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The Oxygen Of Feminism by TheMenCode: 2:39am On Apr 26, 2018
Feminism has now metamorphosed into a cult of the sisterhood where as a woman it's either you're for or against the ideology, the feminine imperatives find a reason to believe you're acting out by living your life as you please contrary to the standard of the imperatives, the woman will be silence and preyed by the sisterhood.

One the many problem with feminism today is with the feminist that want to impose her version of free choices on other self identified feminist. This ideology claimed to advocate liberation for women, freedom to make choices and believe empowering one gender (female) will lead to equality.

A woman can choose to empower herself without aligning with feminism but she's emotionally suppress and brainwash to believe she need feminism to right the wrongs done by men of her ancestors.

For her to succeed in life, she need to first deal with the patriarch and brainwash young boys to act and think like a woman so that they grow and not become men inheriting the patriarch 'system' that set her back as a woman. This is why we have men behaving and emoting like women today, making it there job to help push the feminine imperatives narratives.

The question today is why do self proclaimed feminist like Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie think it's in her place to set the rules of how another self proclaimed feminist like Hilary Clinton should lead her life? Is she the new feminism police? We may not be able to get a logical response because the idea of feminism came in the first place as a result of how a woman feel about her choices.

Her feeling about how Hilary decide to describe herself cannot be understood by any logical means except the false feeling that it project her as a subservient to a man especially when the man is her husband, she will protest less if the man was her boss, when feminist are face with a logical explanation for their actions, they project blame and play the victim card.

Something to Blame

Woman ordinarily never takes responsibility for her actions and it get worse if she's a self proclaimed feminist, rather providing a superior argument instead would project her failure into something else. Her response becomes “I did not get A because the system is still alive”, “I said this because of how the patriarch denied my opportunities in the past”. It's never her fault, something has to be blame.

Her self induced life failure is 'cause' by the patriarch whom today men were not part of, but she's fed the lie that the 'system' is alive and she must make it her life mission to see that 'system' is crushed by seeking to maximally restrict the freedom of men sexuality and maximally have unlimited access to express her sexuality without judgment.

Women are the gateway to sex, if she's to push her agenda forward, she will have to restrict men that agency to force compliance. 80% plus men suffer this fate today and are self identified has male feminist, they have been subconsciously preconditioned to think and act like a woman and will be rewarded by her emotional commitment, all is required is to play nice and become the weaker version of themselves trading their masculinity for femininity.

Victimization

Victim-hood has it root on feelings, feminist feel the patriarch society of the past reduced women to an object, domesticated to a weaker version of humanity but what popular culture fail to remind today women is, how naturally powerful they already are without feminism.

A woman bring another human to this world, she takes care of the children, while husband provide for the entire family. To rear a child and taken care of the family is one the most difficult job in the world but today woman is brainwashed by popular culture of the failed notion of egalitarian equalism to believe she's weaker and men are the problem. She need feminism to muscle up and be able to make more choices like the man. Woman is man.

Today woman is told she can't be that mother or be domesticated anymore, this is the time for her to replace family hours with career, replace the kitchen room with the board room else she's weak, can't make choices. A woman can become whatever she want, software engineer, author, architects, even discover another planet if she want to.

She can be all this without feminism. The only one stopping her is the feminine imperatives who want her so the feminism ideology can continue to thrive. Feminism is the most active arm of the feminine imperatives. She is sold the idea of a Self Independent Woman to be in an island of self sufficiency for the woman but this is a lie, she will only come to discover later.

In the last 60 years of the sexual revolution, the goal as been for the woman to invade the male space and change the narratives to be feminine centered, the only accepted form of masculinity is the defined and accepted form by the feminine imperatives and any attempts for men to act and behave they way that truly reflect their masculinity (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/25/masculinity-makes-man-man/) is suppress and tag misogynist and expressing toxic masculinity. In the fem centric world men are to believe the right way to express their masculinity is thinking, acting, behaving and emoting like a woman.

The bitter truth is the more a woman become more ambitious the less attractive she become and more masculine she look. Before feminism, 5 – 10% of women in their mid 30s was single but after feminism (the world we live today) over 40% of women in their mid 30s are single (America data). It's obvious how feminism is really helping women relegate into spinster doom. Feminism is cancer.

Women should embrace their femininity and not try to be man, you cant' destroy a patriarchy society by trying to become like the man you accused of being the patriarch. Men and women are different, they only complement each other. How can something so different become equal?

This is a logical question, feminist is all about feelings of how a woman believe she was denied opportunities by ancestor patriarchy society and that the 'system' is still much alive, in order words her projection and victim-hood will not end soon and to expect her to take responsibility for her actions or failures is never going to happen.

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Re: The Oxygen Of Feminism by Nobody: 2:44am On Apr 26, 2018
This one is still talking nonsense grin

Feminism to take over tongue
Re: The Oxygen Of Feminism by whitebeard(m): 3:43am On Apr 26, 2018
Feminism is a scam..!!
Re: The Oxygen Of Feminism by GraGra247(m): 7:35am On Apr 26, 2018
Feminism = Unconscious advocacy for superiority over men instead of equality.

What feminists fail to realize is that there are aspects women are naturally made superior to men that nothing can change and vise versa.
Re: The Oxygen Of Feminism by Kinggnicole(f): 7:42am On Apr 26, 2018
The major problem is many men and women (especially Nigerians) do not know the meaning of feminism.
No gender is superior to the other. They are different and have different abilities. Feminism is gender equality.
Any woman who advocates for superiority of women is not a feminist but sexist.

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