!
Side chick has been there since the days of David in the Bible, and they will still be there after we have gone...
If horses were wish... I will wish Juliet Ibrahim to be my side chick

What you just said is trash. It's exactly what the guy said that you're repeating.

SoapQueen:
I know I sit on the fence when it comes to Joro but there are times he makes sense. The sad thing about such therapists is that they always need therapy themselves.











Holla for your dishwashing liquids

I sight you.

tobianthony:
Gbam ...

If you follow this guy on Instagram enh ...marriage no go hungry you again ohhh...

Yes. It messes with the psyche, too. You read all manner of horrendous, silly, and discouraging stories there. I used to follow him until I realised I wasn't gaining anything positive from the blog. It's a whole community on its own...But with too much pollution. You read about crazy stuff and people make them seem normal.

Being a side chick and challenging the man's wife is a regular post... anal sex and fishy vagina stories...girls using love potions and magic soaps...sugar daddy stories...low-key runs...dysfunctional marriages. Heck! There was too much garbage that aren't good for the mind.

I just peacefully unfollowed and I'm happy about it. Now, I strictly follow only blogs and people that post reasonable content. Things that motivate and inspire me to be better.

Joro's blog has too many sick people... the good ones are there, too, though

tobianthony:
Gbam ...

If you follow this guy on Instagram enh ...marriage no go hungry you again ohhh...

I dey tell you o

darlenese:
msheeeeew who says u can't eliminate side chicks

They can, but it would be a battle that most people aren't willing to fight. Personally, I think most girls are the bigger problem. Yes, I know, it might be a biased reasoning, in that men are the ones who took vows and have obligations to be faithful to their wives/girlfriends/fiancéé. But this one time, let's just agree that men are naturally promiscuous. The onus therefore lies on the lady to not pay any attention to a man who's romantically linked to another woman, whether or not the lady is a wife or a girlfriend.

If the ladies are disciplined enough to not play second fiddle, then this problem will be resolved. But these girls won't listen. They want to date a married man or a man with a girlfriend and justify it on the basis that it's the man chasing after them. That he doesn't love his wife/gf. If he doesn't love her or she isn't treating him right, he should have left her before looking for a replacement! But they just won't listen. Then there are those who were genuinely clueless about the man's status, but that justification ends the minute she finds out that he's committed to someone else. The responsibility now lies on the lady to let go, feelings or not (Yea, it's not easy, I've been there. But the right thing has to be done eventually). But they just won't listen! They want to compete and be the main chick.

Honestly, if girls could do these...Then the problem will be fixed. The men will have no choice but to choose their partners carefully and stick with them.

visijo:
.. Very nice.. But your ending part was hilarious i GUESS..

We all wish that marriages will not suffer infidelity but we know the chances are slim.

I’m just saying that housewives should make condoms readily available to their husbands so they can use it with side chicks to prevent the importation of illegal goods like std and children.

Elektra008:
we should stock up on condoms wen side chic don get iud and is doing skin to skin

Condom for the husband to use on side chicks. IUD doesn’t stop husband from bringing std home.

Good write up may God deliver us from being a side guy o from ladies or side chick to other guys

This guy is right oo without sentiment.

EgunMogaji:


Me too.

It’s regurgitated hogwash.

The reality is that if a wife satisfies her husband 100% then he won’t look elsewhere.

It’s not enough that the wife is a good mother, good hostess, rich, beautiful, etc if she has lost that knack to please her man then she’s on a long thing.

Arnold Schwarzenegger, one of my greatest idols was married to a Kennedy, one of the prime American family, he still cheated.

Prince Charles, heir to the English crown, whose marriage was an international show still had a side chick.

In that your Nigeria, housewives should simply just stock up on condoms and beg their husbands to please use it.

Most married men in Nigeria do it skin to skin with their side chics so any married lady stockpiling condom for her philandering husband is just wasting her time.

This side chic issue of a thing is one of the most profitable careers in Nigeria. After politics,armed robbery and pastortrenurship(pastors).. The side chicin is the next profitable career. Many young ladies have used it to build mansions in banana islan...others have used the proceeds to send their siblings abroad. Pussy sells... And if u think i am lying ask Genevieve,Roman Goddess and Cossy.

[Lol...quote author=Dutchey post=66677142]its a lengthy post but I have to add this[/quote]

tobianthony:
Gbam ...

If you follow this guy on Instagram enh ...marriage no go hungry you again ohhh...

My brother the thing eeeh.... E tire me. I wonder if all those stories there are really real

Joro just wants to be recognized for being nothing.

Side chick is the millennium name for mistress.

All the hogwash are things that have been and nothing is special about his write up

Trust me more of them are superstory and paid hook ups gone wrong from joro himself

AnaCheks:
My brother the thing eeeh.... E tire me. I wonder if all those stories there are really real

Faithway10:
Relationship expert, Joro Olumofin is out with another explosive, and this time around he is talking sidechicks.

In this lengthy post, he explained the 5 major components of a sidechick. Read below...

This Journal encompasses 5 major components.
Definition of a Sidechick
Types of Sidechicks
Origin of a Sidechicks
Can a wife be a Sidechick?
How do you eliminate SC

Definition of a SC : A SideChick is Any lady who is having a love affair or sexual relations with a man who is committed to another lady by Law or Love.
Types of SideChicks :
1) Accidental Sidechicks
2) Intentional SideChicks

1) Accidental Sidechicks : These are naive , sometimes innocent ladies who fall victim or prey to the charms of a married man or a man who is in a serious relationship with someone else. These ladies are not aware that these men are committed by love or law to another women. They devote years of their lives to those men, they love, cherish, cook, invest his business so that he can ultimately marry them but they don't know they are dating a "ghost". Most Accidental Sidechicks usually turn into Intentional sidechicks because most times when the truth gets out that the man who they have dedicated their time to is married. They are too emotionally attached to leg go, they console themselves by saying when I met him I didn't know he had a wife or fiancé.

2) Intentional Sidechicks: These are ladies who because of financial hardships, loneliness, "No boyfriend syndrome", unhappiness in their own relationships, laziness etc go into relationships with a man who is committed by law or love to someone else. These ladies are a problem, they treat this man as their first born child ; control him, give him orders/ chores, manage his businesses, promise him everything his wife can not provide. For example: " your wife is giving you only daughters, let me give you a son, your wife doesn’t allow you do anal sex, try it with me, " let's do a party with my friend". These ladies are true Psychologists, they take the deepest needs of a man and use it to control him hence distancing him from his family, responsibility and children.

Origin of Sidechicks: Sidechicks Originate from so many factors, there isn't one factor we can pin point. But as Africans I would like to talk about 3 points

1) Generational Sidechicks
2) Bad Economy
3) Low self esteem

1) Generational Sidechicks: This has to do with the Cognition, the mental archetypes of some young ladies and what they saw their parents do. A lot of ladies saw their mothers, aunties and guardians assume the role of INTENTIONAL SIDECHICKS without consequences. Some people even credit their success to being a Sidechick. I received an Email in 2016 where this lady stated that " Yes I am a Sidechick/ Mistress, my mother was a Sidechick and 2nd wife and she Is happy, I never lacked anything so what's wrong with me being a Sidechick too??" She was crucified in the comment section but to her that is normalcy, it is a norm, she doesn't see anything wrong with it. She will pass the same values to her children as well. She sees nothing wrong in herself or her daughter taking someone else's husband.

2) Bad Economy : Most youth corpers, unemployed ladies, private school and public school university students fall victim to the Bad Economy. The only power a man has over a lady who doesn't have finances is MONEY . Men use that power and the promise of a better life to lure ladies into their nest or den. And once you're in ,it's hard to get out because emotions, pregnancy may tie a lady down .

3) Low Self Esteem: The major reason for Sidechicks around the world is low self esteem. Any lady who really knows her worth won't subject herself to being number 2 or have a sex for money relationship.

I was a guest on a TV show once and the topic was can a wife be a Sidechick?
Yes, I totally agree. A wife or a girlfriend can assume the role of a Sidechick when the man is now emotionally committed to the original Sidechick. You find the wife being " the day after lady" , she's not aware of or can't control her husbands movements or plans. She is now a relic, an old furniture in her own marriage.
A lady once sent a mail to my blog and said. I want to know if I'm still married ? I feel like a Sidechick, I don't know my husbands where abouts or movements"

How do you eliminate Sidechicks ?
I'm sorry to disappoint you Ladies, Wives, Girlfriends, you can not eliminate Sidechicks. They are like extraneous variables in Psychology, very stubborn and unpredictable. But you can control them and be one step ahead. Be vigilant in your marriage, relationship. Try your best to be the best. Be prayful. Very key.

And most importantly have your own finances. The reason why a lot of women , ladies are stuck in detrimental relationships is that they don't have the " vex money" to leave the marriage or relationship. When a man knows you can't leave, he will do and undo because he knows when he wakes in the morning you'll still be there.

http://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/04/five-major-components-of-a-sidechick-by-joro-olumofin.html

Sorry, dont know other way to ask, Mr Joro Olumofin, are you Mr Segun Olumofin's son?

tobianthony:
Gbam ...

If you follow this guy on Instagram enh ...marriage no go hungry you again ohhh...

you just be bleeping around like dog