Relationship expert, Joro Olumofin is out with another explosive, and this time around he is talking sidechicks.

In this lengthy post, he explained the 5 major components of a sidechick. Read below...

This Journal encompasses 5 major components.
Definition of a Sidechick
Types of Sidechicks
Origin of a Sidechicks
Can a wife be a Sidechick?
How do you eliminate SC

Definition of a SC : A SideChick is Any lady who is having a love affair or sexual relations with a man who is committed to another lady by Law or Love.
Types of SideChicks :
1) Accidental Sidechicks
2) Intentional SideChicks

1) Accidental Sidechicks : These are naive , sometimes innocent ladies who fall victim or prey to the charms of a married man or a man who is in a serious relationship with someone else. These ladies are not aware that these men are committed by love or law to another women. They devote years of their lives to those men, they love, cherish, cook, invest his business so that he can ultimately marry them but they don't know they are dating a "ghost". Most Accidental Sidechicks usually turn into Intentional sidechicks because most times when the truth gets out that the man who they have dedicated their time to is married. They are too emotionally attached to leg go, they console themselves by saying when I met him I didn't know he had a wife or fiancé.

2) Intentional Sidechicks: These are ladies who because of financial hardships, loneliness, "No boyfriend syndrome", unhappiness in their own relationships, laziness etc go into relationships with a man who is committed by law or love to someone else. These ladies are a problem, they treat this man as their first born child ; control him, give him orders/ chores, manage his businesses, promise him everything his wife can not provide. For example: " your wife is giving you only daughters, let me give you a son, your wife doesn’t allow you do anal sex, try it with me, " let's do a party with my friend". These ladies are true Psychologists, they take the deepest needs of a man and use it to control him hence distancing him from his family, responsibility and children.

Origin of Sidechicks: Sidechicks Originate from so many factors, there isn't one factor we can pin point. But as Africans I would like to talk about 3 points

1) Generational Sidechicks
2) Bad Economy
3) Low self esteem

1) Generational Sidechicks: This has to do with the Cognition, the mental archetypes of some young ladies and what they saw their parents do. A lot of ladies saw their mothers, aunties and guardians assume the role of INTENTIONAL SIDECHICKS without consequences. Some people even credit their success to being a Sidechick. I received an Email in 2016 where this lady stated that " Yes I am a Sidechick/ Mistress, my mother was a Sidechick and 2nd wife and she Is happy, I never lacked anything so what's wrong with me being a Sidechick too??" She was crucified in the comment section but to her that is normalcy, it is a norm, she doesn't see anything wrong with it. She will pass the same values to her children as well. She sees nothing wrong in herself or her daughter taking someone else's husband.

2) Bad Economy : Most youth corpers, unemployed ladies, private school and public school university students fall victim to the Bad Economy. The only power a man has over a lady who doesn't have finances is MONEY . Men use that power and the promise of a better life to lure ladies into their nest or den. And once you're in ,it's hard to get out because emotions, pregnancy may tie a lady down .

3) Low Self Esteem: The major reason for Sidechicks around the world is low self esteem. Any lady who really knows her worth won't subject herself to being number 2 or have a sex for money relationship.

I was a guest on a TV show once and the topic was can a wife be a Sidechick?
Yes, I totally agree. A wife or a girlfriend can assume the role of a Sidechick when the man is now emotionally committed to the original Sidechick. You find the wife being " the day after lady" , she's not aware of or can't control her husbands movements or plans. She is now a relic, an old furniture in her own marriage.
A lady once sent a mail to my blog and said. I want to know if I'm still married ? I feel like a Sidechick, I don't know my husbands where abouts or movements"

How do you eliminate Sidechicks ?
I'm sorry to disappoint you Ladies, Wives, Girlfriends, you can not eliminate Sidechicks. They are like extraneous variables in Psychology, very stubborn and unpredictable. But you can control them and be one step ahead. Be vigilant in your marriage, relationship. Try your best to be the best. Be prayful. Very key.

And most importantly have your own finances. The reason why a lot of women , ladies are stuck in detrimental relationships is that they don't have the " vex money" to leave the marriage or relationship. When a man knows you can't leave, he will do and undo because he knows when he wakes in the morning you'll still be there.

http://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/04/five-major-components-of-a-sidechick-by-joro-olumofin.html

Gbam ...

If you follow this guy on Instagram enh ...marriage no go hungry you again ohhh...

I know I sit on the fence when it comes to Joro but there are times he makes sense. The sad thing about such therapists is that they always need therapy themselves.











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Trash!!!
Side chick has been there since the days of David in the Bible, and they will still be there after we have gone...
If horses were wish... I will wish Juliet Ibrahim to be my side chick

BOss u for don call dem olosho na instead of all dis long gramar

OK.

its a lengthy post but I have to add this

Ahhhhhhhhh

k oo

I like this lecture or do I call it an intellectual discuss.

msheeeeew who says u can't eliminate side chicks

Crap!!!

tobianthony:
Gbam ...

If you follow this guy on Instagram enh ...marriage no go hungry you again ohhh...

He's just fulfilling prophecy of the later times which says in 1 Timothy 4:2-3
"Such teachings are spread by deceitful liars, whose consciences are dead, as if burnt with a hot iron.
Such people teach that it is wrong to marry and to eat certain foods. But God created those foods to be eaten, after a prayer of thanks, by those who are believers and have come to know the truth".

Na wa oh

The fact is Side Chicks mentality can never be erased.

��� i swear

tobianthony:
Gbam ...

If you follow this guy on Instagram enh ...marriage no go hungry you again ohhh...

totally agree with the modus operandi of the intentional sidechicks. Married women should be more creative and adventurous wen it comes to sex. Marrying does not mean you are safe, dont throw away those stuffs that makes him crave for you then or else one lady will be giving him blowjobs and good tittyfucks

all i see is fallacy....

"Generational sidechicks" lmao

Many wives and girlfriends are the cause of their husbands having side chicks, take a survey most girls when they get commitment from the guy tend to relax in their show of care and affection to the guy, and truth is the side chick works on this weakness make the guy feel on top of the world when around her, this is also not absolving randy men who will still look outside despite all the legitimate girl does

Officialbankole:
��� i swear

Truth be told not only side chicks but side dudes too.

You go openly see side chick dey drag with married woman for joro ig page .

Dutchey:
its a lengthy post but I have to add this

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visijo:
all i see is fallacy....

Me too.

It’s regurgitated hogwash.

The reality is that if a wife satisfies her husband 100% then he won’t look elsewhere.

It’s not enough that the wife is a good mother, good hostess, rich, beautiful, etc if she has lost that knack to please her man then she’s on a long thing.

Arnold Schwarzenegger, one of my greatest idols was married to a Kennedy, one of the prime American family, he still cheated.

Prince Charles, heir to the English crown, whose marriage was an international show still had a side chick.

In that your Nigeria, housewives should simply just stock up on condoms and beg their husbands to please use it.

Lol this is funny


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d mod wey ban me b4, may u b accidentally or intentionally friendzone by ur chic if u r a guy,but if u r not then,may u be d side chic of a yoruba demon. That way u will know how it feels to ban.

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I see no sense in this post, I swear

EgunMogaji:


Me too.

It’s regurgitated hogwash.

The reality is that if a wife satisfies her husband 100% then he won’t look elsewhere.

It’s not enough that the wife is a good mother, good hostess, rich, beautiful, etc if she has lost that knack to please her man then she’s on a long thing.

Arnold Schwarzenegger, one of my greatest idols was married to a Kennedy, one of the prime American family, he still cheated.

Prince Charles, heir to the English crown, whose marriage was an international show still had a side chick.

In that your Nigeria, housewives should simply just stock up on condoms and beg their husbands to please use it.

.. Very nice.. But your ending part was hilarious i GUESS..

Issa dissertation

When certain wives see the article...now they know

EgunMogaji:


Me too.

It’s regurgitated hogwash.

The reality is that if a wife satisfies her husband 100% then he won’t look elsewhere.

It’s not enough that the wife is a good mother, good hostess, rich, beautiful, etc if she has lost that knack to please her man then she’s on a long thing.

Arnold Schwarzenegger, one of my greatest idols was married to a Kennedy, one of the prime American family, he still cheated.

Prince Charles, heir to the English crown, whose marriage was an international show still had a side chick.

In that your Nigeria, housewives should simply just stock up on condoms and beg their husbands to please use it.

we should stock up on condoms wen side chic don get iud and is doing skin to skin