NwaAmaikpe:



Please don't end it.
Who are all of you dumping these toxic girls for?

Abeg let every man carry his cross.

graciousify:
please try talking to her about how you feel.

NwaAmaikpe:



Please don't end it.
Who are all of you dumping these toxic girls for?

Abeg let every man carry his cross.

NwaAmaikpe:



Please don't end it.
Who are all of you dumping these toxic girls for?

Abeg let every man carry his cross.

igetjoyfromthis:
I am so happy for you bro. Ending a toxic relationship will be the best thing you have done in a long time. It will give you so much relief.

Do not listen to these idiots telling you to work it out with her. Women will always support their fellow women even when they know the lady to be in the wrong.

End the relationship bro. I am solidly backing you.

SenorFax:
Congrats on finally waking up

Before you beg the guy not to quit, think of these:

-Am sure the girl didn't buy anyone anything for 3years, right? Not her bestie, friends, family, or anybody...... If your answer is yes then you must be high on "Tramadull"

The saying goes, you can't love without giving and you can't give without loving.
Another goes like "Your heart will always be were your money is", more goes to commitment and care, you'll always care for what you love, no matter how broke you are.

This is 3years guys...... Raise up your hand if you can withstand this. Jokes apart, putting yourself in the girl's shoes is good, but putting yourself in the guy's shoe is even more realistic, this ain't Disneyland.

Giving something back is not mostly love, it's called appreciation.

biacan:
Instead of you to advise him on how to fix his relationship you want to ruin what he has worked hard to keep Listen well and listen carefully there is no relationship without challenges and if run away from your fears now you'll surely meet them in the future

ola9ja:


Bianca, I would like you to read the full story, please send me your mail

biacan:
I did like you to post it here so that intellectuals can deliberate on it

Mcy56:
Those with head have no cap and those with cap have no head. When I keep reading about all these men giving a lady this and that, I always wonder the type of luck I have

ola9ja:


It's voluminous, only if you will personally read it first, then I would post it for all

SoapQueen:
Babe, abeg shift make I follow you wonder. Na which kain luck follow me come?

ola9ja:
Most of these girls don't really love us, it's just a symbiotic relationship, I would be ending my present relationship on Monday, my birthday, I really thought I would get married to her but the relationship has become a toxic one so I had to move on with my life. I can not manage a toxic relationship, imagine sacrificing so much in a relationship that you have to go out of your own will to meet her needs , I have bought her phones twice, paid more than half of her house rent in school twice, it's a distant relationship and we have dated for 3years +, she hasn't even bought me an handkerchief before, I can't figure out one thing that I have learnt from her, I don't and won't regret what I have done for her but I am saddened that I have been in relationship with the wrong person for 5 fruitful years of my life. I will be 31 on Monday.

I don't regret spending on people but I usually get frustrated spending wrongly on people.

I like living people better than the way I met them.

I wouldn't really assume that I didn't learn anything from this relationship, I have learnt a lot and these are the things I have learnt...

1. Even the kindest person can turn into a cold-hearted person.

2. Even if you're madly in love, you should never think with your heart but with your brain.

3. You should never put your happiness in someone else’s hands because you never know when they will decide to leave you.

4. The more you show a person you love them, the less they will reciprocate or appreciate it.

5. It’s human nature to take things for granted, specially in long term relationships. They’ll always look for something better once the infatuation phase ends.

6. Relationships should not be governed solely by love, but also and most importantly by trust, understanding, maturity and SELF-RESPECT.

7. The moment you lose your self-respect you will see your partner as ‘too good to be true’. You will put them on a pedestal and be their slave. Never lose your self-respect and dignity.

8. Master the balance of power and you’ll master the whole relationship.

9. If you constantly show them you love them and care for them, they will start taking you for granted.

10. Distance yourself from your partner from time to time. It will help you see your relationship in a proper perspective.

11. Two main things should be present in a relationship: Trust and communication. If one of them is absent, your relationship is doomed to fail.

12. Being needy and clingy out of love is never a good idea because it will push your partner away and make them love you less.

13. The person that loves less in the relationship is the one in control of the relationship. It’s important to set a balance of power between you two or else one of you will definitely get hurt.

14. If your happiness is in someone else’s hands you’re rooting for conditional happiness. If they leave you, you will end up all alone, sad, depressed, hopeless and even suicidal. No one on this planet should control your happiness other than yourself.

15. The moment you hurt your partner, they will change forever even though you try your best to bring their good old self back.

16. Even if you give someone your heart, it’s not guaranteed that they will reciprocate.

17. The moment they start showing lack of interest, believe them instead of trying to convince yourself that they’re ‘mad’ or ‘going through a phase’ and that everything will be alright.

18. What’s meant for you will always be yours.

19. Sometimes God removes people from your life in an abrupt way because you were being led to danger.

20. If you walked away from a one-sided, toxic, negative, low-vibrational relationship, you won.
And the list goes on…

Most importantly, stay strong in any relationship you’re in. People come and go, the ones meant for you will stay. Stay strong when you're at your lowest and never let a heartbreak define you.

Just have faith and learn to always smile no matter what!

ola9ja:
Most of these girls don't really love us, it's just a symbiotic relationship, I would be ending my present relationship on Monday, my birthday, I really thought I would get married to her but the relationship has become a toxic one so I had to move on with my life. I can not manage a toxic relationship, imagine sacrificing so much in a relationship that you have to go out of your own will to meet her needs , I have bought her phones twice, paid more than half of her house rent in school twice, it's a distant relationship and we have dated for 3years +, she hasn't even bought me an handkerchief before, I can't figure out one thing that I have learnt from her, I don't and won't regret what I have done for her but I am saddened that I have been in relationship with the wrong person for 5 fruitful years of my life.