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After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by Kwambe1(m): 10:25am On Apr 28, 2018
How do you fix sagging boobs?” I asked him. He was blank and didn’t have any answers. The best he could come up with was “I don’t know but do something about it.” My husband was going crazy, I thought. How could he not have answers but expect me to?

I was twenty-two years when I started dating him. He was twenty-six and working with one of these financial institutions. He wanted us to marry right away but I was in school so we agreed to marry two years later after I’d completed my university education.

He came to see me in school after work every day and I spent some weekends with him so we get to know each other very well before we finally settle. He was matured and made me feel safe around him.

I took him home after school and introduced him to my parents. That very day, he made it known to my parents that he wanted to marry me as soon as possible. I was twenty-four. My mother thought I was too young but my dad didn’t see anything wrong with me getting married at twenty-four.

They argued it out every day until I convinced my mom that I wasn’t too young to marry.

We got married a year later and settled immediately. My husband was very proud of me. He liked to show me off to his friends and called me the most beautiful woman he had ever been with. It didn’t get to my head but I enjoyed it. I felt safe knowing my husband appreciated me that much.

I got pregnant with our first child just some eight months into the marriage. We were both happy about the prospect of welcoming a piece of us into our home.

When I was getting close to delivery, my husband started talking about things the baby can do and cannot do when it finally arrives. “You can’t breastfeed the baby for one year, it would have to learn to eat early.” He said. Mostly I would laugh it off and call him jealous. He kept making that claim and some other funny funny things that I took all to be a joke.

Then he told me I can’t have a vaginal birth so I should start considering CS. “Why CS?” I asked him? “So you don’t destroy the thing” He answered with a smile. Another joke, I thought.

He wasn’t joking. He meant every word and ensured I delivered through CS.

Ordinarily, we should have been joyful when our baby came but my husband wasn’t that enthused. I thought it was just a phase. He would grow warm towards the child as time went on. He never did.

I asked him, “don’t you like children?” “I like children.” He said. “But I don’t like babies.” He didn’t like babies because he thought they were.. Continue reading..
Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by ednut1(m): 10:27am On Apr 28, 2018
How person go siddon dey fabricate linus stories ehn

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Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by midolian(m): 10:29am On Apr 28, 2018
Funny lies everywhere

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Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by Harodebby(f): 11:20am On Apr 28, 2018
which kain man b dat
Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by ademibolaa(m): 1:08pm On Apr 28, 2018
lies

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Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by Nobody: 2:10pm On Apr 28, 2018
I can't take bullshit from a man even if you are my husband
Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by agbonkamen(f): 2:15pm On Apr 28, 2018
The way lies dey spread these day ehn nawao useless bloggers

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Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by nathskib(f): 2:31pm On Apr 28, 2018
is this for real
Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by theblessings: 2:54pm On Apr 28, 2018
rebirthforgoody:
I can't take bullshit from a man even if you are my husband
story
Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by Adasun(m): 3:06pm On Apr 28, 2018
rebirthforgoody:
I can't take bullshit from a man even if you are my husband
go fix ur deflated saggy boobs and stop speaking trash

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Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by Heavance(m): 4:15pm On Apr 28, 2018
Kwambe1:


Then he told me I can’t have a vaginal birth so I should start considering CS. “Why CS?” I asked him? “So you don’t destroy the thing” He answered with a smile. .l]

I still can't control my laughter

Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by Nobody: 4:56pm On Apr 28, 2018
bloggers and lie are like 5&6

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Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by jcflex(m): 5:10pm On Apr 28, 2018
continuation

I ask him, “don’t you like children?” “I like children.” He said. “But I don’t like babies.” He didn’t like babies because he thought they were trouble.

We had our second child a year and a half later. Both of them sucked for eighteen months and my boobs ain’t what they use to be anymore.


After childbirth, I had lots of stretch marks on my tummy and developed a flabby stomach which is natural and normal for women after birth but my husband didn’t think that way.

He wanted his 25-year-old wife back. He wanted me without the stretch marks and without the flabby stomach.

He stopped touching me and for two years he denied sex. His answer had always been, “work on your body.” But how?
I was denied sex for two years but he went around having indiscriminate sex with girls in their teens. He didn’t even have the shame to hide it.
My kids were too young to not have a father figure in their lives. I decided to bear it for their sake until the last dice was cast. He told me one night, “I’ve told you what to do to save this marriage. I’m giving you a year if you don’t work on your sagging boobs and ugly body, we’ll have to call it over.

that very night, I packed few of my things and left the house. I’ve been embarrassed enough and wasn’t going to take it any longer. I went to stay with my parents.


He never came looking for me or even called to say hi to his kids. I guessed he was happy with
out us. Three months later without a call from him or even coming around to see his own kids, I decided it was enough.

I initiated divorce. By the time we were through with the divorce, he was already living with another lady. I wished them well and prayed her b00bs never sags.

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Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by Nobody: 5:55pm On Apr 28, 2018
Adasun:
go fix ur deflated saggy boobs and stop speaking trash


Ok
Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by stilldoingokay(f): 5:55pm On Apr 28, 2018
hmmmm just speechless
Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by migeoart(f): 10:05pm On Apr 28, 2018
this may be true! I knw of a lady her husband subjected to CS becos he wants her vagina to remain tight?orishirishi in marriage
Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by Kobicove(m): 4:52am On Apr 29, 2018
migeoart:
this may be true! I knw of a lady her husband subjected to CS becos he wants her vagina to remain tight?orishirishi in marriage

I'm sure not all women who had a vaginal birth end up becoming slack down there undecided
Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by migeoart(f): 10:39am On Apr 29, 2018
Kobicove:


I'm sure not all women who had a vaginal birth end up becoming slack down there undecided
you are correct but some men get their own for body !!! I always advice couples to discuss things like this b4 entering marriage !! cos personally I hate surprises lolz
Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by adadike(f): 8:01pm On Jun 05, 2018
Na person wey no no vagina, dey call am small girl. you can have 10 kids and still train your vjay to hold a pencil.

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Re: After Our 2nd Child, My Hubby Gave Me Ultimatum To Fix My Sagging B00bs Or He... by adadike(f): 8:04pm On Jun 05, 2018
lalasticlala, I think u should move this to front page . the story might sound fictitious but I know many women are going through similar problems.

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