EmergencyCase:
family members are not doing well financially. The extended family I'm from is nothing to write home about.


The few affluent ones are already overlaboured.


The Nigeria of today, people say they don't have even when they do (probably because they're scared the funds will run dry).

UDUJ:


People will hate me for saying this but I just have to say it. You will never move ahead in life if you keep proclaiming failure and disappointment. That's just the fact of life.

I have read all your posts and you may think you are letting out,but you're just digging yourself deeper into an abyss of continuous disappointments and failures. As a man thinketh and speaketh so shall it be. You proclaim failure so shall it be for you. Sorry

EmergencyCase:
I was once tipped to excel due to my diligence. It's not like I chose this path. You don't know how it feels taking panadol extra every now and then because I have a discomfort that just won't go away .


The ENT doctor I once visited couldn't detect what was wrong. You guys should understand I'm using my lamentations to pass time.


I once shared my joy when I joined this group in 2015. Now sorrow has come. I'm just stating how things are. Even in death, I won't stop. Purging emotions gives some form of reprieve

robosky02:
bad girl

Rayton:
I think you should both allow him talk and help him out with advise.. It's gonna go a long way.... Please..... As for you bro, you will live long but first have faith in yourself and abilities and start all over...

EmergencyCase:
Hmmm... Still melancholic. I know some people will say the future is pregnant with opportunities, so I should be hopeful. Not in my case. My dreams have been aborted. A lot is going on in my life that will make you agree it's an emergencycase.....

EmergencyCase:
Hmmm... Still melancholic. I know some people will say the future is pregnant with opportunities, so I should be hopeful. Not in my case. My dreams have been aborted. A lot is going on in my life that will make you agree it's an emergencycase.....

CaptJeffry:
Bro, what's exactly the problem? You've been complaining all over this forum and I no longer find it funny.

I ask again, how can we help? Just say it, some people may be willing at least to let you stop this should I call it madness.

If you're sick, get to a hospital for a diagnosis, get the bills and post a credible evidence here. I promise to help out in any little way I can seriously.

Temibabie:
Op where's your location?

CaptJeffry:
Bro, what's exactly the problem? You've been complaining all over this forum and I no longer find it funny.

I ask again, how can we help? Just say it, some people may be willing at least to let you stop this should I call it madness.

If you're sick, get to a hospital for a diagnosis, get the bills and post a credible evidence here. I promise to help out in any little way I can seriously.

Oyindidi:
Bosky, bawo ni?

EmergencyCase:
Hmm.. I once did something similar with my old account but it didn't end well. Maybe because of my gender or because my worries were not visible, I was passed off as not genuinue. I'm done with moving round hospitals or convincing people. My only weapon now is my phone and data. Not soliciting but pouring out my feelings as they unfold daily.


I know some matters should be confidential with family but this is beyond their power (spiritual I guess). Thanks for your concern though

CaptJeffry:
If it's something that money can help out in, trust me, I can contribute my widow's might to help you get a permanent solution. I've done it for strangers and have even been scammed sometimes in the process but na go punish the scammers. I deactivated my old moniker because of tonnes of scam messages I got.

But if your problem is spiritual like you said and you believe, well goodluck. I will tell you this, I don't believe in spiritual sickness though. I say this because I've seen a lady who had elephantiasis and said they did that to her in the village. My friends and I helped brought her to the US for treatment and the doctors did surgery on the legs straight away. Today, she's walking and now jokes about how she was wasting her time with pastors as well as native doctors.

I said all that to encourage you to seek medical help and stop believing in those spiritual nonsense. Every sickness has a name, stop believing your pastors, they aren't doctors.

EmergencyCase:
wow, I'm motivated I'll try to raise 30k within a month or two and do a scan and let some of you (excluding antagonisers) know how far. I should have done it earlier but felt it was a waste of time. Because scarce resources like that was better for food or household stuff.

My fear was that what if, to corroborate what the ENT doctor said, if I check and nothing is found. The money would be wasted. My mum was once annoyed I blew 10k at a private hospital for ineffective check up.


I know better now. Hoping to get in touch soon

robosky02:
you're wicked

andergirl:

What exactly are you suffering from?? I ve previously had an infection in my ear that was cured within days but before then it was hell,suffering and pain within the head region is hell on earth so I can symphatize with you. You earlier mentioned u saw an ent doctor so I deduced your ailment is within those regions. So please kindly explain, what exactly is the problem?

mhisbliss:
Dude your condition ain't gonna get better if you keep complaining about it on nairaland, last time i checked complaints don't do jack sh!t, i wonder why an able bodied young man would stay and watch everything crumble when he can easily get busy and make money, quit whining like an overfed pig and get off your lazy ass, get busy you giant baby

EmergencyCase:
Hmm... Do you know me before now to have drawn your conclusion that I'm able-bodied and unwilling to work?


Check all I wrote again

Oyindidi:
How am I wicked?

robosky02:
very wicked

Oyindidi:
Hmmmmm.... If you say so. Don't want to argue though I'm not a wicked person. You can ring me if there's any misunderstanding but calling me wicked hurts a little but I'm cool since its coming from a friend.

Good morning

LivingFree:
This frustrated rat!!! How much will it take to shut you up! You are so depressing, if you've given up on life, could you die quietly, pleaaaase

robosky02:
what is good about the moni when in 3 months I've been off here and you canty call

DrObum:

Jeez, are you this mean?