Shugavee:
How can a guy that's atleast above 30, still living in his family compound, be looking for a relationship with a lady?, asin even if u are a managing guy hv a house of ur own b4 u think of hving a girlfriend, if u are a student that's a different issue. What u all think

Shugavee:
How can a guy that's atleast above 30, still living in his family compound, be looking for a relationship with a lady?, asin even if u are a managing guy hv a house of ur own b4 u think of hving a girlfriend, if u are a student that's a different issue. What u all think

OgahBohz:
it depends on his plans

Shugavee:
there r somethings a guy should put in place!! At Least a guy of his age!!! At that point I hv to say u hv to grind harder b4 u think of a girlfriend!!! If u sharing an apartment with a friend is better!! Not with ur family

Shugavee:
How can a guy that's atleast above 30, still living in his family compound, be looking for a relationship with a lady?, asin even if u are a managing guy hv a house of ur own b4 u think of hving a girlfriend, if u are a student that's a different issue. What u all think

OgahBohz:
it depends on his plans

Now lemme explain ..

In Lagos and Abuja, Acomodation is not even available talk more of even the money to pay for it ..

lemme use my self as example .. I earn 85k a month, and my transportation to work every month is 15k, last year I got an apartment of my own , for 200k a year,(just a room selfkon o), transport for a month reduced to 10k a month , feeding costs me 15k( which was just 5k when I was in my dads house) that's 25k , now 200k rent a year is equal to 16k per month, that's how much all together.. 46k . from a salary of 85k, how do I save , havnt talkd of unexpected expences o. I.e electricity bill, etc plus unnecessary guest (as a single guy living alone) .. I couldnt save more than , 150k at the end of the year, .


Now am back home, and my total expense in a month is just 17k. meaning I can afford to save 50k a month without shaking or begging ..

the plan is by December next year I should be able to start a good production Biznz , and move out ov this house for good . (By Gods Grace) , .. so what's bad if during this period I ask a lady out? ..

see except when a guy is looking for a casual relationship that's when he will be so eager to live alone .. I'll be 30 by may 22, (don't you think I should be thinking of a matured relationship?) and yes am in my fathers house ..



I live responsibly, and I save well.. unlike when I was alone , clubbing and womanising .. (freedom ) if no find woman , woman go find you.


two years from now I won't be staying here anymore and I won't be working ma ass out for a company..

buh if I was staying alone .. trust me in two years i may not even be able to pay rent ..

as far as Lagos is concern o...its not bad

so dear its all boills down to PLANNING!

mikejj:
swit heart i go with you...but some parents are staying with their son

Shugavee:
How can a guy that's atleast above 30, still living in his family compound, be looking for a relationship with a lady?, asin even if u are a managing guy hv a house of ur own b4 u think of hving a girlfriend, if u are a student that's a different issue. What u all think

BluntBoy:


Smh...

Shugavee:
i get tho!!! But then it iisnt comfortable for the lady

Shugavee:
How can a guy that's atleast above 30, still living in his family compound, be looking for a relationship with a lady?, asin even if u are a managing guy hv a house of ur own b4 u think of hving a girlfriend, if u are a student that's a different issue. What u all think

Shugavee:
How can a guy that's atleast above 30, still living in his family compound

Shugavee:
I be a aproko

Shugavee:
Bluntboy how r u?

Shugavee:
yeah true, but in hthis case he is with his family!!

SoapQueen:



Hello,
If he has prospects, why not hang on? See, some persons are late "bloomers". He may not have had an early start but his testimony might be around the corner.
I understand you need your privacy for intimacy and all. Just try to manage for now, mbok.
If you leave him now, it might make him detest and lose respect for women.

Conclusively, you know why you fell in love with him. We don't really know how long you guys have being together. The moment you bring your personal challenges to nairaland, or any public fora, it might cause you to have meaningless doubts.


Best wishes.

BluntBoy:




How are you? I hope you are fine?

Grayjoy:
In a situation where the whole family members are dead is it still a crime?

greiboy:
I saw a meme today on the front page that really touched me, but I forgot to save it.

The meme touch on an important aspect of life.

The meme in question referred people back to a time when they were kids and made fun of their jobless 25years old relatives for being poor and hopeless, but today at a similar age of 25 years they are probably not faring any better than their jobless cousins back then.

So while I will put a lot of effort into making sure I am not dependent on any of my family members by the age of 30, I am not going insult those still living under their parents at that age now.

Shugavee:
lol

greiboy:
I saw a meme today on the front page that really touched me, but I forgot to save it.

The meme touch on an important aspect of life.

The meme in question referred people back to a time when they were kids and made fun of their jobless 25years old relatives for being poor and hopeless, but today at a similar age of 25 years they are probably not faring any better than their jobless cousins back then.

So while I will put a lot of effort into making sure I am not dependent on any of my family members by the age of 30, I am not going insult those still living under their parents at that age now.

OrestesDante:




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What do you girls have to offer?
What are you bringing to the table?

What is your problem with guys these days?

If a guy chooses to be in father's house. Fine. If you're interested go on. If you're not waka pass...

Ladies will keep setting unnecessary standards.

Make I focus with on life abeg. Some ladies are scum and leech. They don't worth attention

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