Within a year of our relationship i discovered he had started cheating on me when i travelled out of town,i eventually caught him but he begged and said it was a mistake,if it were a one night stand i could have understood but for three months!anyway i finally left him and i have a wonderful man now but i sometimes wonder was i being too judgemental!

Marytos:

if it were a one night stand i could have understood but for three months!

You'D understand if Your man patronizes a Ho and You wouldn't, if he two-times?
Why?

Marytos:

i have a wonderful man now

If this new man cheats on You, would You leave him?

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I think You should shut up and not speak to me until I ask You to.
I don't exult over conversing with fools like You everyday, wait till I say it's Your turn.

Missy B,wat i mean is that if it was just a mistake,u know like a temptation of sort,but he consciously continued for that period of time,does it not show,he really did not love me.i guess time wil tell if dis new guy will but all i can do now is to love,trust n encourage him

One study showed that men put sx as a priority in their lives.  Women put sx much lower.  Point is that Men are dispositioned for sx.  We can not be anything else but a man.  Many times women think men are like themselves but they are not made this way.  We do not even think the same.

Your man obviously is a man, but I am wondering if he was sexually deprived at home?  I have found when I have a women that meets all my sexual expectations, yes men are freaky, I do not think of other women.  I have also been in relationships where the chemistry is not there for uninhibited sx, and my mind wonders to find the women that meets my sxual needs.

Women that try to be to lady like in the bedroom will often find their men wondering.

Missy B:

I think You should shut up and not speak to me until I ask You to.
I don't exult over conversing with fools like You everyday, wait till I say it's Your turn.

Oh this hurts.

Marytos:

Missy B,wat i mean is that if it was just a mistake,u know like a temptation of sort,but he consciously continued for that period of time,does it not show,he really did not love me.i guess time wil tell if dis new guy will but all i can do now is to love,trust n encourage him 

Ma Dear, whether he cheats with a Prostittute or a Long-term Girlfriend, cheating is cheating.

Osama10:

Oh this hurts.

I apologize [For hurting Your eyes, of course].

To forgive is really divine cos it's not easy to forgive a cheat whether male or female.

ah, Madam B in the house

Wettin deh 4 me?