Not every man can take the disappointing and humiliation from NIgeria wives imported to America. Wives killers on rampage in the US
An Epidemic: Nigerian Men Killing Their Nurse Wives In America "Yes, I have killed the woman that messed up my life; the woman that has destroyed me. I am at Shalom West. My name is David and I am all yours.” Those were David Ochola’s words during his 911 (U.S. Emergency Number) call to authorities after shooting dead, his 28 years old wife, Priscilla Ochola, in Hennepin, Minnesota.

The 50-years old, husband was tired of being “disrespected” by his wife, a Registered Nurse (RN) whom he had brought from Nigeria and sponsored through nursing school only to have her make much more than him in salary - a situation which led to Mrs. Ochola “coming and going as she chose without regard for her husband.”
The couple had two children – four years old boy and a three year old girl.

In Texas, Babajide Okeowo had been separated from his wife, Funke Okeowo, with whom he resided at their Dallas home. Upon the divorce, the husband lost the house to his wife, along with most of the contents therein, as is usually the tradition in the U.S. Divorces where the couple still has underage children.
Mr. Okeowo, 48, divorced his wife because not long after she became an RN and made more money than him, she “took control” of the family finances and “controlled” her husband’s expenditure and movement.
The husband could no longer make any meaningful contribution to his family back in Nigeria unless the wife “approved” it. He could not go out without her permission. Frustrated that his formerly malleable wife had suddenly become such a “terror” to him to the point of asking for in court and getting virtually everything for which he had worked since coming to the US thirty years prior, the husband got in his vehicle and drove a few hundred miles to Dallas to settle the scores.

He found her in her SUV, adorned in full Nigerian attire on her way to the birthday bash organized in her honor. She had turned 46 on that day. Mr. Okeowo fired several rounds into his wife’s torso while she sat at the steering wheel, mercilessly killing her in broad daylight.

Also in Dallas (they sure need anger management classes in Dallas), Moses Egharevba, 45, did not even bother to get a gun. The husband of Grace Egharevba, 35, bludgeoned her to death with a sledge hammer while their seven year old daughter watched and screamed for peace.
Mrs. Egharevba’s “sin” was that she became an RN and started to make more money than her husband. This led to her “financial liberation” from a supposedly tight-fisted husband who had not only brought her from Nigeria, but had also funded her nursing school education.

Like Moses Egharevba, Christopher Ndubuisi of Garland, Texas, (these Texas people!) also did not bother to get a gun. He crept into the bedroom where his wife, Christiana, was sleeping and, with several blows of the sledge hammer, crushed her head.
Two years before Christiana was killed, her mother, who had been visiting from Nigeria, was found dead in the bathtub under circumstances believed to be suspicious.

Of course, Christiana was a RN whose income dwarfed that of her husband as soon as she graduated from nursing school. The husband believed that his role as a husband and head of the household had been usurped by his wife.
Mr. Ndubuisi’s several entreaties to his wife’s family to intercede and bring Christiana back under his control had all failed.

If the circumstances surrounding the death of Christiana’s mother were suspicious, those surrounding the death of a Tennessee woman’s mother were not. Agnes Nwodo, an RN, lived in squalor before her husband, Godfrey Nwodo, rescued her and brought her to the US. He enrolled her in nursing school right away. Upon qualifying as a RN, Mrs. Nwodo assumed “full control” of the household. She brought her mother to live with them against her husband’s wishes. Mrs. Nwodo quickly familiarized herself with US Family Laws and took full advantage of them.
Each time the couple argued, the police forced the husband to leave the house whether he had a place to sleep or not. On many occasions, Mr. Nwodo spent days in police cells. Upon divorcing his wife, Mr. Nwodo lost to his wife, the house he had owned for almost 20 years before he married her.
He also lost custody of their three children to her, with the court awarding him only periodic visitation rights. Even seeing the children during visitation was always a hassle as the wife would “arrive late at the neutral meeting place and leave early with impunity.”

Mr. Nwodo endured so many embarrassing moments from his wife and her mother until he could take it no more. One day, he bought himself a shotgun and killed both his wife and her mother.

Caleb Onwudike’s wife, Chinyere Onwudike, 36, became a RN and no longer saw the need to be controlled by her husband. Mr. Onwudike, 41, worked two jobs to send his wife to her dream school upon bringing her to the US from Nigeria. After four years, she qualified as an RN. Once she started to make more money than her husband, she began to “call the shots” at home. She “overruled” her husband on the size and cost of the house they purchased in Burtonsville, Maryland. She began to build a house solely in her name in their native Umuahia town of Abia State, Nigeria, without her husband’s input whatsoever.

Mrs. Onwudike came and went “as she liked,” within the US and outside the US. In fact, she once travelled to Nigeria for three weeks “without her husband’s permission” to lavishly bury her father, despite her husband’s protestations that they had better things to do with the money.
Mrs. Onwudike let her husband know that this was mostly her money and she would spend it however she wanted. Through her hard work, she had risen to a managerial position at the medical center where she worked.
Upon her return from burying her father, her husband got one of her kitchen knives and carved her up like a Thanksgiving turkey inside their home on New Year’s Day.

Death is death, no matter how it comes. But the goriest of these maniacal killings is probably the one that happened here in Los Angeles, California.
Joseph Mbu, 50, was tired of his RN wife’s “serial disrespect” of him. The disrespect began as soon as she became a RN. Gloria Mbu, 40, had once told her husband he must be “smoking crack cocaine” if he thought he could tell her what to do with her money now that she made more money than him.

Before she became a RN, Mr. Mbu had been very strict with family finances and was borderline dictatorial in his dealings with Mrs. Mbu. However, Mrs. Mbu learned the American system and would no longer allow any man to “put her down.” When Joseph Mbu could not take it anymore, he subdued his wife one day, tied her to his vehicle and dragged her on paved roads all around Los Angeles until her head split in many pieces.
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Very sad.

Men should stop taking full responsibility of a woman's education. If her father cannot train her, you could help her start a small business that will support her through school. She should hustle like every other person, there are people doing it. If she is abroad, let her take up jobs to save or she should stay at home and have babies.

See where their love for living "la vi da loca" has gotten them. Everyone lost!

See how these poor men who meant well for their wives will spend the best years of their lives locked behind bars.

Nigerian women in the Diaspora from what I hear, can sometimes be uncouth,especially those who were flown abroad by their spouses.

If u r abroad, marry and keep yr wives at home. Our ladies are easily carried away by frivolities of staying abroad

ejikemeuwa:
If u r abroad, marry and keep yr wives at home. Our ladies are easily carried away by frivolities of staying abroad

that's what most sharp edo guys based abroad are doing now.their parents will arrange for wives in Nigeria for dem to marry. They come during the Christmas or other holidays to impregnate the woman after which dem go back.dem go dey send d wife monthly allowance and if she born dey will be sending both d wife and kids montly allowance.though the only snag be say d wife might tend to sleep around as a result of being lonely.many of these guys no dey dare think about bringing over their naija based wives cos dem know anything can happen.

SoapQueen:
Very sad.

Men should stop taking full responsibility of a woman's education. If her father cannot train her, you could help her start a small business that will support her through school. She should hustle like every other person, there are people doing it. If she is abroad, let her take up jobs to save or she should stay at home and have babies.

See where their love for living "la vi da loca" has gotten them. Everyone lost!

See how these poor men who meant well for their wives will spend the best years of their lives locked behind bars.

Nigerian women in the Diaspora from what I hear, can sometimes be uncouth,especially those who were flown abroad by their spouses.

its safer and better marrying a woman where u based than coming back home to marry a total stranger all in the name of preserving tradition. U now marry her,carry her overseas with u and sponsor her in nursing school. When she starts working she brings up d issue about u not being her type of man..sues for divorce and takes over ur house,property,car and everything u own.hmm

Why would a man kill his wife I'm still trying to get a perfect answer

biacan:
Why would a man kill his wife I'm still trying to get a perfect answer

because she is a witch. Why would a woman kill her husband?

Cutehector:
because she is a witch. Why would a woman kill her husband?

It takes a witch to know a witch....... women where only trying to be defensive

biacan:
It takes a witch to know a witch....... women where only trying to be defensive

I pray your brother's wife won't kill him , I will love to see your face

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Cutehector:
I pray your brother's wife won't kill him , I will love to see your face

I will kill her before she even think of it

biacan:
I will kill her before she even think of it

you see your life.. Aren't you now the witch

Cutehector:
you see your life.. Aren't you now the witch

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Men and women are different mentally, until a man accepts this, he ll keep making mistakes.

The mistake we make is that we think these women are our equals or peers.

They are extremely and entirely different, have our opposite mentality.

The fact is that, a man will have all this money and still be humble and very good to his wife. But the reverse is the case with women. Majority of them are completely unable to handle success, especially the ones who were once poor.

Forget whatever you think you know, the only way to have a complete peace of mind in your home, especially in Nigeria, is to make sure you earn more money than your wife does. That's the only guarantee of your sanity.

The examples above are are to common to be called a coincidence.

This a clear lesson to men and a cruel reminder of how cold, ungrateful, forgetful and unbecoming women are.

Train a woman to be greater than you in any aspect at your own peril!!.

lefulefu:
that's what most sharp edo guys based abroad are doing now.their parents will arrange for wives in Nigeria for dem to marry. They come during the Christmas or other holidays to impregnate the woman after which dem go back.dem go dey send d wife monthly allowance and if she born dey will be sending both d wife and kids montly allowance.though the only snag be say d wife might tend to sleep around as a result of being lonely.many of these guys no dey dare think about bringing over their naija based wives cos dem know anything can happen.

My guy na so. Even if an me an so I go dey do. And an de tin wet I go do sec. Living with d wife abroad no too make unless the children don't grow well well then u fit tell her make come, by then nothing she fit use do shakara. Although I go dey visit 2/ 3 times a year. Or Sometimes tell am make she visit. True talk bro

OdogwuMike:
Men and women are different mentally, until a man accepts this, he ll keep making mistakes.


The fact is that, a man will have all this money and still be humble and very good to his wife. But the reverse is the case with women. Majority of them are completely unable to handle success, especially the ones who were once poor.


This a clear lesson to men and a cruel reminder of how cold, ungrateful, forgetful and unbecoming women are.

Train a woman to be greater than you in any aspect at your own peril!!.

How did you get this conclusions out of these examples?

You know his telling they bitter truth.

MarjieJ98354:


How did you get this conclusions out of these examples?

I am quite sure there are nurse wives there who are still married and living peacefully with their husbands. And there are men who are earning more than their wives and are maltreating their wives.

It's really about the character of the person involved, the state of their relationship, the level of maltreatment from their husbands before they blew.

It could even be that the men cannot handle the fact that their wives are richer. They are no longer the ones in control...the one with the money to control and bully. He may have been using money as a power control tactic. But now...

It is well.

I pity men residing abroad who still pick up home-based girls as wives to abroad.. They only see you as a stepping ladder to her wealth, not as spouses. If peradventure I travel abroad and want to marry, I'll simply married a girl from a family residing there. There are Nigerian Americans living there who raised and trained there children there. This is to avoid stories that touch.. " live and marry within your class and status. People's mentalities varies with classes

Nawa. heartless men and women. women should learn to respect their husbands. you gain nothing by disrespecting your husband.

Cc Lalasticlala

The one sided article says men are killing women and Nairaland boys are as usual blaming the women! Did you read the word "killing"? What on earth justifies killing? Are you guys alright at all or you have all allowed chauvinism to becloud your reasoning? Why do we seize every opportunity to call out women even when it's obvious men are the heartless ones here? If the article had said women were killing men for cheating, you'd still blame the women. Now men are killing women for the sake of their mangled ego and still, you're blaming women. What kind of youths are we producing?

Our men want to take the culture of making women second class citizens abroad and it's not working. They cry foul and resort to killing and yet we see nothing wrong with that. Chauvinism is bad!

MR NWODO'S STORY IS THE SADDEST, THAT WOMAN GOT HIM FVCKED UP MENTALLY I DON'T BLAME HIM I WOULDA DONE WORSE IF FACT I'D HAVE WIPED OUT HER ENTIRE GENERATION B4 GETTING CAUGHT


ANYWAY WISDOM IS REQUIRED WHEN DEALING WITH WOMEN ..

Lol after reading this I bursted Into laughter....Na by force to marry. Black man and Pussy Palava no they End lol.