emmyid:


Sorry to say, but you are the Mumu hear. All this frustrated guys online sef... Mtcheeeeew

OvaSabi1:
Please ask her.
I am a female and take my word for it. Some mental illnesses like schizophrenia can be passed from parent to child. Also, some fertility anomalies have genetic markers that a female can inherit from her mother. If a your mother inlaw had plenty miscarriages, your wife and even daughter could carry the marker for miscarriages.
Please broach the topic to her like a mature human being. You can start by saying something simple like "the women in my family usually have body pains when it is cold. Is there any illness peculiar to the men/women in your family?". Like that. Just to start the conversation. And please be ready to also be open about any illnesses in your own family. Don't ask her and You will now be secretive about your own.
Don't center your question on just one disease type. Some mumu nairalanders just want to know if she has had an abortion or not. How about hypertension and diabetes? How about dementia and cancer? Do her parents suffer from any of these? Those illnesses will suck your money and disrupt your retirement plans. You will turn to a burden to your children very quickly.
Not everything is by prayers against enemies and by God's grace. You have to use your head sometimes.

selab:
Asking her is not bad, it help u both...

Jogunomi1:
We are planning to get married. I'm thinking of asking her if there is any medical problem we should disclose to each other.

While we were discussing marriage, she opted for registry despite that she is a staunch church girl. What do you think?

OGHENAOGIE:
see how selfish u are in dis age.... Couples who really love themselves court marriage is d best..... It's only a foolish woman that will not opt for marriage at registry besides church marriage is mere ceremony

Printerscanner:


Court marriage favours women in Nigeria or Europe? Have you heard of any man whose property was shared into two and one part given to a gold digging ex-wife in Nigeria? Ask Stella Damascus-Aboderin-Nzeribe-Aderinokun if she got a single kobo from the Aboderins after the death of Mr Aboderin before she switched to husband snatching.

salt1:


Most licensed churches wed couples and issue them the registry certificate.
Unless your church isn't approved to offer such marriages.
So Church wedding is both a religious and legal ceremony

salt1:


Most licensed churches wed couples and issue them the registry certificate.
Unless your church isn't approved to offer such marriages.
So Church wedding is both a religious and legal ceremony

OKUCHI11:
meaning all the rudiments or intricacies still applies??

shilz:
so you are saying its okey to keep his secret and expect to hear all of hers. The same bible you quoted up there didnt teach you to be sincere when dealing with others? so u mean its only a woman that will use a mans secret against him in future? Weldone!