How can i deal with a heartbreak from over 5years of courtship with my fiancee? I am ready to move on but i just don't know how.

it will happen in time
i broke up wiv my ex after nearly 4 years
and am still standing n v mch in lov wiv some1 else

I understand Viva, but a lot of things remind me of her and it hurts so badly. I hope/wish i get over her soonest.

cos u guys have been so lng together, a whole bunch of things r gonna remind u of her,its normal
i actually dream bout my ex somthimes n it really winds me up
n some times i remember nice things bout him n sometimes i rem horrible things bout him too
i dont want to go bck to him but i cant help the fact that we were 2gether 4 a lng while n we lived 2gether
all i kno is that in time he will fade away

my advice is dnt start a new rel, till ure sure ur over her cos it wont b fair to the new gal

Thanks a bunch, yeah i know I'll heal with time. I'm actually this worried cos i have a delicate job which requires 100% concentration, this whole issue has really robbed me of that. I proposed to her last Val's day(even though now i wish i never did) which still brings sour memories. I will survive.

TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS,
it's just a matter of time, u will get over it

charming4:

Thanks a bunch, yeah i know I'll heal with time. I'm actually this worried cos i have a delicate job which requires 100% concentration, this whole issue has really robbed me of that. I proposed to her last Val's day(even though now i wish i never did) which still brings sour memories. I will survive.

I believe with time, you would heal. I myself just got out of a 3 years relationship ( pls read my Post titled - HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE TO GET OVER AN EX) and I must tell you even if its been like a month since we broke up, I still need more time to heal because it's a gradual process. Don't rush it, you will overcome just like I eventually would also. Sorry to ask, but was it a mutual thing or what was the cause of the break up, ?

However, my little advice to you is to cut all communications with her, don't go to places that remind you of her, put away all pix of her, gifts or belongings that remind remind you of her, get closer to God(if your a christain), forgive her and let go, be optimistic about future relationship and love. Just put it in your mind it wasn't meant to be and probably God was trying to save your from future heart breaks. Don't worry, this shall soon pass ok. We shall overcome. Takia

Thanks everyone.

To forget her, date someone better in all ramifications to her. Have s.ex more with the new person and do away with anything or person or place that reminds you of her.

Some guys never stop talking about the ex, All the pain. Sometimes you break up cause of fighting and some guys play the victim role as I am sure she is being a victim also. 5 years is a long time, so I understand.

Personally if your a man, the way to get over it is to have lots of sx with different women. It is a physical thing, so get physical. Becareful that you do not talk about he pain of the ex to the new women you meet. Just have fun and F your brains out. Worked for me.

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